Family & Relationships - 11 October 2007

I feel a lil stressed out. I do all the cooking, cleaning, washing, bathing and a whole lot. When the kids go back with their mother its a time for us to just relax and take a break. The other day they came over the house when it was not their week with us. Do not get me wrong I love them to death but sometimes I just need a break. Yesterday at work was very stressful so all I wanted to do was come home and relax. When my boyfriend picked me up, I noticed they were in the car and I felt a lil indifferent. They were fighting and kicking each other in the backseat. I could not handle it! By the time, I got home I was asked to cook but did not want to do it. So instead my boyfriend did. I jumped in the shower, locked the door to the room, and went to sleep. My question is, is that bad of me to be that way? I mean even if you never been in a situation like this im sure there was a time when you wanted to be alone and did not want to be bothered by any one. Ughhhh.... it was just one of those days I guess.... Feed back please!

2007-10-11 05:03:02 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I hate school. I never want to go there. I havent gone for 5 days, but it's not just because I don't want to go there, it's because I'm sick. I'm always scared to go there; I'm scared of what people will say to me, about me, whatever. I just really don't want to know. But all of my friends freak out on me because I miss days of school. I missed alot in 6th grade! And I will NEVER do that again, but I'm still scared to death that child services will come, don't say that they won't cuz my mom works for the local sheriffs office. I feel so bad because my mom leaves our house crying when i stay home. The point is, I need something to look forward to for me and my mom to live better.....can you help?

2007-10-11 04:58:36 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

I moved away from my friends, my family and my beautiful hometown that I was born in. Now I have been here for 4 years, going on 5. The school I go to here is good, and there are SOOOOO many traveling opportunities. I get to go home every summer to see everyone, but all I want more than anything is to finish High School there. Right now I am in grade nine. My mom says that we can't move back because she wouldn't have a job there, and the job here she absolutly LOVES. Everytime I bring up the subject of home she gets mad at me and goes into this 'we have to enjoy things at the moment and be happy' thing. and... I do enjoy things I just want to be home- like I"m dying to be and I think I've lived in this country long enough- and may I add it is a Muslim country. Two years ago I convinced her in a mother's day card to let me go back home for the remainder of the year by telling her how I felt. But now she kind of regrets letting me go back. How can I convince her!?????? HELP!!!!!

2007-10-11 04:56:47 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

after a divorce, the person wants to marry again? Isn't a one-time bad thing enough to last a lifetime? Why subject yourself to that possibility again?
Wouldn't peace of mind be better? Being alone doesn't always mean being lonely!
Can I get some opinions on this please!

2007-10-11 04:55:12 · 11 answers · asked by sugarbee 7 in Marriage & Divorce

I met a girl at a place on my campus (college student) we had ice cream for few hours. She IMed me when i got back, said she had a good time, wanted to hang out again. I called her and asked her to dinner. I definitely think she likes me but she always seems nervous around me and i cant really tell how comfortable she is with me yet. Should I kiss her goodnight on the lips on the end of this second date or would a cheek kiss be better?

2007-10-11 04:53:00 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i met this lad....and im not to sure where its going...ive tryed asking him before but he said he was to busy at work. i dont know him enough to ring him so i just thought about sending him a text. im scared incase he gets scared off if i text him tho........but i want to know if im waisting my time or not!!...ive had enough **** with lads and dont want to be draged along when he doesnt really like me.
should should i text him?

2007-10-11 04:50:30 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Do men really date by the "rules"? Is there such a thing for men? When do the games stop? How do you tell if a man really does love you and he is not interested in other women?

2007-10-11 04:50:14 · 17 answers · asked by butterflyprincess 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-10-11 04:49:38 · 16 answers · asked by ? 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I'm getting married in exactly one month and am starting to get depressed over the idea that in just one month the most important day of my life will be over with. I know a lot of people get depressed following the wedding because so much effort is put into it and then, POOF, it's over but is it normal to get depressed this early?

It just seems kind of sad that you wait for something your whole life and now that it's right around the corner I have to be ready to let that wiating and anticipation leave. Anyone else ever feel this? I'm excited, of course, but how do you not miss the idea of getting married after you've gotten married?

2007-10-11 04:46:01 · 9 answers · asked by Mary D 2 in Weddings

2007-10-11 04:45:04 · 12 answers · asked by Bob 1 in Singles & Dating

What kind of dirty gross bathroom things do you do infront of your spouse, or your spouse does infront of you?

#1, #2, menstrual stuff.....etc....anything.

please tell me are you the husband / wife, how long you've been married or together, and how the other feels about seeing you do those kind of things.............

2007-10-11 04:44:52 · 23 answers · asked by alcmena 4 in Marriage & Divorce

I have been reading various law on Jewish wedding rings and have seen various mentions of either no stones, no holes, some say no bumps. Some say this is only for the Woman. i have seen a comment about the man's is more traditional more still different. Anyone care to explain? Mine coming is a "Ani Le Dodi" which has the letters cut out. Some others I have seen have raised letters or cut out with backing. Being there is so many places selling these I wonder about the law of this.

Also ancient Jewish wedding rings where HUGE. Like the women's would be of a house, really a metal house on a ring. It would be at least an inch high off the finger.

Anyway please inform me and what designs have you seen?>

2007-10-11 04:42:20 · 7 answers · asked by יונתן 4 in Weddings

where do you work in canada

2007-10-11 04:41:25 · 9 answers · asked by Alfred Kenyi J 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Is this a good gift?

2007-10-11 04:41:08 · 15 answers · asked by KhrisB 3 in Singles & Dating

what would you do stay with the man who has millions or leave for the one who has nothing?

2007-10-11 04:40:09 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Welll it seems that my sweety has been doing some undercover investigation on his own.Shocked the heck out of me! he has chosen these rings as possible contenders:

http://www.avalondiamonds.com/catalog/detail?cid=733&pid=1779

with a diamond like this (Not this exact diamond)

http://www.uniondiamond.com/diamonds/diamonds.php?action_type_id=2&item_id=AA530222&network_id=bd41e7c32c408c633b3a15eabe32f208

The second ring he chose was:

http://www.uniondiamond.com/jewelry/jewelry.php?item_id=913&action_type_id=2&pic_name=&shape_id=

With a one karat radiant cut diamond.

I'm having a hard time deciding. Need opinions please.

2007-10-11 04:39:41 · 18 answers · asked by navywife_2001 3 in Weddings

This is instant stuff. Say you only have 5 mins to talk to a guy, like a speed dating thing..what are the 5 things you check for to see if you would want to continue talking with a guy?

2007-10-11 04:39:28 · 4 answers · asked by Susan F 4 in Singles & Dating

I have always been the "perfect" child compared to my sisters. My dad got remarried when I was 8 so I have lived my stepmom for the last 11 years. My mom does not have a dominant role in my life and my dad is very passive. My stepmom will yell at me about anything and my dad will just sit there and not say a word. She drove my two sisters out of the house already. They were considered "problem" children and she told my dad if they didnt go she would cuz she wasnt going to put up with them. They now live with grandparents. I am all my dad has left at the house when im not away at school. Why won't he stick up for his own children? I dont understand why he would let my sisters leave and keep her? I feel like she is trying to get me out of the house to. Ive been really depressed about this and dont know what to do :(

2007-10-11 04:39:20 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

i like this guy..he likes me..we arn't dating..
he vented to me last night how he made out with this girl and then she played him for someone else. I'm not exactly sure what to do. we've dated before...but broke up..i'm willing for a second chance with him..
he also is a student observer in a class at my high school..
he says nothing can happen between he and i while he's here at my school..yea..
it sucks..
any advice?...i'd really appriciate it
because I like the guy soo much..and he says he cares the same for me as i do for him..idk..ugh

2007-10-11 04:39:13 · 1 answers · asked by trpt110ny 2 in Singles & Dating

Take a girl that you do not know much about her personal life (has a bf or not). You guys are not even close friends. If you asked her out or for her number, and if she WASN'T interested she could of just said "NO" or "I have a BF" (lie or the truth) or any other answer to reject that idea. But if she gives you her number...then it's possible she's interested? Please help and explain. Thank you. I appreciate it.

2007-10-11 04:37:27 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

What are some major turn offs in a women? When your dating and have been dating for a long time? Or even if your not dating? What do you find the most attractive in a women?

2007-10-11 04:36:26 · 16 answers · asked by ♥M♥ 4 in Singles & Dating

I don't want to crush his feelings but at the same time I don't want him to think I feel the same way for him as he feels for me. He tells me all of these cute things like the best part of him going into work is getting to talk to me. We have only been talking for about 3 weeks now and I don't feel the same the best part of my day was talking to my best friend.

2007-10-11 04:36:05 · 13 answers · asked by Brownie12866 2 in Singles & Dating

You could only have one, which would you choose?

2007-10-11 04:35:38 · 43 answers · asked by kellylee 2 in Singles & Dating

I am seperated from my husband and we getting a divorce soon. I left him 9 months ago because of his drinking and it was starting to affect our daughters lives. I left him wanting him to change and get better but I guess he didn't want that cause he is with someone else and she is 6 months pregnant. It is hard for me because I didn't want it to turn out this way. How do I act towards this innocent baby? I know I need to act mature because this is my daughters half sister. Do I need to act a certain way towards this child and the mother? There is just so much hate towards my husband. Has anyone been in this situation?Thanks!

2007-10-11 04:35:22 · 23 answers · asked by lvbrdy4vr 1 in Marriage & Divorce

i recently met this young lady of 19 and i am 29. her mother seems to like me. we went out on 3 dates and they all seemed to go really well. on the last date she told me that she was bipolar and had low self esteem especially about her looks. i told her that if she was ugly that i wouldn't have stopped my car in the first place when i met her and reassured her of how beautiful she was. when we parted she said, "will i see you tomorrow?" i said "yes". but when i called her mom said she was sick. the next day i brought her chocolates an some medicine and just showed up with it to drop it off and left. hours later she calls and says that we're not working out because i am not her type. she said she wantsomeone who is compassionate and good with kids, but i also played with her little brothers while i was there. she also said i am concieted and a "pretty boy" and she hasn't dated pretty play boys. but she said we can still hang out as freinds? but in the past, she was the 1 who kisst me!

2007-10-11 04:33:39 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

A friend of mine has been seeing a married man off and on for over a year. Please don't comment on that situation, I've told her what I think and we'll leave it at that. However, she just took off with him for a week to his home town....yes, the same town where he lives with his wife and kids. He's here when he works for two weeks a month then home for two weeks. Anyways...she just got back into school and she is jepordising that and she lost her job over taking off all of the sudden. I text her to ask about where her 3 year old son is and she stopped responding to me, so she probably dumped him on a realative for a week. Anyways...if this was your friend would you tell her that you think she's screwing up her life or just let it go? And if you said something, how would you go about doing so?

2007-10-11 04:32:58 · 4 answers · asked by d_marie_n 3 in Friends

i really like this guy and he has gf but we both flirt around now and then and we once kissed but then i felt bad for liking him becaus ehe has gf so i tried to stop maslf from talking to him...we didnt get in touch for over 2 months but then we got back in touch and this time its even more strong how i feel about him and i know he feels somethng for me...yesterday we met up and when he was dropping me off he came out the car and gave me a hug and then we held hands an neithr wanted to let go..i know if i had stayd alittle longer we wud hav ended up kissing...but i left bcause i don tknow what to do in this situation....what would ppl do in my situation?
i like him so much also problem is he is 20 an im 21 and have never had a younger bf.....so i thnk also thats oneof the reasons y i acted upon my feelings....

2007-10-11 04:32:57 · 3 answers · asked by bushra s 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

be a guy 4 a day? if so y?

2007-10-11 04:31:59 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I am in the middle of a divorce and my husband is going around slandering my name to everyone that will listen. He tells them i have left him for another man and have had an affair. I have not..i divorced him becuase he is a terrible man! He can't face that and is making out he is the poor soul..i don't mind as i know the truth as do my friends but he is hurting my 25 year old son. What can i do?

2007-10-11 04:30:54 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-10-11 04:30:02 · 42 answers · asked by kaybaby200688 2 in Weddings