My great uncle is in his 60s and he's married to a young woman who's 21. My aunt (great uncle's daughter) is in her 40s, so she's uncomfortable about this. She feels that woman only marries him for his money (which I think is true) because she keeps spending on his money non-stop. And my great uncle doesn't seem to care whether she loves him or not as long as he gets to keep her. So my aunt is worry about what that gold-digger might do with her family fortune.
2007-10-19 16:51:28 · 11 answers · asked by Staci L 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Where was the pre-nup?
That is really kinda scary, I suggest your aunt contact a lawyer to see about protecting the family assets.
2007-10-19 16:58:48 · answer #1 · answered by Mr.G's wife 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh well, it's not a step mother though. She's the woman who is boinking your great uncle. As for the money? Well, the money is his right, so he has every right to give her the money. He's probably not a complete fool and knows what she is after, but doesn't care because he's getting old and living his life to the fullest. Why have all that money if you can't enjoy it? He is enjoying the money with his wife on third his age. Your aunt has absolutely no right over that money, it's not hers and never was. Nor does she have the right to disallow her fathers happiness. She's a grown woman who should have her own life and perhaps a small fortune by now.
2007-10-19 23:57:34 · answer #2 · answered by some female 5 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Well, your uncle is really blinded by "love" and "lust", thinking that he is already 60 and not too many years left so he might as well enjoy his life thus he couldn't be bothered about her splashing. Her daughter should play along with her young step mom, encouraging her to spend on the most stupid item in order to catch her dad's attention then perhaps it could be a wake up call.
If she doesn't encouraged her to buy a most stupid item she is going to splash that money after all. So why not be a "*****" to get her into trouble with her old husband. She is after all a gold digger so might as well frame her up then get rid off her but in a polite term it is called "a wake up" call for the old man.
2007-10-20 00:07:34 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why are people so concerned with the money? He is happy and that's all what matters. If he doesn't care about money but wants to get a sexy young a*s, so why not?
If I was a 60 year old man, I probably would feel the same way. Let him enjoy his life. And don't worry. I am pretty sure he has a will written that after his death, everyone would be taken care of.
2007-10-20 00:02:00 · answer #4 · answered by terliuke 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
"Her" family fortune is actually her dad's. If what she is worried about is her father's money she seems to be doing the same thing her step-monster is doing- looking at the man as cash cow.
Sadly for your aunt, mommy dearest has an advantage over her- she sleeps with him.
Auntie should make sure she has a good income of her own and maybe just let her dad be happy, she has no other options but to accept his desicions.
Unless, of course, she can baker act him, prove him incapable of managing his own affaris and ask the courts for power of attorney. Then she can be her father's mother.
2007-10-20 00:03:14 · answer #5 · answered by An Opinionated One 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OF COURSE SHE MARRIED HIM FOR HIS MONEY!!!
would you get married to some old codger if he didn't have money??? no you would not!!!
here is what is going to happen to the money. she is going to spend it and there is not one thing anyone can do about it. it's his money after all.
when he dies, and he has a will, the family may get a portion. if not,,,,,, you know the answer to that one.
pretty much, your great aunt can kiss the money good bye. it will go to his wife and not his sister unless some is left to her in the will.
2007-10-20 00:18:32 · answer #6 · answered by KRIS 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like she's a gold digger..sorry try to keep her away from the money and spend quality time with her ask her why she loves him and what are her intentions? If all else fails drive her nuts until she leaves!
2007-10-19 23:56:50 · answer #7 · answered by TM25 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sound's like a gold digger..
But ultimately it's his life. Take the $ out of the equation and love him enough to let him fail.
2007-10-19 23:58:01 · answer #8 · answered by Soulfulgrl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course she only married him for his money. What normal pretty girl wants to sleep with an elderly man. Thats how come Hew Heffner has 3 in his bed, its certainly not for anything else. Its his life and his money so what can you do. Make friends with her and spend it with her lol.
2007-10-20 00:01:13 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i have a freind who is two yrs yunger than her stepduaghter. i dont think that when a young woman marries an old man he is a peado/she is after money. howeverin this case i think that she is playing with her body and she is after his money. i wish i could help yure aunt. maybe make ure freinds have affirs with the couple to split them up
2007-10-20 00:03:00 · answer #10 · answered by possessed by insanity 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋