is he less interested than he should be? am i more interested than i should be? should i be concerned?
2007-10-19 20:38:40 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
No, sometimes I do too. It's normal for men and women to have differing sex drives. There is no standard sex drive for men and no standard sex drive for women. Just count yourself lucky as one of the many women who can truly enjoy sex.
2007-10-19 20:45:41 · answer #1 · answered by some female 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Interestingly enough, when my husband and I were dating he wanted it all the time. Now that we are married I usually get things rolling more. I don't think that it is weird, I have actually talked with him about it. Basically, he is a night owl, and I'm an early bird. When I feel like makeing love, he is tired and when he wants to, much of the time I am tired. We do make it a point esp. since we are trying to concieve but it can be frustrating, because you hear of sex being number one thing that men think about. I know 100 % that there is no one else, so I don't worry about that, I do think that maybe they are very comfortable in the relationship, knowing that if they don't pursue us, then we will pursue them. I have to remind my husband that I want to have that desirable feeling like he gets when I pursue him. Other thing my husband is forever grabbing and touching, kissing on me. Don't be too concerned talk to him. Let him know how you feel. Even though men don't like to reply with the same.
2007-10-20 03:54:40 · answer #2 · answered by cjc 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you are not strange and neither is he. no one can judge a person on his sex drive unless really on an extreme low or a high that starts interfering in your life. as it is also, ppl it changes from time to time, at times its higher, ot in the middle or lower. the real question is how far are you comfortable with it...if you are okay, then don't think too much. just enjoy it and have funnnnnnnnnn
2007-10-20 04:46:29 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you're strange, then I'm just bizarre. LOL Enjoy yourself with or without him (toys n stuff), he's not complaining, is he? I didn't think so. The only complaints that I get from him is that he can't be home with me all the time! Another thing. He does brag on you to his friends. That's why they always have that stupid look on their faces.
2007-10-20 03:59:47 · answer #4 · answered by Chiksita 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Everyone is different. You are not strange and neither is he.Hopefully you can meet in the middle. You should not be concerned unless he does not want to have any.
2007-10-20 03:47:56 · answer #5 · answered by kim h 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some people just have more sex drive than others. I have the same problem as you, don't worry!
2007-10-20 04:06:28 · answer #6 · answered by ~~*Paradise Dreams*~~ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no your are normal...seems like we are all in this together, LOL, I once told my husband that i was going to get one of those toys, he just laughed, don't worry we are normal. But when he's ready he's ready.
2007-10-20 04:25:38 · answer #7 · answered by girlfriend 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should have married me. then you would be complaining about how your husband wants sex all the time
2007-10-20 12:21:38 · answer #8 · answered by oldsoftee2001 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
lOOk we are not alone : )
2007-10-20 04:08:51 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
no.
2007-10-20 03:51:15 · answer #10 · answered by benejueves 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋