here's how bad it is. i am married but there is this guy that i use to work with and i had a huge attraction to him, and still do. there is just something about him that really has me thinking about him. i would never cheat on my husband but is it wrong for me to have this feeling or is it okay to like what i see and still be married??
2007-10-19 18:23:19 · 8 answers · asked by ? 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
it is really okay to have that kind of feeling towards that guy. but it will be wrong if you get too close to him (i hope you know what i mean).
so avoid getting burned, don't court with trouble. find something else to occupy your mind. you fancy for this guy may just soon fade away if you stop thinking too much about it.
best of luck!
2007-10-19 18:32:51 · answer #1 · answered by ••Tara•• 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Did you really think that just because you got married that you would never be attracted to another human being? That's just silly. Of course it's okay. It's what we call HUMAN NATURE. The key to staying committed is being tempted, but not acting on those temptations. Don't get emotionally attached to this guy, and remember why you got married to whomever you're married to. But there's nothing wrong in liking what you see, just don't touch!
2007-10-20 01:30:46 · answer #2 · answered by Tkatinpdx 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ofcourse it's natural to be attracted to other guys. However it seems you didn't marry the right man necause you don't love him and should of gone out this guy. Thats the problem with young couples rushing into marriage, you may be making mistakes. Just get a divorce and stop torturing yourself. I can say divorce can you???
2007-10-20 01:29:21 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I once liked someone who was off limits and I really didn't feel bad about it. I was only 17 at the time. And we did get together many times. But now I would never do that.
2007-10-20 01:29:04 · answer #4 · answered by Jai 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, I have liked someone knowing it was wrong. I (we) also made the mistake of cheating. I (we) ruined her marriage! Both of us knowing it was just a fling.
She's still married to him, (for the kids). He hates me, and loves, but dislikes her. My advise....don't go there!!
2007-10-20 01:33:32 · answer #5 · answered by david 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it is totally fine to have feelings for this guy, because u never actually got over him! plus u don't really think that ur huusband doesn't think other woman are hot? because he does! every guy does!
2007-10-20 01:28:23 · answer #6 · answered by Katleen F 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its normal but...this is how affairs begin so keep your distance. Its not love but either a crush or lust and your feelings will fade in time.
2007-10-20 01:30:58 · answer #7 · answered by pennylane 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
by my point of view you should control your feelings and try to change your mind........ mind can be change..... its true..... but thats not good to cheat your husband..... really thats not fair... by cheating your husband you will not be able to face yourself......really iam right...just try to change your mind... hope you can do it..... i can also help you.....just have one or two meetings with me at online yahoo messenger
2007-10-20 01:33:34 · answer #8 · answered by Sunny 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋