and the other person likes is continually doing things to cut you inwardly what should that tell you about that person? I can tell the person cares to a degree however it's my opinion that she has had suffered much abuse in previous relationships that she is caring with her. Addicted to drama? Any advice/ input is welcome...
2007-10-19 19:40:24 · 3 answers · asked by ? 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
that really sux cos i really care for her. I think just leaving it alone and letting it run it's coarse is the best and only thing i can do...
2007-10-19 19:50:33 · update #1
yes, we have had many deep conversations. there are things she has been through that surpise me she is as in tact as she is. the relationship took off so quick and emotion so strong. right now i feel as if the best thing is agree with her and keep silent. i am looking for a more equal relationship however she has struck more notes with me than any other person has before... the disappointment is what really hurts the most. no one has ever effected me as she has...
2007-10-19 20:09:28 · update #2
I think it should tell you she's hurting inside. Has she talked at all about past abuse? Have you tried to ask her?
Addicted to drama is a real possibility, especially if she watches a lot of TV. Remember that TV and movies (and most novels, for that matter) depend on drama for their existence. She may need to become aware of the difference between those fictional depictions and real life.
Most of real life is routine, possibly even boring. That's why we have fiction. But fiction must be separated from reality, and that's one reason why I am endlessly appalled by the oxymoron "reality TV."
2007-10-19 20:03:55 · answer #1 · answered by auntb93 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if that person went through abuse, there's not much you can do except show them you're not that kind of guy and gain their trust. If that's just their personality, then they don't really care enough about you to care for your feelings. If that's the case, get out of the relationship quickly.
2007-10-20 02:48:46 · answer #2 · answered by Beccaroo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she is just carrying a burden and it might be awhile before she can start to forget about it ...right now she is probly being a little cautious for fear of being hurt
2007-10-20 02:47:00 · answer #3 · answered by fun_n_crazy554 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋