I'm perfectly comfortable with my boyfriend and I''m just wondering what do you girls do/say to tease your boyfriend to get him turned on? & guys...what would you like?
2007-10-19 05:15:44 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Wow. What a bimbo-esque question, this was... From my perspective (I'll play along).. say: "I want to f*ck your brains out." like any playmate would say.. or, just get to business without him doing anything. Guys are visual, as you know. Guys are spending time with you, usually because they know what they're going to do (sooner or later) and you're simply ending the waiting for them. Now, for some worthwhile advice:
If you're NOT on track to being a fiancee.. you're just wasting your time, no matter what you're doing to distract him from the television. I know it's "empowering" for some girls, in thinking you're in control if you initiate, etc.
But the hard reality is... Teasing any man is easy, it's the simplest thing on Earth, in fact.. having the man pay for dates, EVEN BETTER not only say he thinks of you (when not with you) but pre-plan dates/times together, work for your attention, impress you, and understand (for you) that you're not just passing time... is what it's all about. You may convince yourself otherwise, but then.. you'll find yourself on Yahoo Answers asking strangers why he left you, why he's changed and if your pregnant and the 100s of other dopey questions (girls are asking) relating to two simple facts: 1) if you're not getting what you really, really want (100%) you are wasting your life/time. And 2) you don't need a man at all really, unless he proves he's worthy of longer-term planning.
2007-10-19 05:19:08 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I sit on him lap and have a good time, not grinding on him but just laughing and being cute, that really gets my bf. Or for some reason guys like seeing when girls have their finger in their mouth (just like the tip) because it mentally stimulates them... guys are SOOOO visual so even if you run your hands down your torso and waist it still gets them... a lot of things that you wouldn't think was sexy might be really sexy to him... or if he always says I love your curves then make sure you wear an outfit that shows them off, of if he loves you butt make an attempt to drop something and then pick it up slowly, or if he likes you boobs then pretend like your looking for something on the ground, he'll love watching them giggle or if he loves your smile then make sure you laugh and smile alot and if he likes your eyes make eye contact with him alllloooott... my bf loves when I love him in the eyes especially when I am giving him head it shows so much confidence and you feel closer, hope I help, I kinda rambled alot :P
2007-10-19 05:25:04 · answer #2 · answered by Tano A 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I convince my significant other that He needs a bath--and then give it to Him. I have a shower chair that I sit Him in while I wash His hair and scrub His back, etc. Then afterward I ususally give Him a pedicure and a massage--and let nature take its course. W/we have had some pretty romantic evenings this way. Try it. It's a lot of fun. Men don't normally expect this kind of treatment and it's a real kick to surprise Him. Sometimes I even light candles and turn out the lights--and I even get really, really wet while I'm bathing Him!!!
2007-10-19 05:47:04 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
I just sit there when we cuddle and start rubbing him through his pants. then I can feel it get... harder. And he'll play with my boobs or start to rub me while we're doing this so we'll both get turned on; I dont want a violation so I cant really explain. LOL
2007-10-19 05:21:40 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I just play around with mine, ya know.
Joke with him, tease him as in saying funny and not normal things.
You know being yourself, yet acting differnt than usual.
I usually just be myself to get him turned on though, We touch each other and kiss and ****.
2007-10-19 05:18:26 · answer #5 · answered by TTC #1 hoping for 2009 baby! 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I play with his hair near the neck or if we're sitting down on the couch watching tv or something I rest my head on his thigh.
2007-10-19 05:19:13 · answer #6 · answered by Tina 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
First of all....you have to "look sexy"! Guys are more visual than anything else. Laugh and giggle alot, kiss him, lick his ear..... whisper naughty things into it, staddle him, so that your on top...let him know how much he turns you on.
2007-10-19 05:24:50 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Say anything sexual, guys love that stuff.
I guess it entirely depends on what his tastes/likes/dislikes are as far as what'll turn him on and what wont.
2007-10-19 05:20:47 · answer #8 · answered by Love. 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
With my girlfriend, a pat on the butt, kiss on the neck, a nod towards the bedroom,and we are on our way...
However with Jason, It sometimes takes both of us ,totally naked, .. "Turn that off and come with us!!"
2007-10-19 05:32:33 · answer #9 · answered by Sophie B 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Lightly kiss his neck and touch the side of his face. Then we are on and going!
2007-10-19 05:20:45 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋