I recently got in a fight with my friends. Then one of them went on Facebook and posted a big long note telling EVERYBODY all of my secrets, even making a few up and throwing them in there. I'm not at school today because it's really awkward.
What are some things that I could do to make myself happier?
2007-10-19 03:48:16 · 15 answers · asked by SGGGIRL 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
I go to a really small school, though, so now everybody is talking about it, and most of them think that all the stuff he said is true. That makes it pretty hard to find new friends, he's got all of my old friends except for 3 mad at me.
Also, it's not a 'she', it's a gay boy.
2007-10-19 04:15:59 · update #1
And reading my bible won't help, I'm not Christian. :S
2007-10-19 05:08:48 · update #2
RIght now what you need is somebody who can listen to you and comforts you.
you could chat with someone. and let them know your situation. Maybe your parents.
2007-10-19 03:53:03 · answer #1 · answered by Hakoo Ma Shantai 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Start focusing on the positive things in your life. Don't stoop down to her level and ignore her. If anyone asks you about it just tell them you had a fight and she decided to try and stir up trouble. Tell them to believe what they want to believe because it doesn't really matter. You know the truth and that is all that matters.
Don't give her the time of day, and don't belittle yourself by reacting and posting things about her. Eventually she will realize that what she did was really wrong...not to mention the fact that no one else will trust her with any of their secrets. She is only making herself look bad.
2007-10-19 03:54:39 · answer #2 · answered by mamabee 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ignore what had happened. You don't need to explain yourself to anyone. Maintain your composure, in that way, you will regain their respect.
Remember, if what they are telling about us is untrue, we have no reason to be affected and be mad at them because it is untrue/lie/baseless. If what they are telling about us is true, the more we should not be offended because they are just telling the truth.
Happiness depends on us...not from other people. I experienced it before...I did the same thing that I have adviced you. It made me a better person. Cheer up! God loves you.
Love your enemies. It will lighten your burden.
2007-10-19 04:01:01 · answer #3 · answered by Reign 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Think about thing u like to do or do something u enjoy.
Think about when u will be out of school and have more mature friends.
Good Luck and Take Care
2007-10-19 03:52:28 · answer #4 · answered by Backhoe 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Forgive and forget, be yourself, face your studies the main reason you are in the school. Pray and sing some favorite songs, read your Bible too. you will experience the love of God flowing in your heart.
2007-10-19 05:07:10 · answer #5 · answered by Baba-aburo 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just do what u want to.Let yourself be relaxed, for example, u can listeen to the music,go to the internet,have a journey to make yourself be happy,also you can talk with your best friend to share your feeling.Let boring things behind you, It's easy to do,I always do these to keep me happy, u can try!
2007-10-19 04:30:00 · answer #6 · answered by wang w 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just think ahead to the future, and think how soon you will be surrounded by peers who will be more mature. Look down on these KIDS, they are ridiculous..brush them off.
2007-10-19 03:51:04 · answer #7 · answered by mrr86 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
make up a bunch of lies about your friend to get even or you could just talk to them and tell them how you fell so that it might make things better.
2007-10-19 03:52:12 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don' t worry about what other people think! Maybe try and find new friends.
2007-10-19 04:14:15 · answer #9 · answered by Butterfly101074 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Revenge! Haha no that never works. Just tell people that she lied.
2007-10-19 03:51:45 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋