Family & Relationships - 19 October 2007

I'm 50 years old and I met "L" last year. She hangs out with some friends. We've always talked a lot amd she is this amazing person. But, because of her age(22). I knew that we could only be friends. Last week she asked if we could go out and talk. We went to Olive Garden , then spent the afternoon at the park. We talked about everything and I totally trust her which I havn't trusted a woman for a long time. She wants to be close friends, but I know that I'm falling for her. Is this totally wrong, should I break off our friendship, just suck it up and never let her know how I feel and be friends. I've alwasy tried to do what is right, but I reall care for this woman. If friends is all that we can be, then so be it, but i would be hard

2007-10-19 04:29:56 · 34 answers · asked by Voyager01 2 in Singles & Dating

here's the story:

boy A: he's my buddy,we're really close and share everything with each other and people often thinks we're a couple.he offered to send me home after prom and he gets really agitated when he found out someone's goin after me,he even volunteered to be my pseudo bf to chase tt guy away but at the same time he tells me abt the girls he likes

boy B:we're pals as well and he's attached but the thing is we're very close,he wasn't feeling well and planned not to go to sch but cause of me,he went,we always have a great time together and he said he'll call me if he couldn't sleep at night.he cares alot for me and i'm really confused!

please help. thanks

2007-10-19 04:29:42 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

He really says some strange stuff sometimes and looks down on others. If you do not have loads of letters after your name or a Million £ in your bank your not quite as good as him. Why is this ( my Mum is great by the way and seperated from mr victorian) My brother and his horrible girlfriend have fallen out with me and my dad has taken his side and its really wrong and unfair? what is wrong with some people?

2007-10-19 04:29:37 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

2007-10-19 04:28:23 · 14 answers · asked by Patches 5 in Family

okay, it's not as bad as it sounds. my wife found an old picture CD from the pc that her ex husband kept from the divorce.
she said i can look at them... so i did when she wasn't around. in one folder, there were some pics of her being screwed by her ex. i actually laughed... do i let my wifie know that i've seen the pics?

2007-10-19 04:26:22 · 35 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Why do people concider it immoral to live with your boyfriend of 3 years with out being married? When it comes down to it most people sleep with the partner before marriage and they spend the night at their place on occasion for whatever the reason may be. what is the difference in living togther? Its just like staying the night preminittly and the sex thing, well you were doing it before you lived together right I understand how people save themselves for marrage would consider this immoral. But for the rest of socity to say that when they are just going home at the end of teh night i would like an opinion please. Please no snide remarks.... i would like real answers without the attitude. Thanx!

2007-10-19 04:24:17 · 24 answers · asked by Marzgirl 1 in Singles & Dating

My ex boyfriend wants to give things another shot. We dated about 5 years ago. My parents absolutely forbid me to see him. They have threatened to divorce over the whole thing and everything so I decided not get back with him. Now, I really really want to be with him and I can't be because they are going to hate me forever. By the way, he also has a kid now, but he has a real good job and his own place and everything. They think he is a low life. I am 21 and he is 23 which is not the big deal but thought that might help answer my question but what my question is, is... Will they ever learn to accept this? I have built a brand new house on their land and have to live beside them so, its pretty bad. What can he do to show them how much he wants to be with me and what he is willing to do? We broke up because we cheated on eachother but I did it first and my parents don't know I cheated on him. If I tried to tell them that now, they would think I was doing it just because. Please Help!

2007-10-19 04:22:25 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

2007-10-19 04:22:12 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

30 yrs old black man, no kids, good IT job, ok body

2007-10-19 04:21:28 · 20 answers · asked by Theo G 2 in Singles & Dating

i am a stay at home mom...for 10 years...he says we can split custody of the kids 50/50...he wont have to pay child support...and i will have to pay him alimony....because i will be ordered by a judge to get a job...can he do that?

2007-10-19 04:20:31 · 33 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I bought my wife an engagement ring before she deployed overseas with NG two years ago. I couldn't afford one when we got married, so I saved up for a couple of years to make it special. I gave it to her for Mother's day (2005) and she deployed in October 2005. While she was deployed, she was having affairs with 2 men, one of whom was married.

I have since filed for divorce, gained custody of our daughter and moved out state. My wife would bring our daughter to stay with one of the men (on the pretense they were at the beach) and I took an opportunity to finish grad school and work around family.

Money is much tighter these days and I don't think the ring really meant anything to her (we stopped having sex within weeks of me giving it to her and she was having an affair within months of me giving her this ring). Am I right to ask for it back? Do I have any justification in doing so? In addition to the money that would help us, I feel betrayed by this woman. Thanks.

2007-10-19 04:19:01 · 32 answers · asked by Tri-Guy 2003 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-10-19 04:18:09 · 22 answers · asked by elaine c 2 in Family

Would that interest you?

2007-10-19 04:14:27 · 49 answers · asked by JMD29 1 in Marriage & Divorce

i'm 20 and lost my virginity since i was 15. there are people who are okay with that but also there are some people who think im sort of be-yotch . i admit that i'm a bit wild coz both my parents are so open-minded, they dont mind im not virgin as long as that i dont get pregnant. it'll be okay.even both my sisters also lose their virginities at the the younger age. its not that im proud of being not virgin or i look down to those virgins. but honestly i do find sex is something you should enjoy at the early age. is being not virgin make me look bad or a be-yotch? coz i dont meddle in others' affairs and i dont steal others boyfriend! but honestly what do u think to those unvirgins?

2007-10-19 04:13:14 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

What would you say or do?

2007-10-19 04:11:05 · 16 answers · asked by Dancer3d 4 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-10-19 04:09:25 · 67 answers · asked by bella 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

Do you know any sayings like "i wanna be your knight in shining armour" for your loved ones that would make their heart melt ? or anything as sweet or lovey you would like to share ? whats your favorite and what kinda lovey and caring sayings do you have deep down your heart that you could share ? or do you know any small sweet sayings or short poetry ?? or do you have any good love songs lyrics what i could text my girl which would cheer her up and make her heart melt ??

2007-10-19 04:00:03 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

He is so fab in the sack i just gotta do it xx

2007-10-19 03:59:31 · 15 answers · asked by ? 6 in Weddings

My sister is selfish. She has 4 children and doesn't take care of them. She has left their father so many times in the past because she wanted to go out and "be free" and see other men- sometimes disappearing for months at a time without even checking in on her children. She went to jail several years ago for drugs. Her now ex husband took her back many times because he wanted to work it out for the kids. The last time she left, he didn't let her come home. He works hard and takes care of the kids himself. I watch the two younger ones while he works (the older two are in school) and I don't charge him for babysitting because she doesn't pay child support and he struggles financially. She got mad at me because I was "Making it too easy for him" and told me to stop watching the kids. I told her I wouldn't and if she had a problem with it then she need not call me anymore until she got some help and straightened out. She said I'm being disloyal to her- Am I a bad sister?

2007-10-19 03:58:39 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

2007-10-19 03:55:40 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Thanks for your compassion and advice.

2007-10-19 03:51:39 · 16 answers · asked by keefbeef 3 in Marriage & Divorce

I have a 16-year old with ADHD that does not have friends. It has been this way forever. He may have a friend for a few weeks and then all of a suddent they are ********. This is just breaking my heart to hear that he has lunch in the class room, and when he is not at work just laying on the couch watching tv.

2007-10-19 03:51:37 · 12 answers · asked by Jimmy and Crystal A 2 in Friends

The other night I tried something new while giving my boyfriend head. He loved it, came and said it was the best he had ever had. However, last night I was doing the same thing (only with the intention of swallowing this time)when right before he was going to come.. he suddenly tells me to stop... saying his whole body had just tensed up so much that it was painful (He described it as pins and needles all over his body).. so I stopped. We have been together for almost 3 years and I was just wondering if any other male has experienced this problem... because it made me feel like crap and I want to know if there is any reason to feel this way.

2007-10-19 03:51:22 · 16 answers · asked by Kaylee 1 in Singles & Dating

Where do you take a girl out if it is your first date? And do you usually get a kiss goodnite?

2007-10-19 03:51:07 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-10-19 03:50:51 · 21 answers · asked by nadia c 1 in Singles & Dating

I recently got in a fight with my friends. Then one of them went on Facebook and posted a big long note telling EVERYBODY all of my secrets, even making a few up and throwing them in there. I'm not at school today because it's really awkward.

What are some things that I could do to make myself happier?

2007-10-19 03:48:16 · 15 answers · asked by SGGGIRL 2 in Friends

2007-10-19 03:44:21 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

Not anything sleasy and tacky. I mean if they went out and got you something nice, would you think he has been upto no good/think he is after something/hiding something?

2007-10-19 03:43:16 · 21 answers · asked by Robyn 3 in Singles & Dating

2007-10-19 03:42:28 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

I can’t say I’m not ready for a relationship or anything like that cause he will know it’s a lie…I don't want to hurt and i think i will. Any suggestions???

2007-10-19 03:38:37 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating