Me and my girlfriend have been going out for about 2 weeks. We haven't kissed yet but i want to. Tonight i asked her out to homecoming(next weekend) and she said yes. When I had to leave from a friends house at about 11, we hugged, but i chickened out and didnt kiss, we might go see a movie tommorow night. Should I just wait for our first kiss to be at homecoming during a slow dance or something?
2007-10-19 18:30:08 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
The first kiss "is" the special moment and therefore does not need any real or imagined special circumstances. You choose the time and place that is most comfortable for you and her.
Going for a kiss is a scary moment for most guys. Just like the initial approach, and just like when you ask for a number, it is a point where you could be rejected. Most guys will talk for a few minutes, or hours and then lunge in for a kiss, or they will wait for a movie moment style kiss outside her house. These moments are usually awkward for you AND her.
To kiss a girl earlier on, and without any chance of her rejecting you, you need to do it smoothly.
While kissing, you can put one hand on your partner’s waist and the other against the middle of their back. You can cup her face in your hands, put them around their waist, put them around your partner’s neck, hold her upper or lower arms or run your fingers through her hair.
If you are nervous about the first kiss and would like to go for a ‘care for you a lot’ or ‘miss you’ kiss rather than the erotic kiss, then you can go for the ‘closed kisses’. Here instead of opening your lips, you keep them closed. This is also a good way of letting your partner know that you respect her boundaries but still you love her and feel that she is one special person in your life.
2007-10-19 18:56:07 · answer #1 · answered by aquarius448 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Awe that is so cute! I remember my first kiss, it was at the movies and I looked over at him and he just kissed me. All i can remember was that I had been waiting for him to do it forever, and then he FINALLY did.. most likely she is waiting for you to make the first move, because girls dont generally want to make the first move when its their first kiss. But if you take too long she might lose interest, so I say you just do it when you think the moment is right, you dont have to wait until homecoming.
2007-10-19 18:35:58 · answer #2 · answered by soccerchic4u02 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that would be very sweet of you to wait until homecoming but if the time is right before then go ahead.
2007-10-19 18:33:49 · answer #3 · answered by Nicole L 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think you should plan it. You will know when it feels like the right time, whether it's the movies or homecoming. I hope this helps you!
2007-10-19 18:34:03 · answer #4 · answered by Jessica F 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do it at the homecoming. It's much more romantic. Make sure to bring her flowers at the homecoming when you pick her up.=D
2007-10-19 18:52:36 · answer #5 · answered by CocoQ. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i the romantique type of guy and i would wait to homecoming especially if it was her first kiss ever, in the movies you guys could just cuddle and is she kisses you than she feels comfortable, but i think shes gonna wait to homecomin..... good luck buddy
2007-10-19 18:34:01 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let it be! When it feels right!
Give up all thoughts of it!
If you pay enromous amounts of attention to your girl, she wouldn't even care if the two of you kissed or not! (and guess what - if you show her that much love, the kiss is destined to happen anyways) hee hee
2007-10-19 18:34:47 · answer #7 · answered by Katie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First thing is dont get too attached to a girl this early. I'm a female so I probably know how your girlfriend is feeling, If you fall deeply in love with her she'll hurt you so bad as a female thats what we want we want guys to be all over us and as soon as she's got you wrapped around her finger she'll use you and hurt you just be coo dont push it casue if you do she'll push you away and you dont want that make her want you as bad as you want her!
2007-10-19 18:35:43 · answer #8 · answered by angelpinson 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That could be awkward if there are lot of people around. Why don't you take her to a movie and give her a kiss on the cheek... if she turns toward you, you're in! :)
2007-10-19 18:33:31 · answer #9 · answered by . 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you love her, if yes just tell her and say her that you want to kiss her,if no -when you are watching movie just simply kiss her and say her that it was a mistake.
2007-10-19 18:36:50 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋