Family & Relationships - 19 October 2007

So, last night I went on a date with a much older guy. Im only 21 and hes 51. Im aware of the huge age gap, but its ok. I really like him, but what does the general public think about something like that?

2007-10-19 05:32:47 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Ok first off I would like to say I am not a homewrecker. Here's the story. I worked @ a conveniece store and the cops would come and get free gas. Well there is was a georgous cop who walked through the doors and we got to talking and everyday he would come in to see me. He was sweet and funny, but married. I mean I really fell for this guy. He was alot older than me but thats okay. One day I saw him on the side of the road and blew a kiss (just a friendly one) and he came in later that day and said this is a small town you could get me into trouble all the while have a grin. He said next time tug on your ear and I'll know what that means. Then I said what if I tugged on both ears then he was like I dont think I would be able to contain myself. He was always sending me mixed signals. Talking about his wife then flirting with me, well I think we were flirting. I dont know I dont want to feel bad but I think he was pursuing me as well. He made me giddy again. What do you think?

2007-10-19 05:32:19 · 5 answers · asked by Lanieღ•° 5 in Singles & Dating

i have a boyfriend, i love him and we will ge married in few monthes
we don't live in the same country since i moved for a new work one year ago
i met here someone who was a good friend and helped me a lot but recently we had some sex me and him
i didn't want it to happen but it happened
i still love my boyfriend and want to marry him
what should i do? should i tell him about what happened or not?

2007-10-19 05:31:57 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I have become a victim of infidelity after 17 years of a great marriage. I feel like I am slowly dying from the inside out. I despise adultery!! It is a SELFISH act that does permanent damage!

2007-10-19 05:31:40 · 27 answers · asked by North Carolina 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-10-19 05:30:51 · 3 answers · asked by *~~The Wizard Mouse~~* 3 in Singles & Dating

I belong to Mensa, the high IQ society, and read about three books a week. Is that a turn on?

2007-10-19 05:28:12 · 22 answers · asked by Biker Guy 1 in Singles & Dating

I understand she missed me while she was away in Japan for two months. My daughter and I missed her too. For the last three nights she's been spooning me and keeps rubbing her face against the back of my neck, touching my face, kissing and nibbling my ears, saying "I missed you" over and over, etc.

It's very sweet, but it makes it very hard for me to fall asleep. She wakes me up about six to eight times a time with the constant touching and snuggling. I have to be up by 5 for work.

How can I tell her without hurting her feelings? Or should I just say nothing?

2007-10-19 05:24:41 · 67 answers · asked by Ras C 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Why is it, that people PAYING child support, dont realize that you are paying that, to TAKE CARE OF YOUR CHILDREN. You think that you can short me every week (you made up your own child support pymt amt, instead are paying 2/3 of what the court ordered you to pay every week. You pay 2/3, but then short me on THOSE payments or dont pay at all some weeks)........ meanwhile your arrearages are becoming more& more........and you want to say that just because you pay me SOMETHING every week, I should be grateful. LIKE I DONT PAY 100% of expensive childcare for both children, lunch money (full price), field trips, shoes, clothes for my house, pullups, monthly meds, ect. LIKE I DONT HAVE EXPENSES because of those kids! I even pay an extra $100/mo on a medical bill that I cannot get your help on, from the birth of one of our children! And why do us mothers still get GRIEF over "expecting a certain amount of child support" every week on a consistant basis.....Ready to screa

2007-10-19 05:22:46 · 9 answers · asked by it'sjustme79 3 in Marriage & Divorce

I am looking for FREE or inexpensive pre-marital counseling in Texas. Oklahoma has a great site that helps you find places in OK. Texas does not, i have looked.
The problem is we are getting married on the beach in FL. in May and we dont really go a church, so we cant have a pastor do it.....What are my options here?

2007-10-19 05:19:49 · 6 answers · asked by bellesnail 4 in Marriage & Divorce

I checked his telephone bills without him knowing and found that he is constantly calling two numbers as in more than 7 times a day. he always professes his love to me and that he is always loyal. How should i confront him on this so that he will stop lying? this could be a make or break for us. Should i show him the tel bill as proof?

2007-10-19 05:19:40 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I need your input badly. I am with a man that got a divorce 1 and 1/2 yrs. ago, He gave me a ring and asked me to marry him last April, I said yes. But Now I looked at his phone bill and he calls his x wife many times in a month and she calls him. This is making me sick as to what to think of this. If I talk to him he gets upset. And tells me he gives me no reason that he treats me good and he is always here for me. That is true, but why the x wife does he have to call so much. I feel like he is cheating on me. and he won't talk to her when I am around. Please give me some input. Thank you Angie
PS He has no children and we are in our 60's

2007-10-19 05:17:44 · 19 answers · asked by Angelic G 1 in Weddings

I've asked questions about women and how men see/value them as lovers. It seems that enthusiasm towards sex is the only thing that matters to make a woman a great lover.
Do you agree or disagree?
And why?

2007-10-19 05:15:56 · 4 answers · asked by snack_daddy10 6 in Singles & Dating

In the heat of our first big fight as a married couple, my husband of five months started throwing things, furniture etc around our living room. Damaged the wall, broke a few things. He also was yelling very loudly and was in my face. I pushed him, kind of hit/push away type thing - I didn't hurt him, he's twice my size. After everything was over, when were were talking things through I brought up his anger issues and he critisized me for hitting him, saying that my action was abuse & what he did wasn't abuse. He managed to turn the tables and had ME apologizing. A couple friends have said these are big red flags. Is there hope? Are these signs he could be abusive in the future?

2007-10-19 05:15:53 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I'm perfectly comfortable with my boyfriend and I''m just wondering what do you girls do/say to tease your boyfriend to get him turned on? & guys...what would you like?

2007-10-19 05:15:44 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I've asked questions about women and how men see/value them as lovers. It seems that enthusiasm towards sex is the only thing that matters to make a woman a great lover.
Do you agree or disagree?
And why?

2007-10-19 05:15:43 · 11 answers · asked by snack_daddy10 6 in Marriage & Divorce

After the loss of a baby...a few months down the road I got super depressed and kinda crazy (postpartum depression i guess). And I'm still in the midst of it.
Anyways, my boyfriend and I have now been spending time in different places for almost two months. He calls me a couple times a week. And he says if he didn't care about me he wouldn't call me. He always ends our phone talks saying "I love you" first.
When I ask him if he loves me he says he does. When I asked him recently if he's 'in love' with me he said "I dunno I think so."
And he said he loved me - not like how he loves his mom, but he couldn't say how exactly....
He said he just wants to be alone for a little while and have his freedom, etc... but that he's not going to be with any other girls. Like he just needs to get this out of his system.
He says I can't come see him and he can't come see me cause we need to be away from each other. And his dad is having surgery in a week and that maybe after that I can come visit.

2007-10-19 05:15:40 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I am not yet engaged.. but I will be engaged in about 3 weeks (and yes i KNOW, i'm not guessing). We haven't discussed dates very much, but I am pretty sure the wedding will be sometime between Aug-Oct 2008. Also, the wedding will be small (less than 50 guests).

Is it ok to start planning it now, since it will be less than a year from now?

2007-10-19 05:15:04 · 24 answers · asked by *ae* 3 in Weddings

but i really would like to give her a monetary one... do i still give it anyway and wish her the best in her second marriage or should i really honor her request?

2007-10-19 05:13:27 · 16 answers · asked by ogg08 5 in Weddings

anything I do is not ever good enough for anyone any more...!
I just wanna give up on life and just drop out of school and move FAR away and never speak to anyone ever again!!

2007-10-19 05:10:39 · 9 answers · asked by lil_ms_attitude122 2 in Singles & Dating

I am 26 and a woman and I am finding now that I am dating that if a person doesn't have sex with me the way I want or need that I am just done with them.
My friends say I am shallow but am I? I mean I think it is a most important part of a relationship!

2007-10-19 05:10:28 · 18 answers · asked by ღKrissyღ 5 in Singles & Dating

2007-10-19 05:09:48 · 13 answers · asked by Pramod R 4 in Marriage & Divorce

Would you lie to get something you really wanted or needed, or would you take the loss and tell the truth?

2007-10-19 05:07:49 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

Is it wrong for a 16 year old to go out with a 14 year old.. I mean were both in high school... so wat do you think

2007-10-19 05:07:05 · 6 answers · asked by Kiefer A 1 in Friends

My friend is having an affair with a married man. We are both 22, and he is almost 40 and took her virginities. Sometimes it doesnt bother me, other times it does..what are your feelings on the subject

2007-10-19 05:06:18 · 65 answers · asked by aunt_ning 2 in Marriage & Divorce

The problem is with my friend..We're in the same class and she thinks she 'loves' a boy in our class.She says 'he is soo sweet, oh I love him so much, I don't know what to do, he drives me crazy, (on Friday) I will miss him so much at the weekend...' As u see, she only liked his appearence.

The worst part of it, that boy doesn't care about Elif and won't, I think..But I can't tell this to my friend coz I'm sure she will be so sad..

What should I do??

2007-10-19 05:04:42 · 10 answers · asked by Irmak 7 in Friends

This Girl that i still love is very addicted to me our friendship goes beyonds words but i cant leave her alone...we did share alot with one another and i just want to move on because i know we cant be together right now...what should i do...let her know or What?

2007-10-19 05:04:08 · 5 answers · asked by Mr.LivingmyLifeInNYC 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-10-19 05:03:29 · 6 answers · asked by Jeremy B 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-10-19 05:03:09 · 13 answers · asked by Roxane G 1 in Marriage & Divorce

if 10 years has passed, and your still looking for someone that you really loved 10 years ago, and stilll cant find it ? what should you do, they say you usually wait ten years and try again.

2007-10-19 05:02:21 · 3 answers · asked by robby o 2 in Singles & Dating

I went out with a guy...and he says he likes me so much....we didn't kiss the first and second and the third time...but he kissed me the forth time..with his tongue in my mouth...and he kissed my neck and left a mark...don't u think that it was too early to kiss me like that?...he said that my skin was too sensitive and he didn't know that...i just want to know what u think?...was it too early?..does he think i'm a cheap girl?...i'm not at all.....he's 22 and i'm 18...and he's my second bf...so i don't have experience that much...what should i do in this situation?...was it bad that he kissed me?? or what?..plz help

2007-10-19 04:59:58 · 20 answers · asked by Elena_Jolie 1 in Singles & Dating