me and my gf broke up after a year n a couple of days
she still talks to me and says that she still loves me and gives me those heart and kiss faces and tells me she wants to hold me and stuff
but i just want to be friends with her b/c i dont want to be with someone thats hurt me 13 times and cheated more than 3 times
i think if i stay friends with her though it'll be harder to get over her
idk what to say to her or do
2007-10-19 13:14:29 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Perhaps you should print out what you said here and read it to her. You did very well explaining your reasons and what you want to do.
2007-10-19 13:16:32 · answer #1 · answered by tkquestion 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
tell her what you just typed here only don't seem too rude. Take a deep breath, settle down, get a few minutes or more to sit down with her in a quiet place and talk about it. Tell her how you feel and how it just wouldn't work so well because of all that's happened in the past. It's best to stay away from her, anyway.. no offense. Just tell her you wanna be friends with her and nothing more. If she can't do that then she's not interested in you either, y'know what I mean. Good luck.
2007-10-19 20:18:31 · answer #2 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yea..don't even get back with her buddy, if she hurt you that many times and cheated on you THREE times??! Oh no! She thinks she can win you back with all those smoochie faces, but don't even let her think that she has you sprung! Don't do it. She is a sneaky person from what it sounds like. She had your heart and then crushed it to pieces now do not let her have you on a leash, you lay it down for her and explain to her look, you cheated three times woman and I've had ENOUGH!! Cause you deserve better, and no it's not a good idea for you to stay friends with her, bc that's just a chance for her to reel you in like a man catching a big fish from a lake. Don't let it happen, you deserve better!!
2007-10-19 20:22:01 · answer #3 · answered by Aneres 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
13 times? Wow that's harsh.
To be brutally honest, you need to tell her you just want to be friends. If you don't she'll just keep nagging at you and nagging at you and slowly she'll eat you up ! Tell her that you like her too, but just as a friend. And that when you do start to have feelings for her that you'll tell her. Btu for now you just wann abe good friends.
Good luck :]
2007-10-19 20:17:16 · answer #4 · answered by DarkBlue 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Get as far away from this girl as you can. She is an attention seeker and will tell you exactly what she thinks you want to hear in order to get the attention she thrives on.
2007-10-19 20:19:15 · answer #5 · answered by jbclamence01 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
oOo you shoudl just completely cut it off until your positive your over her enuff to have a healthy friendship with her..i went thru the same thing and i just let him go until it felt rigth for me..but never get back with her intimately cuz once a cheater always a cheater..
2007-10-19 20:17:53 · answer #6 · answered by Miranda™ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You did the right thing just stick to your guns...if she cheated on you that many times she just doesnt respect you... you deserve to find someone who does... be friends only... she'll be kicking herself in the **** later on lol..
2007-10-19 20:19:56 · answer #7 · answered by momof3 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
idk...it sounds like she still likes you but she hurt you to many times.it sometimes is hard to get over breakups so maybe she taking to hard by trying to be friends but she could want to get you to be more than friends with her.just be friends with her nothing more and talk to her about it!Good Luck!
2007-10-19 20:19:19 · answer #8 · answered by <3 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get shut are you a glutton for punishment. cheated on you three times. she taking the P--ss big time you caller her your girlfriend. sounds like she anybodys.
2007-10-19 20:20:59 · answer #9 · answered by willy wom bat 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take a break from her, ignore her calls and put her on your ignore list. You don't owe her any explanations.
2007-10-19 20:16:51 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋