likes to fight with me and sometimes to everyone. Not with my parents though. She gets annoyed when I ask her how her day was when shes mad or not in a good mood at all. She tells me that I’m annoying and that I don’t stop asking her how her day was. I simply tell her, “You don’t have to answer. You can just ignore me and not say something back when you know I’ll respond.” When shes mad, I ask her, “Whats wrong?” Of course she says, “Nothing.” She thinks she can fool me, but I know the way she gets when she’s annoyed, pissed off, etc…She also likes to pick fights over the littlest things. About 2 days ago, I told her that my classmates where talking sh!t about Avril Lavine and she snaps her fingers and starts saying these stuff. I usually call her “immature freshman” becuz she acts immature, stubborn, and conceited. Shes gotten the knack on flipping her hair at someone’s face with her head held high.I try telling her that once she gets into high school, shes going to have problems.
2007-10-11 05:13:18 · 9 answers · asked by ღ 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Almost a month ago, she got into a fight becuz of a girl who kissed her best guy friend. She wasn’t like this when we were in California. She was known for the calm, sweet type of girl who flies under the radar, yet she takes advantage of this. How can I get her to stop fighting with me when I’m not looking for a fight? My mom says we don’t give each other respect. She gets mad if I go into her room when shes not there cuz she thinks I’m going to take something away from her. Now she comes into my room, either im there or not, and I don’t fight with her at all. My mom says shes only looking to fight me. I try my best to get along with her, but it seems she’s always in her snappy side. Tell her something that she might take wrong and she offends you, humiliates you, and makes fun of you the way she does to me. I miss my sister when she wasn’t like this. I think all the attention the students gave her on her first day changed her.
2007-10-11 05:13:39 · update #1
Everyone wanted her to sit with them, so she probably liked the attention. I want her back. Can u help me? And am I doing a good thing by asking u this? Im
2007-10-11 05:14:14 · update #2
16 shes 13
2007-10-11 05:14:30 · update #3
Sometimes kids change a little when they are teens.. it could be hormonal, or they are feeling like a grown up and craving independence, etc. You said you moved, so maybe this is bothering her right now? It could be any number of things.
It's no reflection on YOU hon, and nothing you have done.
Your mother really needs to address this issue and keep an eye on your sister to see she's ok. It's not your responsibility, but i do know you are concerned.
You can always let your sister know that you see she is having a tough time, and if she ever needs someone to listen, you are there... she will hear you and remember it... maybe that will help?
take care of YOU in the meantime. hugs
2007-10-11 05:24:25 · answer #1 · answered by letterstoheather 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just give her some respect. Treat and talk to her like an adult. Dont bug her about going into your room. What ever it is she does that annoys you, show that it does not annoy you anymore and she will stop doing it. Leave your room open, if she goes in, don't bug her about it, let her have access to your life on her terms, not yours. If she borrows your clothes, just ask if she has it, then just remind her to put it back when she is done with it. Don't make a big deal out of little things. Your sisters, be there for her and she will be there for you. She may just be having boy trouble. Getting pressured to do more than she wants, from him and her friends. Make sure she can come to you with anything, and don't judge her and keep your calm.
2007-10-11 06:55:35 · answer #2 · answered by donniez369 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like she is entering into some major puberty. Since you are older, you can understand the changes her body (and mind) are going through. As her older sister, I would just continue to give her encouragement and be a good role model.
If she is SUPER ANGRY ALL THE TIME, something may have happened to her that she is not revealing. I had a cousin who acted that way. My aunt would say, "Oh, she's just been a bit*h for 6 years"...but that is NOT normal!
Just keep showering her with love and affection and letting her know that you love her and will always be there for her. If you are pretty, successful, etc, she may feel like she can't live up to the standard that you have set. She may feel frustrated to be in your shadow...
Just some thoughts...
2007-10-11 05:25:56 · answer #3 · answered by itsallgood 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She seems to be at "that biiittttcccchhhhyyyy" age. all of us pass with the aid of it to a pair quantity, some extra or decrease than others. And suited approximately center college is whilst it happens to maximum human beings. She'll improve out of it. yet she's additionally on the age the place she won't hear to you no rely what you assert, so which you will besides save your breath. she will could journey those issues on her own so she will the best thank you to conquer them.
2016-10-06 12:11:46 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You keep cam when she try to fight U don't be cool ,try to understand her because she is just 13 this is the growing age her every thing is developing, u and your mom both try to be cool and watch her activity,try to lichens her feeling what ever ,and help her in her work in her activity,in her home work
shear some homely work with her, give some gift like good pen story book,or
2007-10-11 07:25:34 · answer #5 · answered by M. R 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know how you feel, but i thing you're suffocating her why don't you leave her for a while. I can feel that you love so much. But you have to give a her breathing room.
You are not allowed to enter her room unless invited. She feels like you are invading her privacy.
Keep up your toes. Be there there when she needs you.
Always look up to her but only in a distance.
It's not bad to look after our sibling... but when it's too much i don't thing they will appreciate it.
I have a who told me.... Your opinion is good but you better to keep it to your self unless I ask for it.
Good luck.
2007-10-11 09:57:58 · answer #6 · answered by Blue Angel 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't worry about it. Maybe she changed because maybe she's in a popular group or something. Have a little talk with her and tell her that you missed the old her. Maybe she would understand.
2007-10-11 09:15:24 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
just keep asking her about her day, but only twice. She'll eventually open up to you and respond. Remember the best of friendships takes time and patience
2007-10-11 05:20:54 · answer #8 · answered by lynpen2007 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would give her the silent treatment. As tempting as it is to talk yo her. Wait for her to talk to you and when she does, give her a taste of her own medicine, the silent treatment, to see if that helps over a period of time.
Take care darling,
Natalie The Queen
2007-10-11 05:43:25 · answer #9 · answered by Princess Natalie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋