The other night I tried something new while giving my boyfriend head. He loved it, came and said it was the best he had ever had. However, last night I was doing the same thing (only with the intention of swallowing this time)when right before he was going to come.. he suddenly tells me to stop... saying his whole body had just tensed up so much that it was painful (He described it as pins and needles all over his body).. so I stopped. We have been together for almost 3 years and I was just wondering if any other male has experienced this problem... because it made me feel like crap and I want to know if there is any reason to feel this way.
2007-10-19 03:51:22 · 16 answers · asked by Kaylee 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
As far as I know, he has no heart issues.
I was just hoping he wasnt faking... can/will guys do that?
2007-10-19 03:57:27 · update #1
lol... I sure a hell was'nt using teeth. Or doing anything to hurt him. I was doing the same the same thing a few days ago and he loved it...
2007-10-19 04:01:30 · update #2
What I was doing was a combination of stroking, sucking, deep throating, humming and tongue flicks while gently tickleing and sucking on his balls...
2007-10-19 04:13:00 · update #3
(1) What a lucky boyfriend.
(2) "Pins and needles" sounds either like part of his body went to sleep, or that he was in such a rush that his bloodpressure or heartrate dropped or rose, which can cause dizziness or similar feelings, or that he was just contracting his muscles too much for so long (because it felt so good and he was ready to climax) that he couldn't hold it any longer.
(3) There's nothing to feel like crap about... it was great! If anything, it may have just been too much for too long (like what happens when some men lick, suck, or press to hard directly on a woman's clitoris). If he starts to be tense for a long while, you can slow down what you're doing, or tell him to relax a bit... or, depending upon what you were doing, focus your attention away from the glans.
(4) Please tell us (either by updating or through e-mail) what it was you were doing!
2007-10-19 04:03:48 · answer #1 · answered by Perdendosi 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first of all, that sounds awesome and I need to know what you did! LOL
But on a real note, It happens. Much like women, men can have an intense orgasm. Your body tenses up and your muscles just get extremely tight. This is very good for you because it has only happened to me when Im with someone I really care about. It isnt just physical.
Good for you and dont worry about it.
2007-10-19 04:02:16 · answer #2 · answered by Stuey 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think you have any reason to feel bad. There could be a million reasons why things happen. Perhaps what you were doing felt soooo good that he wanted to hold "it" in to extend the pleasure. And by doing that he tensed up.
Since you both have been together for 3yrs, you should be glad that he shares his feelings with you. Sex is about please each other and what works one day may not work the next.
Hope this helps...
2007-10-19 04:06:59 · answer #3 · answered by Mr. Q 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It wasn't you...that particular affliction is strictly his weird azz! I've gotten head from the best in the business and although I've felt everything from floating on a cloud to hallucinations, I never locked up and experienced 'pins and needles' from it!! I suggest you have him checked by a doctor...lol
2007-10-19 03:57:01 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
that sounds unrelated. I doubt it was anything you were doing. if it was, it may have just been too intense at the time. Thats not a bad thing at all. Just means it felt really good. but more than likely it was caused by something else entirely.
2007-10-19 03:56:09 · answer #5 · answered by writenimage 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
That doesn't make any sense unless you used your teeth without realizing it. This happens sometimes and can be painful especially if you hit the head of the penis. Other than that, I don't understand what could have happened......good luck!
2007-10-19 07:20:06 · answer #6 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try assembly up with him for an casual date and ask him...head to head perfect thank you to get answer. supply him earnings of the doubt til you be attentive to for confident. If that have been his female then she could have the two asked "who's that this" or what the F***. in case you call and continuously get voicemail i could project-that would desire to point it dont prefer to respond to if she is there. what do to procure to lose in case you meet him for dinner?
2016-10-13 04:29:03 · answer #7 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What was the new thing that you tried that injured him.umm maybe I don't want to know.I never wanted a woman to stop though.
2007-10-19 03:57:06 · answer #8 · answered by jonasruxpin 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
never had that problem but you doing it right girl real good thats the best head you could get
2007-10-19 04:17:20 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I guess it depends on what special thing you were doing..If you are of legal age you can email me and I will tell you if I can
2007-10-19 04:00:10 · answer #10 · answered by Bill 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋