1. they are saying that the girl is of different religion and caste]
2. we love each other so much that we can't live without eachother.
2007-10-11 05:09:17 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
this "love thing" only exists until marraige esp b/n hindu & non hindu.No matter whether its a man or woman, when a hindu marries a non hindu, the hindu is always subject to extreme pressure from the non hindu's family for conversion.
Best thing is to ask her for conversion to hindu to be on the safe side.
I've seen so many people posting their similar experiecens here.
Better be safe than sorry..
2007-10-11 05:19:03 · answer #1 · answered by anser_quest 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would normally suggest that you respond to the call of your heart. True love doesn't come easy. If you are lucky enough to have found it in your life, don't give it a miss. Try to convince your parents that love triumphs over everything including religion, caste etc. Tell them that if you can not marry each other, life would be meaningless for both of you. If they are still not convinced, you should normally elope and marry.
But a word of caution. Very recently in Kolkata, a poor Muslim boy named Rizwan married Priyanka Todi, the daughter of a wealthy Hindu, Marwari. They were in love with one another. The boy's family accepted Priyanka as their daughter-in-law. But Ashok Todi, the girl's father refused to accept the same. He connived with some high officials of Kolkata Police and had Rizwan murdered but tried to make it look like a case of suicide. There has been a lot of hue and cry in Kolkata over this incident. My advice for you is not to do anything that might endanger either or both of your lives. Remember that like love, life is precious too.
2007-10-11 13:39:21 · answer #2 · answered by Modest 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hello,
Same situation was with us i was a Hindu and my husband a Christan and our parents were against us but we convinced them by speaking frankly that we cant live without each other and try to impress her family with your behaviour and give confidence that you will keep her happy lifelong. I will suggest that don't run from family you should start your life with every bodies blessings. We did the same thing now we are leading a happy life with two sweet kids.
BEST OF LUCK MAY GOD BLESS YOU !
2007-10-12 00:04:15 · answer #3 · answered by Cecil R 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
OK bro, this is a love story, ha!! jokes apart. think before u do any thing.. ur selft and the girl are diffrent religion. do u think u want to change ur religion, like u change ur clothes, i dont think so. at the same time ur girl also dont need to change her religion, i know some can be free thinker, but what ever it is, there is a birth place right.??
Do u belive in god.?? I dont know but do u belive parents.?? must be a yes, right. u can marry ur girl, but i want u to marry ur girl with ur parents blessing. look if u trust me i can sove ur prob, sent me the details about the both side parents u and ur girl..
DARBAR.
2007-10-11 14:24:16 · answer #4 · answered by darbar 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Are you both practicing your separate religions? If not, go for it, but discuss BEFOREHAND holidays, rearing children, etc. Make sure everything is on the table before tying the knot.
If you both do practice, are you willing to give up certain beliefs in your respective religions? Will you both be trying to convert the other? Your faith is a monumental part of who you are, and, unless you're willing to sacrifice part of it, I'm not sure it can work. I hate to say it, but love does NOT conquer all.
2007-10-11 12:24:07 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
both convert to a thrid relgion and live
let the girl convert to ure relgigion. im 3/4 hindu 1/4 shamanist
but plz 4 my sake leave the girl stick with ure parents
plz
2007-10-11 12:25:41 · answer #6 · answered by possessed by insanity 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
question
1) dude r u working ?
2) can u manage 3 person with the salarie if u r earning?
ans
if the ans is no to the 1st dont marry her now wait till u get job, love does not fill u r stomach dude .
if yes to 2nd que then its u r life u can move on with it, with out expectation from u r parents. get a rented home, new thing move with her........
2007-10-11 12:25:23 · answer #7 · answered by GRK4U 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The best thing to do is:
Keep up the same relation as you are having with the girl.
Every one knows after marriage life is not as good as life before marriage. You will remain happy, your GF will be happy, and your parents will also be happy....!
2007-10-11 12:22:26 · answer #8 · answered by cnonline 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what is the ground for their objection? merely because of religion? God says we must love, even our emery! so they should have love you too....
to me, a true love is above everything.
love is between the 2 of you.
talk to them if they are open else just prove to them, both can still live on with each other maintaining your own religion, not necessary to change to suit one another in this aspect.
God is love! and as Christian, they must live out that teaching.
2007-10-11 12:20:35 · answer #9 · answered by lost man 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You can fall in line and obey your parents; or you can get married and become athiests or join another type religing. Organized religion exists only for the money and power over the people anyway; quit being sheep and get away from it.
2007-10-11 12:44:28 · answer #10 · answered by acmeraven 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋