2007-10-19 13:02:44 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If you can't stand up for yourself now he'll just hurt you again later
2007-10-19 13:07:55 · answer #1 · answered by ritax247 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's very naive of you. Don't think it's going to get any better. I've seen it firsthand and it's not a pretty site. I saw something like that happen, and it's not even worth it. You love him even though he cheated on you!? What's next, you have to ask yourself that. You love him too much to leave, so you'll stay and forgive his disloyally to feel better. You have got to be kidding me. You need to leave him and go about your merry little life. From your statement, I can tell that you are too dependent on him. That's not good because 1. He's a cheater, 2. He's a liar, and 3. He is now a father of a baby that's not even yours. I would run the other way if I were you.
2007-10-19 20:09:59 · answer #2 · answered by Hugo rocks 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, it all depends on when he got her pregnant. did he get her pregnant while you two were seeing each other? if yes, then you really should end things with him and call it quits, but if no, then it was a mistake he made in the past and you need to decide if you want to be with a man that will have a child or not. if you do, then you forgive him, but if you dont then tell him that you are really sorry, but you have your life to live, and that does not include being with a man with a kid.
2007-10-19 20:09:58 · answer #3 · answered by sunny 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Matters of the heart are very hard to forgive. Betrayal is the hardest. In order to move on in your relationship you will have to learn to forgive or your relationship will never make it. You will have constant reminder of this betrayal with the birth of that baby.If you don't think you can do that, then you need to move on. Though you did not mention if you were together when he was with this other girl. If you were, my words to all women, once a cheater always a cheater.
good luck to you this one is a hard one, only you can make that decision.
2007-10-19 20:13:17 · answer #4 · answered by Maria C 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave him. This is the reason men behave this way, because women like you put up with it. I know some wonderful men so Im not trying to bash men but its just that when it comes to relationships, they are a little smarter than us. Print this page and save it as proof of what Im telling you because if you stay with him, I can guarantee you, your life will be miserable. And when your no longer as cute and young as you are now, there's not much you can do but leave and start over.
2007-10-19 20:10:27 · answer #5 · answered by belindaramos21 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first of all i should ask How old are you??? you sound under 16, if you are, then forget about that guy!!!! he is of no good for you and usually young girls don't have the necesary judgement to know when somebody is good or bad, if you are older then you know what you are doing, first think beyond love Do you really want to live with a guy that's has a child with another girl and that is going to see his child and be togheter with that women??? if that's ok with you then go ahead, stay with him, or maybe you should elect to use him and just be with him to have some fun :))
2007-10-19 20:10:14 · answer #6 · answered by el cuyo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u may convince urself that u will forgive him and u may even say u do or will, but apart of u never will. i know how u feel my ex who is 17 has possible got another gurl pregnant and i love him as much now as i did then. and i would never be abe to forget about that he was with another gurl and she may be having his baby. cus i wish it was me and not her..... but apart of u will never forgive him cus u know he has a connection to another woman for the rest of his life.
and u have to take into consideration, if he got her pregnant and left her, becareful that he dont do that to u too.
people make mistakes and they have to learn from them.
2007-10-19 20:11:00 · answer #7 · answered by Cole.Baby 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you really want to forgive him, then forgive him. Is he going to be a responsible father and help with the childcare? I hope so. Otherwise, you may want to re-evaluate how much you love him.
2007-10-19 20:06:53 · answer #8 · answered by Delta D 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you mean i love her so much?
why would get another girl pregant?
so you have two girls who going to give birth?
forgive who?
or are you gay and got a girl preganant and you want to say sorry to you spouse? or sorry to the girl? forgive who?
you really do not make any sense...
2007-10-19 20:07:34 · answer #9 · answered by Liz 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm in a position similar to this. I have 2 kids with someone and I left him cause he cheated on me and hit me. but i love him and i'd still sleep with him, now he has a girl pregnant and still swears how much he loves me and how he cant stand her. what ive learned their pigs and wont change but you need to come to realize that yourself
2007-10-19 20:07:43 · answer #10 · answered by Crystal D 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OMO! Sorry sweetie but you can forgive but you will never forget. I'm thinking he is probally not worth it,if he did this to you once he will do it twice. I'm hoping you know that you are better then this dude! Love yourself first .
2007-10-19 20:10:57 · answer #11 · answered by rmomala 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋