The problem is with my friend..We're in the same class and she thinks she 'loves' a boy in our class.She says 'he is soo sweet, oh I love him so much, I don't know what to do, he drives me crazy, (on Friday) I will miss him so much at the weekend...' As u see, she only liked his appearence.
The worst part of it, that boy doesn't care about Elif and won't, I think..But I can't tell this to my friend coz I'm sure she will be so sad..
What should I do??
2007-10-19 05:04:42 · 10 answers · asked by Irmak 7 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Elif: My friend
2007-10-19 05:05:21 · update #1
Unfortunately, she sounds a bit immature and young to really understand what love is. She is in love with the idea of love.
It is probably harmless....and it is a phase she needs to get through. Give her some time and experience it and learn from her own mistakes. The best thing for you to do is to be a good friend...lend her a friendly ear and support her when she falls. Telling her she is "whack" is not going to help, and would probably drive her from you.
2007-10-19 05:13:15 · answer #1 · answered by Benji's Mommy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There's not much you can do except be there for her when she gets crushed and her heart breaks into a million pieces. Unrequited love sucks, but it's all part of the growing up process.
2007-10-19 05:16:43 · answer #2 · answered by JustMe 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this is a situation that could happen to anyone, at this age range
I remember my friends being in this position too, and even my self! :))
I think that she wont be listening to your words, what ever you l say to her. She ll be stable to her feelings..
Just let this situation be, things will be clear by the time. And be there for her, when and if disappointment comes..
2007-10-19 06:27:49 · answer #3 · answered by ..Tolia.. 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Thats the joys of being young. Puppy love will come and go. Im sure by next month she will be in "love" with someone else... dont worry about it
2007-10-19 05:08:07 · answer #4 · answered by brina 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
if she is your true friend, you will want to talk to her about it. It may upset her, but if she keeps going on with it and the boy doesn't feel the same about her, she will just get more upset the more she gets attached....
2007-10-19 05:09:34 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it will past right by i was in love with a boy and when he told me to ask him out he said no and went out with my friends so she'll be over him soon...just tell her she anyoing you.
2007-10-19 05:09:26 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
be a friend to her and just listen it doesnt hurt for her to like someone it might be good for her
2007-10-19 05:22:20 · answer #7 · answered by Chloe 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hmmmmmmm
only ten words?
I think maybe they should wait till they text like 1000 words, then decide what to do maybe
2007-10-19 05:12:54 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Tell her what you think and talk it out with her.
2007-10-19 05:07:52 · answer #9 · answered by JULIE J 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell her and tell her you don't want to hurt her feelings but its the truth.
that's the way I do it with my friends.! ^ ^
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2007-10-19 05:12:55 · answer #10 · answered by mod. 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋