What should I do? Should I beat her up?? I'm confused!?

Question

Ok so I'm having sex with my manager at work, and it's a good deal. I got a raise and can pretty much do whatever without ever getting in trouble. But now this other skank I'm working with is asking people if she should try and start sleeping with him too!

I mean if she starts sleeping with him then I might lose some of the perks of being his "special friend" I don't want to share him with another coworker! Should I kick her a**??? Help please.

Answer 1

We all should have unlimited freedom to get over in this world even if its sleeping with our boss...HECK i wish i could sleep with my boss and get over. His strong muscular arms are enough for me to cuhm. But, i also think perks come at a price and that is: ***** me once i'm horny, ***** me twice i'm a manager, ***** me thrice i'm yesterday's news. sooo you see it takes three times before a guy is done with you and that sucks as much as you sucked his dicck.

Answer 2

Wow. First of all no guy is worth fighting over physically. That just makes you look like a really bad person. Second of all, you're calling this girl a skank because she is trying to sleep with the boss to get a raise etc? You are doing the same thing!!! Third of all, get out of the relationship and change jobs, find a job where you can work hard and earn money, not sleep with your managers to get a raise that you don't deserve through sex. That is like prostitution!

Answer 3

"SELF-RESPECT"!!!!!!!! U need to get plenty of it!! Your boss is using you and that raise was jus his way of paying you for your favors.Don't think you are the first nor the last one he's done like this. You need to re-educate yourself in more ways then one.Try making money with your mind and not laying on your back. whether you realize it or not you are jus his personal in house whore! He probably has a wife and kids at home. How would you like it if she your *ss and his!! skank is really to good a word for what you are doing,trash is more fitting.
And whats really bad is that you would actually ask for advice about doing something as trifiling as this. You must not have any true friends or family because if you did they would tell you how wrong tis whole thing is from start to finish. As for the other "skank" do you think she'd just willing let you kick her *ss! She may won't a raise more than you do and she may think she maybe able to get abigger one than you did! What gos around comes around!!!!!! Be sure you know how to handle what you are dishing out!!!!

Answer 4

NO! Never fight over a man. It's classless not that sleeping with your boss for special privileges isn't either. But you can simply talk to her, tell her that you 2 are a couple. And you'd appreciate if she doesn't make advances at you man. If she takes it any further then report her to hr. And when h.r. asks about your relationship with your sup deny, deny, deny. Keep you personal work relationships private....no one in the workplace should know about the two of you. But Why call her a skank, it sounds like your the skank....so unprofessional

Answer 5

First of all you should probably hide your profile q&a's because everyone can read them. Secondly if this is a real issue, and I seriously doubt that it is, I'd have to tell you that you need to learn to love yourself enough to stop using your body. Really, what does it matter who he sleeps with AT WORK, you're not the first and you won't be the last of his conquests. He's probably doing everything and anything that has legs. Last but not least, if I were you I'd be on the prowl for another job, when you sleep with the boss you're on your way out the door. You are a liability. He'll fire you first valid chance he gets. He will move on to his next conquest and when he does, he'll get rid of you, he can't afford to have you opening your mouth out of jealousy. So, tred lightly, at least until you line up another job.. Good Luck!

Answer 6

Who are you calling a skank? Ummm take a look in the mirror. You're doing exactly what she wants to be doing. Your just salty cause she's moving in on your territory and you're afraid she might get more or better than what you're getting. That's how life goes when you don't know how to respect yourself.
I doubt she is going to sleep with him. Sounds like she said it because she knows you get special treatment for boning the boss. But in time; he will turn you out like the twenty skanks that came before you. Hope you like chlamydia cause you most likely end up getting it. A bird like that will never change his colors.

Answer 7

Stop sleeping with your boss. No respects a girl that sleeps her way to the top so to speak, sounds like you don't even respect yourself.

Don't kick her *** all that will do is cause you loss your job and possibly get arrested if she calls the cops and you to jail for ASSAULT & BATTERY. No man is worth fighting over there is to many fish in the sea. Plus if he would sleep with you want makes you think he isn't or won't sleep with every other girl there. You probably aren't any one special to him.

Answer 8

So...you are absolutely convinced that he will cheat on you with, as you put it, "this other skank"? Does this mean that he is also doing a third party, or do you consider yourself a skank?
You also admit to trading sexual favors for benefits at work. Sounds like prostitution from where I'm sitting.

My advice...quit this job, go to college, and, while there, take an ethics course.

Answer 9

Ok so let me get this straight you want to beat up someone who wants to sleep with your boss? Repeat that in your head about 15 times and then ask the question again.

Maybe you should close your legs untill you can get some maturity!

Answer 10

You are doing something that many people consider unprofessional and unethical. That is why your co-worker is saying that. She most likely doesn't want to sleep with him really, so don't kick her a**.
But anyhow, are you using him for the "perks"? Does he know this? Why would he be faithful to you?