Hi,
I have been dating this Japanese banker in Hong Kong for a few days now. I finally felt it was time to move to the next level. We did it in a hotel to ensure that no neighbours not ideas.
He carried lots of goodies for me. Once we were in the room, he stripped but stopped me from doing so. He presented chocolates, wine, inexpensive jewels, etc, to me in his birthday suit while I remained dressed. He then asked me to go to bathroom with him. We had a shower and he washed my hair for more than 10 minutes. Only then he peeled off my wet clothes. During the act, he spoke many times "f*** me like there is no tomorrow". I don't know what that means. After it was over, he gave me more gifts. Overall I have no complaints.
I have been out with him once again and again he offered me gifts, all wearing nothing. Again he gave me a shower. Again he spoke the same things.
I want to call off the relationship if he is abnormal. Any shrinks or therapists who are reading this?
2007-10-11 05:23:14 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Aren't Japanese men real weird, period? Maybe he has some sort of fetish or you're his first girlfriend. Who knows.. good luck!
2007-10-11 05:36:20 · answer #1 · answered by Astrid A 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
im not a shrink or a therapist but a one of every so often of that is great but all the time isnt so ggreat and showering you with gifts all the time will get rather boring so i understand were your coming from
2007-10-11 12:28:11 · answer #2 · answered by lilhails 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What do you wear afterwards when you leave the hotel? Maybe thats his fetish.. you have to stay until your clothes dry.
He sounds a little too into this routine. Find someone whose fetishes you are more comfortable with.
2007-10-11 12:31:28 · answer #3 · answered by boots6 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't get a warm, fuzzy feeling from this. I personally would think it's strange, especially since he repeated it the second time. I think I'd be leery of this guy.
2007-10-11 12:27:42 · answer #4 · answered by dinny's engaged!! 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Now I understand why Japanese girls don't pay much attention to Japanese men!!!
2007-10-12 11:48:19 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, i'm not any shrink or therapist but from what i read, he's very very creepy. maybe it's just one of his fetishs or he thinks you're a high class prostitute...i didnt mean to insult you or whatever but who knows? trying to help you.
2007-10-11 12:39:42 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
I'm no shrink but that's too creepy for me.
2007-10-11 12:31:57 · answer #7 · answered by shellshell 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think he is either confused or inexperienced with a girl.cos this is what we want from a girl.
2007-10-11 12:34:49 · answer #8 · answered by xyep 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋