I went out with a guy...and he says he likes me so much....we didn't kiss the first and second and the third time...but he kissed me the forth time..with his tongue in my mouth...and he kissed my neck and left a mark...don't u think that it was too early to kiss me like that?...he said that my skin was too sensitive and he didn't know that...i just want to know what u think?...was it too early?..does he think i'm a cheap girl?...i'm not at all.....he's 22 and i'm 18...and he's my second bf...so i don't have experience that much...what should i do in this situation?...was it bad that he kissed me?? or what?..plz help
2007-10-19 04:59:58 · 20 answers · asked by Elena_Jolie 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He waited till the fourth date to kiss you? Wow. You're so lucky. A lot of guys would have tried to kiss you the first date. No, he won't think that you're a cheap girl, and if he does, he's crazy. It's not bad that he kissed you. Waiting till the fourth date shows that he probably respects you. Go for it. He sounds really sweet.
2007-10-19 05:05:54 · answer #1 · answered by Lacey 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Okay...
I would kiss him first date, or before lol
Americans seem to have a whole set of weird rules about this that we British don't so I'm not sure I understand, but if he takes me out and doesn't kiss me at all I would assume he doesn't fancy mean and that we're just friends.
If you're eighteen you're surely old enough to have kissed a few guys by now?
I think you are making a big deal over nothing to be honest.
Although love bites are gross and the sort of thing sad little forteen year olds are desperate for... Tell him not to mark you or at least not where people can see!
2007-10-19 12:04:42 · answer #2 · answered by munchkin 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Well sweetie what you have to keep in mind is that you're getting older, and things progress at a different rate than when you were younger. He kissed you liek an adult would kiss someone, that's all. I really wouldn't read too much into it. And the fact that he waited until the 4th date is a trip, most adults go for it right then and there on the first date.
2007-10-19 12:06:38 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Its not bad its just that since this is your second relationship you really didn't mean that to happen. Next time if he does go for your neck; Take control and try doing it to him give him kisses on his neck and/or ears. then give him a nice little kiss on the mouth and call it a night. That way he feels like your returned the favor and also know that you aren't into going too fast. <3
2007-10-19 12:05:53 · answer #4 · answered by SiCnGaged 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It wasn't bad that he kissed you...it was the fourth date. But if the way he kissed you made you uncomfortable just let him know. Tell him the way he kissed you was new to you and even though you enjoyed it, it made you a little nervous as well. If you like this guy and he likes you, tell him to teach you all he knows about French kissing. If he's a good teacher then you're in for a treat. :-)
2007-10-19 12:07:52 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It wasn't bad that he kissed you,but he shouldn't of left marks on your neck. You have better watch out for this guy. Sounds to me like he may only be wanting to get down your pants. I know i would of never put marks on your neck, I would of treated you like a lady. Just watch yourself with this one. Good luck
2007-10-19 12:06:35 · answer #6 · answered by ranger33 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's only too fast if you're uncomfortable with it and let him know that you are uncomfortable. Being 22 and being a male we think differently but he should be responsive to your concerns, if he's not it may be time to move on to bf #3
just an FYI 4 dates does not a boyfreind make
2007-10-19 12:07:37 · answer #7 · answered by Reign Supreme 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
sounds like You liked the kiss, tongue and all? But not the neck sucking?
You should only do things You want to do and R comfortable with!!!
2007-10-19 12:09:17 · answer #8 · answered by jimbojangles 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that you no ur boundries and good to you! But he took it too far for the first kiss. just a peck or make out but kissing ur neck uhhh bad idea. No ur skin wasn't sensitive he just left a hicky and he won't amit it. Talk to him about it, I'm not saying hes a bad guy but maybe you were a good date or really pretty that he wanted sumthing.
2007-10-19 12:05:05 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
it depends if you're comfortable with it or not. any guy who really likes you, will wait till the time is right. he should respect you no matter what you say. was it a bad, it all depends on how you look at it since he's your second. tell him to take it one step at a time and everything will turn out good.
2007-10-19 12:24:45 · answer #10 · answered by swilliamlaw 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋