What kind of dirty gross bathroom things do you do infront of your spouse, or your spouse does infront of you?
#1, #2, menstrual stuff.....etc....anything.
please tell me are you the husband / wife, how long you've been married or together, and how the other feels about seeing you do those kind of things.............
2007-10-11 04:44:52 · 23 answers · asked by alcmena 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I am the wife and I have never been able to do any of those things in front of either of my hubands. I was married 20 years the first time and I am in my 8th year of marriage to my second husband. I think there are some things that should stay private and not shared even with the one you love.
My husband, on the other hand, is totally different. He never shuts the bathroom door when he uses the bathroom. He has no problems wiping his rear end with me standing there brushing my teeth - something I coiuld do without but it is not worth arguing about.
I beleive there should still be mystery and romance between a couple and there is NOTHING romantic about changing a tampoon or taking a douche. I think it ruins the romantic image they may have for you.
2007-10-11 04:57:07 · answer #1 · answered by mn lady 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I'm 36, married 1 year together for 7 years, outside of going number 2 and menstrual care, pretty much everything else I know some people don't like that but some people also just don't have issues. But get this, I don't like to pass gas in front of him.
2007-10-11 12:52:16 · answer #2 · answered by Dolly J 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Actually, my husband and I share no bathroom rituals beyond brushing teeth/removing contacts/showering. We have been married for less than a month, but he was married for 12 years prior to this and the bathroom stuff had been kept private then too. I guess we just feel that some things don't deserve an audience...after all, we do so many other things together...why not just do these things in peace? :)
2007-10-11 11:52:54 · answer #3 · answered by Kim 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Together 3 1/2 years married 2 1/2 of those...
I do everything in front of him. I could careless and if he doesn't want to see then he can leave the bathroom.
He'll do #1 but not #2 but that is slowly changing now that we have another kid.
2007-10-11 15:02:27 · answer #4 · answered by Spring 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My partner (do not believe in marriage) have been together for 8 years now. We will pee in front of each other. Not anything really gross though. I have removed gauze from his mouth after dental surgery and replaced it, and he has helped me through 3 c-sections, even took pictures of our 3rd while she was being born, and watched me have my tubal. We don't think it is gross, I would do anything for him even when he is old and needs diapers and drool rags. Nobody else can say anything, this is our life and if we are comfortable doing those types of things with each other, then who is anyone else to judge?
2007-10-11 11:55:02 · answer #5 · answered by shannanm2783 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
We don't share our hygiene or digestive bodily functions with each other. We have known each other for 25 years, dated five, married three. There is a lot to be said for keeping a little mystery between you. I don't want to view these things and thankfully neither does my husband. You have to work hard to keep the chemistry going in a marriage, but with those types of visuals in your head, it would be a lot more difficult.
2007-10-11 12:22:26 · answer #6 · answered by Really now 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
nice question. We will pee with one another close by, but nothing else whatsoever! One time my sister in law went in the bathroom with my wife in there putting on her makeup and took a dump. Don't remember how this got brought up, but my wife told me. Evidently it did not bother either of them, but that is just sick as hell. I don't want anyone NEAR me when I crap and I don't want to be near you when you crap. And menstrual stuff..an even bigger HELL no.
2007-10-11 12:05:38 · answer #7 · answered by TB28 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
weve been to gether 1 year and married 2 1/2 months and we both do #1 in front of each other him in front of me than me in front of him, #2 i never do tha in front of him but (playingly) will ask me if that what i did lol he will do #2 with the door open but never if im in the shower or whatever, and the menstual stuff well i talk to him about it but i just cant let my self to do it infront of him shoot i even lock the door lol
2007-10-11 12:00:10 · answer #8 · answered by Mrs T. 2009 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There's nothing I haven't seen my wife do, and it's the same for her. True, I'm not interested in seeing her menstrual activity or toilet actions, but when you live together, you just get used to it. We're adults - there's nothing shocking about it.
2007-10-11 12:09:39 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hey the bathroom door is shut if he walks in he does it doesn't bother me but get what u need and get out...
Been together 13yrs married 7yrs and have lived w/ each other since 2 wks of being together so theres nothing we haven't done in front of each other...This has been since we were 17yrs old so if were not comfortable w/ each other by now we have serious issues!!
2007-10-11 11:54:23 · answer #10 · answered by NONAME 4 · 3⤊ 1⤋