ok so i dated this guy fro 2 months..tha begining of summer and to the end of summer i know it's stupid but i felt like we really had a connection and me and his mom still talk about everything and anything but me and him hardly talk any more and i like to be friends with my ex's. ok so i've tried to move on and date other guys but since then i've dated 1 other guy and it didnt work well at all because all i could think about was my ex so..i need some help. what should i do to get over him and move on??
2007-10-11 05:39:04 · 7 answers · asked by Taylor D 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
This may sound harsh, but I'm going on what I've read. You were "Handy" Taylor. The summer fling! Nothing more! I take it your still in school? In the summer girls are not all in the same area like they are on a school yard. Sounds like your ex wants to "Play the Field". So let him! And you should do the same! See Ya!! Have Fun!
2007-10-11 06:38:27 · answer #1 · answered by david 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi Taylor,
With all due respect, are you real sure you want to get over him?
I can offer you two alternatives, one, is to get him hooked, and the other is to be able to remove him from your mind completely.
If you are certain you want to get over him, do this, this is my own creation and helped me get over my ex wife who I loved more than life itself, but I will not spend all my time talking about me, it's you we are helping.
What you need to achieve in order for it to work, is a result you can deal with and will let you down gently, with no residual side effects.
" Imagine in your mind that this guy you are so fond of just suddendly died and was gone. Now, go through the emotions of the loss, cry, hurt, let it all out. bring out all your good feelings and your hurt and feel them and feel the hurt and pain in losing him.
When there is no more to give on your part, you will be healed by the release from your heart, body, mind and soul.
Then imagine you burying him with all respects and honors and know that it just was not meant to be.
At this point you have given your system the logical release that it will be able to deal with and leave you healed, and ready to move on in life.
I can also explain how to have him to be yours, 100%, but that is not what you asked me, so if you want to have him, contact me.
Good question,
Darryl S.
2007-10-11 13:38:14 · answer #2 · answered by Stingray 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you really want to get over him, think of another guy you really like. someone that means a lot to you. focus on things that truely matter. like work of some sort. if you still cannot get over him, tell him. let him know you cant stand being away from him, trust me, something he will say will help you. i hope you do okay! (by the way, i originaly clicked on the 2nd question u posted saying to go back to this one.)
2007-10-11 13:23:07 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Loose connection and think bout negative things about him
KISS - KEEP IT SIMPLE STUPID!
2007-10-11 12:47:34 · answer #4 · answered by DaisysMumma13 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think u should talk to him and tell him how u feel.let him know or something might happen .and if he doesnt care .move on,its for the best.=)
2007-10-11 12:44:48 · answer #5 · answered by LaShar.Baybee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
move on and enjoy your new date. this will takes awhile before you forget about your old date.
2007-10-11 13:26:11 · answer #6 · answered by LEXUSRY 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ummm..... probably loose all contact with him and his family is a start... otherwise you will keep torturing yourself...
2007-10-11 12:42:43 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋