I have been really good friends with her. We talk all the time and are pretty close. Sometimes i feel like asking her sexual question, about masturbation and virginity.. Kinda getting dirty with her.. I personally think she would like it just as much as me, because sometimes when we talk you can kinda see it... I was wondering if I should and if it would make our relationship as friends stronger... What do you think i should do? BTW, Im 13 and so is she.
2007-10-19 11:01:17 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
WTF?! You are only 13. Where are your parents. Sex never makes friendships stronger. How about a relationship or bertter yet...MARRIAGE. That is never the answer to deepen a friendship. You guys are too young anyway. Worry about getting into high school.
2007-10-19 11:05:31 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
13; son, the last thing you should be doing is considering having sex. You're only 13 years old. Think about the consequences first. Are you ready at 13 to hold down a full time job to support a family? What about your education? What about your family and the problems and stress that you being a father at such a young age would bring? What about your dreams and who and what you want to be? Being a father at your age will do nothing but limit your possibilities and your future. Abstinence is the best form of birth control, everything else that is on the market today (pills, patches, contraceptives, condoms, etc.) are not 100% fool proof. Stick to school and your studies. Take the time to figure out who you are and how responsible you really are, before you have no choice in the matter. You are going to get other answers to your question I'm sure, some saying go ahead and do it. If you never listen to an adult again in your life, make an effort this time; because NOT having sex (for you and your future) would be the best decision. It's perfectly fine to be just friends.
Good luck kiddo
2007-10-19 18:16:42 · answer #2 · answered by femalepit 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Friends talk about all sorts of topics, and at your age, you are very curious about sex. If you are comfortable discussing this, it's fine.
As far as sex goes, if you are not financially equpped to handle the consequences of having sex (pregnancy) then don;'t have sex. Emotionally, you are too young, also.
I know kids experiment, and there's nothing i can do to stop it. This is just advice from someone who has been there.
2007-10-19 18:10:31 · answer #3 · answered by letterstoheather 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO.
2007-10-19 18:31:52 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋