What should I do when my boyfriend wants to get into my pants? I really like him, and I mean REALLY. But I told him I wanted to wait a couple more years. I really want to do it and I am tempted. What should I do? Have sex with him, say no, or what?
2007-10-19 16:16:34 · 33 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Say no until you think you're ready.
2007-10-19 16:18:18 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 1⤋
Say no. You also told him you want to wait a couple more years so he needs to back off! Do you really want to have sex with someone you really like or someone you really love? You know the answer to this.
2007-10-19 16:19:55 · answer #2 · answered by hoppykit 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Where shorts under your pants. Then, as a gesture, take off your pants and give them to him. Say, if you want to get in my pants so bad, then here.... take them. Since you have shorts on underneath, it'll be clear it was a planned joke.
Wait the 2 more years. If he's worth it, he will wait.
2007-10-19 16:19:44 · answer #3 · answered by Zeltar 6 · 4⤊ 2⤋
Say no until you are ready. You should never do anything that you do not want to do. If he doesn't respect your decision then maybe he isn't the right guy for you. I am not trying to be mean or anything if that sounds like it. I am just being honest.
2007-10-19 16:21:48 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Just say no. Unless you are prepared and have good birth control, you could get in trouble. He could also be carrying an STD. Are you ready to handle the consequences? You sound young and you don't want to mess up your life.
2007-10-19 16:21:18 · answer #5 · answered by Daphne 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Make him wait a while, and then let him, but only with his hand. You do NOT want to get pregnant. You and he both can get satisfaction with out actual sex. That's what hands and tounges are for!
2007-10-19 16:21:45 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Until you can honestly say you're ready, you shouldn't be having sex with anyone. You may be tempted, but hold your ground. Most importantly, let him know that you don't appreciate him forcing himself upon you. Tell him that when you're ready, you'll let him know.
2007-10-19 16:19:51 · answer #7 · answered by Abby 6 · 2⤊ 1⤋
It depends what age are you if you are 15 or 17 wait like about 5 years that is too young anyway stick to what you say you can't have him rule you. Your your own person.
2007-10-19 16:19:57 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 2⤋
If you're not ready and he is pushing you, you need to fine yourself another boyfriend who will respect your feelings and your body. It can be tempting, and it may feel good, but you'll feel terrible if you gave in against your better judgement.
2007-10-19 16:20:35 · answer #9 · answered by Group836 3 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Let him try them on, they may not fit though lol.
Seriously though, If you don't feel you're ready, then do not do it. Boys are at that age where sex is 99% of what they think about, it's their biology. A woman's is to be maturing mentally, so she knows what is best for her. Save it till you are ready, you may regret it if not.
2007-10-19 16:19:56 · answer #10 · answered by Konjo Nashi Pirate™ 5 · 3⤊ 1⤋
Wait until you are 18 or you'll be sorrrryyyyyy!
2007-10-19 16:25:56 · answer #11 · answered by Smidgin 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋