Can men and women just remain friends?

Question

Why is it all my friends end up with feelings for me?

Then they give me the ultimatum, its either relationship or nothing, because they can't handle just being mky friend :(

Im losing so many friends and its really upsetting

Answer 1

I have been wondering that my self.

I have known this girl for a little over a year..and it's gone like this.

Randomnly talking

Buddy

Friend

Good Friend

Close Friend

Best Friend

Then it has hit the ," ily best friend stage "

what is next?
One last thing that will be very, very hard to acheive..
if at all possible..

Answer 2

I think When Harry Met Sally was absolutly right - Men and women can't have a good friendship without sex being involved. A woman can like a man as a friend but a man will always evenutally want to bang her. By then its too late to remain friends

"You can't take it back, it's already out there!"

Great film :)

Answer 3

yes they can but it is in 2 out of ten men that will do that.it starts out platonic but gets to a point where sex becomes inevitable and it's up to u two to see reasons why u will or won't add that into the reasons why u r both friends.

Answer 4

yes. Even if they r attracted to each other at times. They eventually get over it and remain friends.

Answer 5

yeah women and men can be good friends without it geting complicated..i have lots of female friends and i have never had the problems with friendship turning into anything more seroius..you can never have too many freinds ya know

Answer 6

My gut reaction was yes, but thinking back I fancied all my best female friends so maybe not.

I would like to think we are not that shallow though.

Answer 7

Yes they can as long as you realise that men want more, but women can be just friends.

Answer 8

Depends on the people. I know I couldnt remain friends with any of my ex's.

Answer 9

Of course you can remain 'just good friends'.

Answer 10

Yes I think they can be friends.