I'm afraid I won't be able to please my girlfriend if I have sex with her, we still haven't had sex but I'm afraid that she might think my penis is too small :\ I'm 17 and I'm 6.5" long and 5.5" in girth :\ please be honest and tell me if she will laugh if she sees it :( I think she is a virgin so I don't know how she would react :\
2007-10-19 16:16:42 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
to me, sex is pleasing emotionally...so if you and your gf are close and shes a genuine person, you wont have to worry. its all how you work it too. guys with big penises generally dont even know how to use it. confidence is sexy...so good luck!
2007-10-19 16:25:46 · answer #1 · answered by niugirl1114 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Going into anything with fear isn't going to help you any. Is there a reason you're going to have sex? Unprotected sex at that?
Virgin or not, don't stress it. You sound normal size. I know a lot of women who complain if a guy is too big because it's downright uncomfortable and takes away from a lot of the enjoyment. Bigger isn't 'better' except in false advertising. Too big is just too darn uncomfortable and can hurt.
If anyone laughs, they're usually laughing because they're embarrased to be naked in front of someone, so don't take it serious, anyone not 100% comfortable can say or do something that the other person can take the wrong way.
Just make sure you use protection--a lot of STD's are running rampant lately because nobody took them serious, and some things, once caught, are permanent. It's a lot harder to explain why you've got herpes for the rest of your life than to go grab a condom to not get it in the first place.
2007-10-19 23:30:42 · answer #2 · answered by Elaine M 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe that little voice is telling you to hold off for the time being. It is also obvious you don't know too much about this young lady and maybe you should refocus from the brain in your pants to the brain between your shoulders and get to know her.
2007-10-19 23:25:05 · answer #3 · answered by jae 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if shes a virgin she wont know the difference. and dont be worried about it usually your first time the girl doesnt usually look at it. good luck use protection
2007-10-19 23:29:17 · answer #4 · answered by lost_in_love_still 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋