Family & Relationships - 11 October 2007

I want to get married but im worried cause i don't know much about my man, I love him very much now he's busy he has no time for me what should I do. we sometime text each other but thats boring. I miss bein with him I don't want no other man I just want him. what can I do to make us get back together... please help

2007-10-11 05:52:44 · 2 answers · asked by Jennifer T 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

So the guy im inlove with says to me I don't know why this is so hard for me to say to you but your ...your beautiful, ok well the truth is your drop down gorgeous ..then he says I don't telling you that because im sure you hear it all the time and I don't want to sound like a broken record. This is what struck weird..he then goes to say instead of saying your the most beautiful I have seen which I know is not true but you know how guys are..instead he said your the most beautiful girl who has ever looked at me. Is that odd? He says things like you make me feel special , I feel important when your around,I love the fact that you want to be with me and touch me, you care about me like no one else does..he says all that but hardly says how he feels about me..He also said he likes bringing to places and around his friends to say hey I got "her"....it all seems to be about how I make him feel about himself..is this striking anyone else as odd?Or am I just thinking too much?

2007-10-11 05:46:36 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-10-11 05:42:16 · 7 answers · asked by DaughterOfZion 1 in Marriage & Divorce

HE WENT TO THE POLICE AND REPORTED ME CAUSE I WENT TO HANG OUT HE DOES IT ALL THE TIME I DONT UNDERSTAND WHY I CANT DO IT BUT YEA. CHECK THIS OUT HE MOVED OUT AND WENT TO GO GET A PLACE WITH HIS FRIEND AND LEFT ME TO RENT A ROOM FROM SOME GUY AINT THAT SOME S***. SO HE COMES OVER ALL THE TIME TELLING ME WHAT TO DO BREAKING STUFF AND CAUSE ME PROBLEMS. NOT TO MENTION HE BEAT ME UP PRETTY BAD WHEN MY BABY WAS JUST TWO WEEKS OLD AND I HAD C-SECTION HE JUST WENT CRAZY ON ME CAUSE I TOOK HER OUTSIDE AND I DIDNT PRESS CHARGES ON HIM BECAUSE I DIDNT WANT HIM IN ANY TROUBLE AND THEN HE GOT THE NERVE TO REPORT ME CAUSE I WANT FREE TIME JUST PLAN OUT AND ENGLISH THE MAN IS CRAZY WHAT SHOULD I DO?

2007-10-11 05:41:50 · 12 answers · asked by miniemicke29 1 in Family

okay... my father died last year in march, in a car accident. About 6 monthes after my father died my mom got married to some guy named Jesse. Jesse and my mom had m youngest sister Caylin. I really dont think that 6 monthes is enough time to get over someone and then get back out there and get married and have a kid. Wat do you think???

2007-10-11 05:41:12 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

hmm..there's this girl that works at an ice cream place called coldstone, and for the past few weeks, i've been talking to her...a lot.. because i work next door at radioshack. she seems interested,but my friend says she has a b/f and i don't wanna just be like "hey, break up with your boyfriend and date me." what are some ways i could let her know that i like her without being over conspicuous? i don't wanna come on too strong

2007-10-11 05:40:05 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

ok so i dated this guy fro 2 months..tha begining of summer and to the end of summer i know it's stupid but i felt like we really had a connection and me and his mom still talk about everything and anything but me and him hardly talk any more and i like to be friends with my ex's. ok so i've tried to move on and date other guys but since then i've dated 1 other guy and it didnt work well at all because all i could think about was my ex so..i need some help. what should i do to get over him and move on??

2007-10-11 05:39:04 · 7 answers · asked by Taylor D 1 in Singles & Dating

1. Do you prefer a face over a nice body or vise-verse?
2. Short and pettite or tall and slender?
3. Plays hard to get or confident and straight to the point?
4. Confident or shy?
5. Nice girl or Naughty?
6. Not answering the phone when you call us does that really
make you want me more?
7. Girly or Natural?

I know being yourself is the best which that's what i do but some of these questions are natural to me so i dont know how they really apply in real life to men.

2007-10-11 05:38:42 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2 weeks ago...My m8 told all her m8s in college thats im shy and it still speading across the college. Im really scared....aready 12 girls came upto me today, I don't even know them but they very friendly. 2 weeks ago i only known 2 girls but now i know alot and i don't want to know them. They keep askin me questions...e.g "Hw old are u, u k,wt course do u do, can i have ur number, do u like me, do u want my number, are u single...etc?

Girls keep telling me tht they never met someone like me ever.

They make me feel really really nervous specially when i walk they keep chattin about me...i only can hear "oOoH this the guy, hello"

Every 5 mins a girl(s) says "helloooooooo"

I have't went college for 3 days...Im nervous.

do u think i should move college? or wait for a couple of weeks and the go bk 2 college?

2007-10-11 05:38:14 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

IN AUGUST OF THIS YEAR MY EX WAS ORDERED TO PAY CHILD SUPPORT..IT'S OCTOBER NOW AND STILL NO MONEY...I KNOW HE IS WORKING AND HE SAIS THAT THE MONEY WILL BE DEDUCTED FROM HIS PAY CHECK AUTOMATICALY...ANYBODY KNOWS HOW THIS THINGS WORK ?
thank you

2007-10-11 05:32:12 · 14 answers · asked by Juliet 5 in Marriage & Divorce

She left and is now living at her 18 year old fiance's parents house. These parents let her stay at their house with their 17 year old high school kid overnight and buys him alcohol. He also has an arrest record and wanted to be a police officer but was dropped from the police academy when they found out he had an arrest record. Neither her or her fiance have a job that could support them but they are getting married anyway and he is going to join the military to support them.

She says she doesn't need her parents anymore and hasn't included us at all in any wedding plans and had me drop her from all insurance and even decided she didn't need scholarship money that she would have gotten from my work... "I will go to school free once I am married and my husband is in the military as a enlisted man" "We need ot get married because I had an auto accident and we realized I need insurance"

Since when is it ok to let your kids shack up with the opposite sex in your house?

2007-10-11 05:27:19 · 18 answers · asked by frogman_007_2000 2 in Marriage & Divorce

All together now : "I don't care too much for money , money can't buy me love"

2007-10-11 05:26:50 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

And at the same time keep her from making the moves on my husband ? She might move into the apt. complex. I want to be a Christian witness to her but I do see attempts by her to flirt with my husband.

2007-10-11 05:26:37 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I just got unemployed, I am bearely sustaining myself rightnow, but currently working for a job,. but I have a court order saying that I have to pay 1500 a month., what should I do to get it deducted? where am i going to get money from to pay the child support when i bearly have to eat. when i find a job, my job wont be paying me as much as i was making before, and wont be able to afford such a big amount of child support. what should i do?

2007-10-11 05:25:19 · 20 answers · asked by SG 2 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I'm taking out a girl I knew in highschool tomorrow for our first date. I Really like her and I know flowers are a big no on the first. What can I do to show her I'm excited about her and suprise her tomorrow, without getting carried away?

2007-10-11 05:23:29 · 9 answers · asked by Nate 6 in Singles & Dating

Hi,
I have been dating this Japanese banker in Hong Kong for a few days now. I finally felt it was time to move to the next level. We did it in a hotel to ensure that no neighbours not ideas.
He carried lots of goodies for me. Once we were in the room, he stripped but stopped me from doing so. He presented chocolates, wine, inexpensive jewels, etc, to me in his birthday suit while I remained dressed. He then asked me to go to bathroom with him. We had a shower and he washed my hair for more than 10 minutes. Only then he peeled off my wet clothes. During the act, he spoke many times "f*** me like there is no tomorrow". I don't know what that means. After it was over, he gave me more gifts. Overall I have no complaints.

I have been out with him once again and again he offered me gifts, all wearing nothing. Again he gave me a shower. Again he spoke the same things.

I want to call off the relationship if he is abnormal. Any shrinks or therapists who are reading this?

2007-10-11 05:23:14 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Whenever i have great sex... my best orgasms always make me cry afterwards. I'm not sad, or hurt, or upset... i'm completely at ease because i just had the best feeling in the world. So why do i cry?

Does anybody know the scientific and biological reasoning behind this?

2007-10-11 05:21:54 · 48 answers · asked by Jenna C 1 in Singles & Dating

I am polite, soft spoken but it is hard for me to express my feelings. It seems everyone finds me boring . What should i do?

2007-10-11 05:20:30 · 11 answers · asked by Rip Van W 3 in Singles & Dating

I have been dating this girl on and off for about a year now. Right now she is showing interest in me again and I don't want her to lose interest. I am grounded now so I will only see her once a week at church and I go to church for God first and after church I can hang out with her for a little. we say we love each other everytime we get off the phone, is this a bad idea? How can I keep up her interest in me?? I really do love her and from what she's described about me she really does love me. I understand love is a verb not an emotion. I am 17 years old I need some help.

2007-10-11 05:18:44 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Now, those of you who are familiar with my questions will know the situation between me and my husband Albert. He's insane and has been carted off to the menagerie this afternoon.

Now, my question is thus: Do i go and visit him tonight with the obligatory bunch of grapes, or do i put my feet up infront of the telly with a glass of wine, box of chocs, and watch Eastenders?

2007-10-11 05:14:14 · 14 answers · asked by . 7 in Marriage & Divorce

I'm starting to plan my wedding and I'm trying to save all of the money I can. My fiance and I are on a VERY tight budget, so I'm trying to get creative. What are some good ideas for food without paying for a catering service?

2007-10-11 05:13:56 · 36 answers · asked by italian_mommy_022904 1 in Weddings

likes to fight with me and sometimes to everyone. Not with my parents though. She gets annoyed when I ask her how her day was when shes mad or not in a good mood at all. She tells me that I’m annoying and that I don’t stop asking her how her day was. I simply tell her, “You don’t have to answer. You can just ignore me and not say something back when you know I’ll respond.” When shes mad, I ask her, “Whats wrong?” Of course she says, “Nothing.” She thinks she can fool me, but I know the way she gets when she’s annoyed, pissed off, etc…She also likes to pick fights over the littlest things. About 2 days ago, I told her that my classmates where talking sh!t about Avril Lavine and she snaps her fingers and starts saying these stuff. I usually call her “immature freshman” becuz she acts immature, stubborn, and conceited. Shes gotten the knack on flipping her hair at someone’s face with her head held high.I try telling her that once she gets into high school, shes going to have problems.

2007-10-11 05:13:18 · 9 answers · asked by ღ 5 in Family

see my ex cheated on me 2yr into the relationship and got the girl pregnant and well the ***** had the baby. well me and him dated for almost 5 yrs and i still hate him, the baby, and her. I wished all of them would die especially the baby and her. I mean if ur going to cheat at least use protection. Well me and him broke up like 6 months ago when the baby was 3 months old b/c the more it was mentioned the more i thought about killing the baby. i know its the baby's fault but thats how i feel. I still haven't gotten over it people tell me that i should be over it by now but i'm not . It still upsets me b/c i loved him dearly he was my first love and i can't figure out why he would do this to me. He still wants to be with me but theres no way i'm taking him back. I feel like i have been betrayled b/c i was here first and him and his mom who i was really close to should not accepted the baby. what do u think? how do u move on from something like this happing.

2007-10-11 05:11:37 · 50 answers · asked by bluedevilsgirl07 2 in Singles & Dating

I have been with my bf 4, 3 years. Recently we went on a trip where I met one of his old friends. One night we all were at a large party and my bf was drunk and everyone was dancing around. She went and was dancing on my bf.. Then when my bf goes to get another one of his friends all of a sudden she jumps on the back of his bike w/him. I didnt see them until morning. This girl called me controlling for being mad that he spent the night at his friends house w/ her there. He stayed away from her for the next fews days and then she shows up again. And they talk all the time now, am i supposed to be okay with this? Is it okay? Now it's like he doesn't even care about me.. he says why don't I just leave him when I try to talk with him.. and when he gets mad at me doesn't talk to me for days and does anything he can to try and make me mad. What do I do?

2007-10-11 05:11:34 · 12 answers · asked by Ashley 1 in Singles & Dating

My One Small Voice on Y!A has come to an end. Gravity is impatiently calling; though it was truly grand while it lasted. Thank you all for the wonderful ride, the memories, the kind words, the love, and your gracious friendship (and yes, even the occasional insults too). … Virtual as all this maybe, you will always be remembered.


Peace and Farewell - May you all live long and prosper.



P.S. As a sign of my heartfelt appreciation, I will leave the account open (at least for some time) - in case any of you would ever wish to revisit the memories.

Here's one last present - enjoy:

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Keep your chins up and try to always be :-)

2007-10-11 05:11:21 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

2007-10-11 05:10:52 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My Wife has a male "best friend" she met at work years ago and last year I started getting jealous and suspicious of their relationship. Our relationship was going through some hard times, I was working too hard and was depressed about an illness I found out I had and then, once I started having these feelings of jealousy I started to distance myself from her instead of talking to her like I should of.

Well my suspicions did end up being correct, my wife had a relationship with this "best friend". It was an on and off thing for about 5 months and was not an intentional affair. She would meet him and cry about how bad her relationship at home was and they ended up kissing. They both said they regretted it after it happened, but then it happened multiple times in that 5 month period. I started to spy on her email and found out that they chatted and emailed back and forth a lot, I don't know if they even believed they were having an affair, but it was painfully obvious too me.

She finally confessed it to me back in May, I think she wanted to tell me and couldn't, but I also told her I found the emails and she had no choice but to tell me.

We had some pretty big blowouts, but have agreed to work on our marriage. The biggest thing that bothers me is that she wants to stay friends with this guy. I asked her, and she agreed not too see him or talk to him for a while. But every now and then she has these breakdowns that she doesn't get to talk to her friend, it always ends in tears and I give a small concession and let her email him at work for professional reasons only, then I say it's Ok to ask how he is, but nothing too detailed. I am feeling like a doormat. I want her to realize that having this guy still around is like leaving the knife still in my chest, but she says she doesn't have any other friends and she feels so lonely with out him around.

She says she loves me more than anything and it's not a competition between us, but I am afraid to ask "him or me" because I shouldn't have to give her an ultimatum and she is not a child and should be able to make her own decisions
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I know the affair was a stupid mistake and I believe she regrets it, but am I wrong to think she should let this guy go forever? Should I be stronger and let them rebuild their trust with me? We have three small children and I don't want to give up what we have, but at the same time I need to do something to stop feeling the way I do right now.

2007-10-11 05:10:20 · 47 answers · asked by qwerty0987623 1 in Marriage & Divorce

1. they are saying that the girl is of different religion and caste]
2. we love each other so much that we can't live without eachother.

2007-10-11 05:09:17 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-10-11 05:07:04 · 18 answers · asked by red monk 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I made Albert a Greek Salad for his tea tonight. He suggested that the feta cheese should have been crumbled and not sliced. I became upset with his obvious displeasure of it, and inadvertently accused him of having a bit of "hows yer father" with the big barmaid from the Star & Garter. We rowed for about three hours and the old boy upstairs from us became annoyed and started hammering down on the floor. Albert is now in the huff and not talking to me. I feel upset as i went to the trouble of making him the Greek Salad in the first place. Geoffrey says i do too much for him already and that he's an ungrateful tit towards me. He's just gone out now down the Star & Garter and taken wee Pongo with him. I'm worried that big Betty will be working tonight. I bet she makes better Greek Salad than i do. What should i do please? Thanks in advance. I'm terribly upset.

2007-10-11 05:06:26 · 22 answers · asked by . 7 in Marriage & Divorce