So the guy im inlove with says to me I don't know why this is so hard for me to say to you but your ...your beautiful, ok well the truth is your drop down gorgeous ..then he says I don't telling you that because im sure you hear it all the time and I don't want to sound like a broken record. This is what struck weird..he then goes to say instead of saying your the most beautiful I have seen which I know is not true but you know how guys are..instead he said your the most beautiful girl who has ever looked at me. Is that odd? He says things like you make me feel special , I feel important when your around,I love the fact that you want to be with me and touch me, you care about me like no one else does..he says all that but hardly says how he feels about me..He also said he likes bringing to places and around his friends to say hey I got "her"....it all seems to be about how I make him feel about himself..is this striking anyone else as odd?Or am I just thinking too much?
2007-10-11 05:46:36 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
This question is not about the use of my words so that being said its just yahoo answers no here is grading on how you write your questions..I swear some people have nothing better to do then be rude to others.I was asking a question..One of which I wanted an opinion on and only on that question.
2007-10-11 06:04:44 · update #1
He has low self esteem. You are probably not JUST an ego boost to him though. He is obsessed with your appearance though. He has put a lot of stock into how great you are because of your appearance. Would it bother you if he said, you are the smartest woman to ever look at me? If not then don't worry about it. Your smarts are also genetic like your looks.
2007-10-11 05:51:47 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
He's telling you how you make him feel. I don't think that's a bad thing. I would wonder more if he said nothing and paraded you around then went back to being closed off.
He is obviously very proud of you. And he can't imagine another man NOT telling you these things and NOT appreciating you, that's why he thinks he sounds like a broken record.
Saying that you care about him like nobody else has is a good thing, in my opinion, you stand out to him.
2007-10-11 05:53:38 · answer #2 · answered by Martin R 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Grow up.
He's is right. Listen to him. He's trying to tell you that he likes you inside too and not just for your looks. That's very sweet and a break through a man's psyche, But you are so self absorved and narcisistic that can see pass that??? WOW.
If I hear one more time that I have "beautiful eyes" I'm going to puke. I've never been moved but that obvious compliment. My man has never told me that I have beautiful eyes and I so much appretiate it. He tells me that I'm smart, confident, professional, honest etc. and I love how proud he is of me. He has seldomly complimented my way above average looks, because it's obvious that I'm gorgeaous and I don't need reassurance of my physyque and that's why I love him, because he can see pass my charms and loves me for who I am.
The awful truth is that you crave adulation and that's what feeds your ego, and when someone is mature, honest and doesn't just want you for your flesh, then you don't know what to do with yourself because you know that you have nothing else to give. You are conceided and inmature. Honestly, you don't deserve him.
Good luck
2007-10-11 05:54:22 · answer #3 · answered by Blunt 7 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Sounds like you are completely right. He has a low self esteem and thinks that being with you makes him more of a person, but in a superficial way.
You don't seem like you want to be a trophy girlfriend, so you should tell him that you feel like he only likes you for your looks. If he doesn't start treating you like you're more than an object, you should dump him.
2007-10-11 05:58:06 · answer #4 · answered by rorybuns 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
well you must be pretty fine girl...but i think you and him need to do some talking being open and honest with each other and find out what is really going on..tell him how you feel and the things he says how they make you feel..any good relationship start with being open and honest and talking so get to work on that and get your relationship moving in the right direction....good luck
2007-10-11 05:53:27 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
So you are 'drop down gorgeous', you have the man you are in love with telling you this, over and over.
Was there a problem in this question somewhere?
2007-10-12 02:43:47 · answer #6 · answered by danashelchan 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
He IS telling you how he feels.... listen.
If you don't like the way he expresses himself, maybe you ought to break it off...
2007-10-11 05:50:07 · answer #7 · answered by letterstoheather 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Girls say they want a man who expresses himself...well there you have it...I guess girls don't like it that much after all.
2007-10-11 05:51:48 · answer #8 · answered by CC 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
The contraction for "you are" is "you're". You're not the brightest bulb in the pack, are you?
2007-10-11 05:59:39 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Doesn't sound any different than any other guy that is crazy about a woman........haven't you ever been told this before??? Weird...........
2007-10-11 05:52:27 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋