ok! we jost started our first year of hs and my friend has gotten engaged! i suppose i approve of the guy but the subject makes me cry a lot! shes one of those people that will make you cry with one look at them ! lets just say she has had a lot of bfs and i dont want her to get hurt either but ever since that fateful day she has been distant! she has faced scrutiny from her peers and mine for that matter and im worried! shje cried so much over that guy last year and now she cries when hes gone for more than a couple of hours! i dont know if im jealous or what!?! bt this is ridiculous ! i need help cuz i love her but i also want her to be safe and happy
2007-10-19 13:10:20 · 6 answers · asked by AMF 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
and no shes not pregnant or anything
2007-10-19 13:39:55 · update #1
were all freshman and shes i think 14! hmm... ?!
2007-10-19 13:40:59 · update #2
they are going to wait until they are old enugh and go to vegas
2007-10-19 13:41:25 · update #3
oh! and the cryin isnt a miserable thing its more funny then anything!
2007-10-19 13:42:33 · update #4
SHE IS not I REPEAT NOT PREGGERS! jeez she not one of those kind!
2007-10-19 13:43:30 · update #5
well, thats normal for teenagers who get engaged in high school [not that getting engaged in high school is normal] but i know of this one girl who is supposidly engaged and now she wants and emancipation from her parents [i think thats the right word..u get my point] so all you can really do is tell her your opinion if shell listen. if she doenst then theres not much you can do for her, its her life and shell just have to learn the hard way ya know? i know your worried and concerned but if she thinks she old enough to get married then she has to be old enough to make decisions by herself and learn to deal with the consequeces without running to mom and dad all the time.
ps. shes really 13??? 13 year olds arent even allowed to get married! and if hes over 18 he can get arrested.
2007-10-19 13:17:15 · answer #1 · answered by yeahxitsxsarah 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try not to worry too much. Being engaged at 14 or 15 rarely leads to a successful marriage or any marriage at all. i would just caution her about an unwanted pregnancy messing things up. Perhaps she will take the hint and use serious birth control. If this girl makes you miserable all the time, why are you wasting your happiness on her? If she has been with a lot of different guys already and crying about this one when he is out of sight, she is far, far too immature to be thinking about marriage. She is really looking for a daddy.
2007-10-19 13:32:46 · answer #2 · answered by Mama Mia 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It's now not a high-quality trouble and while this lady referred to as you at paintings you'll have flippantly instructed her to delight quit calling you considering that you and her husband aren't having an affair, as an alternative of being abusive. Maybe she hasn't stored your pics, and now you are now not on fb anymore she would depart you by myself. There is not particularly plenty she will do to you, you'll be able to constantly speak to the police if you are particularly freaked out and ask them to monitor the calls she made to you and provide her a caution. This is an excessively harm and an excessively determined lady, she's acquired a rat for a husband (why the hell might anybody wish to have a youngster with him?) and as an alternative of ditching him she's eliminating revenge on a lady she feels she's threatened by way of. Try to chill out and disregard, and in the event you get any longer hate mail then i endorse you document it. It's now not the wisest factor to flirt with married guys, although it is simply pleasant banter, the spouse would take it the unsuitable approach. The most effective factor you probably did unsuitable particularly was once thell her to f* herself, she suffered plenty considering that of her husbands movements and also you most effective contributed to it. You spoke back in an uncongenial, immature approach and to be sincere i particularly do not like this style of protecting angle. Don't decide on fights with men and women you do not know, you'll be able to in no way inform what they are in a position of.
2016-09-05 15:47:44 · answer #3 · answered by fortado 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Whoa, first of all...you are a freshman in high school? Uh no. Little girls shouldn't be getting married that young. Not even if they're pregnant or something. That is messed up. You need to tell her parents. That is what to do.
2007-10-19 13:14:40 · answer #4 · answered by bloop 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
looks like you're going through alot. why don't you tell your friend how you feel, but don't be rude about it. maybe even talk to her fiance about how you're feeling. they are both probably very stressed about the wedding. ask her fiance how he really feels about her and if he gives a good honest answer, you can bet that he really cares for her, if he doesn't talk to your friend and tell her, he is the wrong guy!
2007-10-19 13:26:48 · answer #5 · answered by anonymous user 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well.. maybe it's just becuz she has had so many bfsd and had truble with them. maybe....maybe she feels that something will happen within their relationship and fears that she will lose him too. just wait it out
2007-10-19 13:29:39 · answer #6 · answered by MaeKit 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋