2007-10-19 03:42:28 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Weddings
You either get married or you don't. You and your boyfriend need to talk with them about their concerns.
2007-10-19 03:46:52 · answer #1 · answered by h&t_oct282007 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
First, you cannot be prevented from getting married unless you are under age, so that should not be an issue. Second, what are his parents reasoning for not wanting you two to get married? Other then them not being supportive and maybe not willing to be involved in your lives, nothing else really should happen. They could go out of their way to make you guys miserable, so I would definitely talk to them and try to reason out your differences. If they have a really good reason, then talk it out!
Good Luck!
2007-10-19 03:47:29 · answer #2 · answered by Nicole 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Since I'm sure you want to have a good relationship with your future in-laws (married life can be pretty miserable if you don't have their blessings), I think you and your boyfriend need to sit down with them and discuss their reasons. If they think you're not suitable, explain to them why you love each other. If they think you're too young, explain to them why you feel you're not.
With understand about each other's feelings, maybe you can all agree to a plan of action. If they realize you both are in love and able to handle a married relationship, they just might turn around and support your decision to get married. If they don't agree, maybe they will agree to a future date. Maybe in 6 months or a year they will feel more confident and you will have some time to make wedding plans.
My best advice is -- try to work with them. They love their son and they just want what's best for him. Show them that YOU are what's best for him.
2007-10-19 04:06:52 · answer #3 · answered by garynjanice 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
uh, no one can stop you from getting married. so, you saying they aren't allowing you to marry is incorrect. you WANT their blessing, but you may not get it. that is reality.
however, the wording of your question makes me wonder how old you are. i've never heard a 25 yr old woman say, "my bf's parents won't let us get married." it seems to me that you might still be a teen, because you're still in the mindset that parents and other adults can control your life. so, you may not be ready for marriage as it appears that even YOU aren't comfortable acting as an adult. perhaps his parents also realize this and that is why they are against the marriage.
2007-10-19 10:33:45 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
I'm guessing that you are probably too young to get married because adults are able to get married without parental permission. If you are underage you will not be allowed to be married without parental consent until you both are of age.
2007-10-19 03:48:24 · answer #5 · answered by Angela O 5 · 3⤊ 0⤋
How old are you both? Do either of you live with your parents? Do you both have steady jobs? How long have you been dating?
You either marry or don't get married.
2007-10-19 11:28:13 · answer #6 · answered by Terri 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you're old enough to get married and make your own choices, you don't need your parents' permission.
2007-10-19 04:39:07 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
for starters why are they not allowing this? are you both of age to get married?
2007-10-21 17:47:02 · answer #8 · answered by Mandy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are some factors that you are not mentioning. How old are you both? What type of relationship you both have?
2007-10-19 03:47:10 · answer #9 · answered by Kaya M 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋