why do women sleep with married men?

Question

diamond i know a hooker by that same name. she loves married men. where does your hubby work?

im not asking why men do it. i want opinions from the women who sleep with married men. do they even think when there are kids involved? what goes through a homewreckers mind. ppl say it takes two to tango...so why would you want to be the other half to ruin something. i can understand if it happened to you and you are doing it because it happened to you.

Answer 1

Because they are jealous that some other woman has them, and want to compete with the other female. It's so silly, women fool themselves and think that the man is going to leave their wives, they very rarely do. They are just enjoying a side piece. The mistress has really nothing to gain and everything to lose.

Answer 2

Funny if you read the responses most of the women are well mean. But to answer your question it would have to depend on the situation. First it's also the "married man" who is sleeping w/ the single woman. It takes two to tango and two to be a homewrecker. It's not just the woman's fault. But why do women do it? Well alot of reasons. First maybe their lonely and a man may pay alot of attention to her b/c his wife isn't or they've just grown apart. Alot of men lie to women and let them believe that they are so special and then the women start to believe it and feel that he will leave his wife. And alot of men actually tell them this, along w/ the I love you's, the visits, dinners, just like a real couple. Then there are the lunch time booty calls. Maybe a woman feels the need for no strings. Maybe she is hopeing that there will eventually be more. You don't know why unless you know that situation. I don't believe that there are a lot of women who just sleep w/ married men to break up homes and then leave. I think alot of men/women are in lala land when something takes place.

Answer 3

Oh Cha not nice picking on diamond tisk tisk.

Why do women sleep with married men? because married men get bored , frustrated and annoyed within their marriages and instead of trying to fix the situation with their wive's they go outside the marriage and find someone who is new , exciting , sexy and not tied down by kid's and bill's and stress , so dont blame the woman because if the male didnt go hunting she wouldnt get the worm.

I am the married man and I am fighting to keep what I lost.

Answer 4

I did it for 5 years, I've come to learn alot about myself and why I allowed it to go on and why I actually did it in the first place. I had no confidence in myself, felt all alone in the world and very vulnerable. But I fell in love. I am an educated woman who grew up in a loving home, I was taught morals, I know right from wrong.. These people who have answered and are quick to attack and call names and assume the woman is a whore with no values and is a homewrecker should not be so quick to judge.. I never thought I would allow myself to be in this position.. and hopefully none of you "good, honest people" find yourself in this position.

Answer 5

Some are home wreckers who want to take the man's money away because they know men are dumb enough to do that. If you listen to a lot of the women they're hurt and they have secret motives for doing it. Like I said some are in it for the money and they reasoned that their mothers stayed at home and took care of the house and they saw their dad go with his mistress and give her everything she wanted while their mother suffered and knew what was happening. The way they figured was why should they do that if the men are gonna stab them in the back, People who believe in love and marriage are stupid because men never bring anything good. That's from some women's point of view. Others are just evil and might wanna get back at someone else.

There are many other reasons but these are a couple.

Answer 6

They want what they can't have. Married men are better people than single men, because they're in love with their wives and kids, and u can see it. U know that if they do sleep with u, they're only in it for sex..but women think they can change that mentality, and make the guy leave his wife, and fall for them...and once that happens, well...this nice, sweet, wonderful man who spends money on them...well...he'd never cheat on them...because unlike his previous wife...the current one, will give him what he wants, needs, and desires, because she's had practice as his mistress. So see, she had the best of both worlds....and hey...she knows how to KEEP her man! Yeah, they're fooling themselves!

Answer 7

More like, 'why are married men sleeping with women'? But, I think married men and the women they sleep with, do it for the thrill of it, makes it more exciting, if it was all out in the open, it probably wouldn't work anyway.

Answer 8

The is an age old question. One that I have never really understood. I know plenty of women who have though and It really annoys me. I have asked them why and they have looked at me stupid. I have lost friends because I thought it wrong and told them so. Truth is you just can't blame the women. The married men could say no. But they don't. So who do you blame. The women for allowing it, or the men for accepting it. No easy answer here. :-)

Answer 9

Why do married men sleep with women other than their wives?

There are many different reasons: They don't know he is married; and if they do, maybe they actually think they love him regardless of the wife/kids; maybe it is thinking there will be nothing more than sex - no strings...

It's a sick, sad world.

Answer 10

A few reasons:
1)They have no respect for themselves or anyone else
2)They want what they can't have
3)They may actually think these men love them when in reality they are most likely being used

*I have no respect for these women and I believe karma will get them one day...maybe they will get married and be cheated on