i really like this girl. and it's driving me crazy. i don't want this feeling. and i just want it to go away. i still like guys though. does that turn guys off? my old guy crush is hitting on me but i don't like him anymore because i like the other girl now. darn it. what should i do? i don't know if she is a lesbian although she is very masculine. i want the feelings to go away, what do i do?
2007-10-19 15:44:07 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Girls can have crushes on other girls without being a lesbian necessarily. Are you sure you're a lesbian? Have you always preferred girls to guys? You talk about an "old guy crush", so apparently you like guys too. Maybe you're bi, I don't know. Another thing, the fact that you don't want this feeling tells me that you're not completely lesbian. Just because this girl is masculine in appearance, doesn't mean she's a lesbian either. I suppose if guys knew you considered yourself a lesbian, they might very well be turned off, but I don't think you are. I think you're straight, but a little confused. Time will tell what your true sexual nature is, but in the meantime, if you don't like these feelings, stay away from the girl and just concentrate on guys.
2007-10-19 15:57:20 · answer #1 · answered by gldjns 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-12-18 12:17:56 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
hun why do want it to go away maybe your bisexual like i am and there is nothing wrong with that if you want to talk to me about email me ok would love to chat to you ok bye for now
2007-10-20 07:16:22 · answer #3 · answered by bi_pet_grl_18@yahoo.com 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First off, you would be considered bisexual, and not lesbian.
2007-10-19 15:52:28 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋