Guys, there was this guy. who loved me a lot. He proposed to me 4 years ago, I refused his proposal. He's sister called me last week to be the bridemaid for his wedding...I refused that too. But I'm still invite it to his wedding. So here is the question...Should I dance a lot for him too? I mean I dance a lot in every weddings...and he sees me dancing so much. But if I dance little bit at his wedding, would he think that I'm sort of jealous or that I regret not marrying him?
2007-10-19 09:26:55 · 16 answers · asked by IneedyourhelpGod! 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Weddings
by the way....We don't even talk to each other...its been 4 years that we have not said a word and he got engaged to this girl only to make me jealous...but I am not jealous of that!!
2007-10-19 09:36:59 · update #1
guys...I'm already engaged too!! I have a great man in my life as well. But my fiance doesn't like that guy from my past! They both can't stand each others...and our families are so much close , that's why I'm saying will be weird to dance a lot or dance little bit...
2007-10-19 09:47:30 · update #2
Depends on what type of dancing your intending on doing. If you are dancing and having a good time because that is what you usually do then I don't think it will show jealously or regret. I think it will just show that you are having a good time. If you usually dance and decide not to at the wedding that would stand out more and he may then think you are feeling regret.
2007-10-19 09:32:31 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 1⤋
He probably doesnt care what you do. He is getting married so he has moved on and found the love of his life.
You can pretend you will be making him want you by dancing around at his wedding but I think you will find he will only have eyes for his bride.
Sounds to me like you are sort of jealous and you do regret not marrying him. Think about it and be honest with yourself and if this is the case I wouldnt attend the wedding at all.
2007-10-19 09:31:50 · answer #2 · answered by bluegirl6 6 · 8⤊ 0⤋
I don't think you have any business attending this mans wedding. If you haven't talked in the last 4 years why the heck would you even accept the invitation. I say cut your ties and leave this man alone. Plus your fiance doesn't like him, why risk upsetting him for someone that supposedly means nothing to you.
2007-10-19 10:34:26 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
Hi. I, along with others, am not understanding your question. What does....."Should I dance a lot for him too?" mean...
Do you go around suggestive dancing? That's what it sounds like. What does dancing A LOT or A LITTLE have to do with anything?
Stay home or go somewhere with your own fiance and forget this ex. It sounds like you haven't gotten over him.
2007-10-19 13:36:26 · answer #4 · answered by iloveweddings 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
I don't think his attention will be on you. Even if there were only 10 people there -- the day is about the love he shares with his wife. His fiancee wanted you to be a bridesmaid in the wedding? Are you friends with her? That's kind of strange considering you were almost his fiancee.
2007-10-19 09:53:23 · answer #5 · answered by Jasmine808 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Since you don't even talk to each other anymore- I don't think it is wise for you to go to his wedding. Send your regrets or you may regret going to his wedding when all is said and done.
And if you still want to dance- go out to a night club.
2007-10-19 09:43:09 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 5⤊ 0⤋
Go to a club. Dance there. In fact, dance your heart out. Maybe you'll find your Mr. Right.
2007-10-19 09:43:49 · answer #7 · answered by ZombieExpert 2 · 5⤊ 0⤋
Don't go. In respect for what you once had together, stay home. Or even go out somewhere and do something special for yourself.
You don't need the drama. I agree; respectfully decline.
2007-10-19 10:12:33 · answer #8 · answered by garynjanice 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I agree with vle045. Politely decline the invitation. His new wife doesn't need the turmoil that will ensue with you being there. Imagine if it was your wedding....Goes back to "Do unto others as you would have them do to you."
2007-10-19 09:36:08 · answer #9 · answered by Sunshine 6 · 4⤊ 0⤋
it might seem weird, but hey if you want to dance, DANCE! :P
Enjoy the wedding, that way he See's that your not uncomfortable or jealous, and over your previous relationship. Have fun! (And look very cute)
2007-10-19 09:32:30 · answer #10 · answered by It's Me 2 · 3⤊ 2⤋