I made Albert a Greek Salad for his tea tonight. He suggested that the feta cheese should have been crumbled and not sliced. I became upset with his obvious displeasure of it, and inadvertently accused him of having a bit of "hows yer father" with the big barmaid from the Star & Garter. We rowed for about three hours and the old boy upstairs from us became annoyed and started hammering down on the floor. Albert is now in the huff and not talking to me. I feel upset as i went to the trouble of making him the Greek Salad in the first place. Geoffrey says i do too much for him already and that he's an ungrateful tit towards me. He's just gone out now down the Star & Garter and taken wee Pongo with him. I'm worried that big Betty will be working tonight. I bet she makes better Greek Salad than i do. What should i do please? Thanks in advance. I'm terribly upset.
2007-10-11 05:06:26 · 22 answers · asked by . 7 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
First of, calm down. Everything will be all right and throwing accusations at your partner will not solve the situation. He loves you and the two of you are just going through a rough patch! I'm sure that he didn't mean to insult your cooking and I know that he appreciates all you do for him even if it doesn't feel that way right now. Give him a few days to calm down. the only reason he went out was probably to get away to calm down. He doesn't want to get away from you, he wants to clear his mind so that the two of you will be able to work it out!
Good luck!
2007-10-11 05:12:35 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hello, is this for real? The way you write it sounds like you are a great novelist. However, being married, in throes of divorce, to a control freak who will argue about everything I do or say you have all my sympathy about the Feta cheese. My other half goes to the pub when we have a row and comes back worse than ever, with the drink fuelling his temper. Tonight he yelled and shouted at my inability to deal with the TV after HE screwed it up. He broke it, then blamed me! Why dont you go down to the Star and garter too. Dress to kill. Swank in and knock him dead. Really dead!
Cinderella
2007-10-11 09:58:30 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
But how is it possible to argue 3 hours over a Greek salad??
Honestly, I think both of you have a load of problems in your relation ship and use each silly excuse to make a big deal out of it...
I wouldn´t react that way, if I were you, I would just have laughed and said: "Well honey, this is a new version of Greek salad - enjoy it..."
Find out the reason why you do have such silly arguments over nothing and things will calm down....
If you feel that he is ungrateful and gives less than he takes from you, well, stop to pamper him that much.
2007-10-11 05:17:04 · answer #3 · answered by Anita P 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
get a grip, stop accusing him of things if you have no proof or he will do it to prove you right, does Geoff fancy you cos if he was a friend he would have told you not to be daft Albert made a suggestion about the feta he didn't tell you it was an awful attempt, do you even want to be with this guy as you seem to be picking at the slightest thing, lastly put on ya glad rags go to the pub and show Betty what he has at home!
2007-10-11 05:13:03 · answer #4 · answered by annsummerswench 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
tut tut! you naughty girl.. Greek salad should be served with sliced feta never crumbled, no wonder your hubby has got the huff with ya!..
just think if big Betty knows a thing or two she could be making him a proper Greek salad with cucumber tomatoes olives olive oil and sliced feta ... he could be enjoying himself eating his salad while looking over the bar at Betty obvious attributes.
2007-10-11 05:26:43 · answer #5 · answered by robert x 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Next time do it properly and crumble the Feta cheese
2007-10-11 06:24:29 · answer #6 · answered by Dory 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You really should crumble the feta cheese. I'm just saying, I'd be upset too.
2007-10-11 05:11:03 · answer #7 · answered by hutmikttmuk 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Your Greek Saladis way better than Betty the Busty Barmaid!
2016-04-08 03:07:43 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Greek salad,is it? next time slice a few chillis into it; give him something to whine about.
2007-10-11 06:22:56 · answer #9 · answered by marie m 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Feta cheese should always be served in chunks, not crumbles.
2007-10-11 05:17:16 · answer #10 · answered by boots6 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋