why do i feel guilty or like i did something wrong when i get done masturbating??

Answer 1

You feel guilty, because religious groups and others condemn masturbation as being sin or bad, when it's simply pleasuring yourself instead of going out and fornacating with a bunch of different loose women.

Answer 2

It depends on how old you are. Young kids tend to feel this way because they aren't old enough to have education or experience with sexuality. So, all they know is that it feels good but they're hiding something from their parents so that makes them feel like it's something shameful. Another reason can be how you are raised. If you are raised in a house that is very strict or very religious, then you may see it as sinning when it's really not. The fact is: masturbation helps you learn more about your body, especially for women. Afterall, how can you expect a guy to know how to please you if you don't even know how to give yourself an orgasm? Masturbation is healthy and natural as long as you don't do it in inappropriate settings or places.....it's a PRIVATE thing and shouldn't be done in public places.

Answer 3

When children are very young like as in 2-3 years old they begin to touch themselves. Its natuaral and it feels good to them so they do it all the time. To save ourselves the humiliation of all of our friends seeing our youngster masterbating even tho the child doesn't realize thats what he/she is doing we as sane sensible adults smack their hands and tell them no. So the child gets mixed signals. Its perfectly natural to touch ourselves when we are very young but in order to stop it from becoming a 24-7 type thing we make it taboo. Then when the child grows to adult hood or teen years and takes up the habit again they are usually to ashamed of what they are doing to really be able to enjoy it in a healthy way. So in summary to your question ITS THE PARENTS FAULT you feel guilty but if they hadn't made you feel that way you would probably spend a great deal of time in jail for public lewd , obsenity, or some other sex crime. So thank them when you get the chance.

Answer 4

Because you conscience is trying to tell you that it is a sin. Please try not to do it. It is very tempting but it is a sin. Masturbation is not natural. Sexual pleasure is supposed to be shared between a married man and woman for the purpose of reproducing. Using birth control is also a sin for this reason. Masturbation is very selfish because you care only for your own pleasure and satisfaction. For those who will rate me with a thumbs down, you just don't want to hear the truth. This is a "pornified" culture we live in and we have to ask for forgiveness and turn back to God.

Answer 5

I feel that too but im not really a very religious person but it feels like every time i masterbate the next day something goes wrong for me! but yer i feel reli guilty, i think its cause ur having pleasure and they arent!

Answer 6

perhaps the way you were raised, or the victorian and totally outdated notion that it's wrong....unhealthy...evil...
...is still influencing your mode of thought.

It's normal as long as it's not done in excess, and in private.
Do not feel guilty...look at is as a pressure valve....would you rather go about being sexually fustrated?
....and it won't do anything like cause hair to grow on your palms or clear up your skin...or cause you to break out more.....it does not lead to memory loss or affect intelligence......you'd be suprised how many old wives' tales still linger

Answer 7

that is a very complex question. you could associate sex acts with guilt for many reasons.

an important thing to remember is sex is natural. masturbation is natural. (in fact, its unnatural for men not to do it, and repressive when females dont)
when you can accept- truly be ok with your sexual urges and behaviors, you will feel better.

this will take soul searching and forgiveness for yourself, because your human and have natural and healthy desires. Accepting sex and masturbation and everything associated with it will help you have healthy sexual experiences

Answer 8

if you honestly feel guilty instead of a deep sense of satisfaction, you are doing something horribly wrong !
Maybe you should do some research and learn the techniques of this ancient art ...

Answer 9

because that was the way you were brought up to think. Masterbation is a natural thing, you shouldn't feel guilty...most people do it

Answer 10

probably because you're not supposed to be doing that. I don't think that's the ultimate plan for your wankee....

it's like eating a whole box of cookies at once... indulging yourself.

I think the whole idea of jacking off is really nasty. Get a girlfriend or something...