Do men really date by the "rules"? Is there such a thing for men? When do the games stop? How do you tell if a man really does love you and he is not interested in other women?
2007-10-11 04:50:14 · 17 answers · asked by butterflyprincess 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Wow! I've been wanting to ask women the same question! Not to sound arrogant, but, I don't recall seeing a official dating rule book anywhere. For women or men for that matter. I believe, when you refer to games, it happens on both sides of dating. The reason one person feels they are being "played ",is because they have stronger feelings for that one particular person. It's happened to me, and, I've also done it. If our heart is not fully into the relationship we know. If the heart is fully into the relationship we know that as well. Until we find that 50/50% love, one will feel as though they are being played. Even if is a 49/51% love, the 51% trys harder to keep the relationship intact!
2007-10-11 05:16:06 · answer #1 · answered by david 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The 'rules' change as men get older and mature. When they are young, the only rule is to have fun with girls. They don't play games because they want to get straight to the prize - but they might lie about how much they really care. When they get older they start to look for a real partner who they can share their life with. Some men never becme mature.
2007-10-11 11:57:08 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do women play by the same set of rules that you think apply to men
2007-10-11 11:55:46 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Men want sex and often do whatever it takes to get it.
Women want relationships (ultimately leading to babies) and also often do whatever it takes to get that.
The better the person, the less likely it is that they will intentionally do things to hurt you or play games with you, though with men, sex often makes even the best of them do things they might otherwise not do (same with the best of women wanting a relationship).
Take your time with people and the right one will rise to the top.
2007-10-11 11:56:34 · answer #4 · answered by firsty 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well men in their younger years are nothing but horney freaks until it matures out of them which is what differs between men and there is no real test to see if a man loves you its just in the way everything feels and just an idea to see if he would do stuff with other women test him, you know "go out of town" or have a friend meet him somewhere he goes often.
hope this helps
2007-10-11 11:55:55 · answer #5 · answered by veilside8666 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't call it a game but I would call it natural if you like a women your going to be with her and if it turns for the worst then you let her go...but if you love that women and it turns for the worst then you fight for that relationship and that's how you can tell if he loves you. some men have problems with sex and love we...i mean they can have sex with another women and have no feeling at all... but can still be in love with you...in the end it's all about trust you can never tell if some one only have eye's for you but you can hope and trust.
2007-10-11 12:01:23 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Rules, to alot of men, are whatever they can get away with, and yes, we push the boundries every time we go out with a new girl, or go out again with the same girl... until they say stop, we keep pushing...
Do girls do the same? they don't have to- if they want to get something, they use whatever means to get it, and if it means giving the guy what he wants to get it then its good...
Rules are ment to be bent and broken.... so yes, we all play games to a point...
2007-10-11 12:00:35 · answer #7 · answered by worxsigns 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what "rules" are you referring to? the games stop when a man commits. might take days, weeks, months, years, and afew never stop (avoid them). the only way to know for sure is trust him when he tells you that he loves you and hes not intereted in other women. if you dont believe no mountain of evidence is going to chage your mind.
2007-10-11 11:53:09 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
The men that play games are the ones that get alot of a$$, if we really do love you we will show it just just just a littleeeeeeee
2007-10-11 11:56:35 · answer #9 · answered by Mike luc 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him you want him to be free in this relationship and you want him to date other people if he wants too. Act like you really want to be committed to him but you don't care at all if he dates other people. In fact you encourage it. If he tells you he would like to date other people dump his @ss.
Keep at it for a month or so and you will find out if hes committed to you or not.
2007-10-11 11:55:55 · answer #10 · answered by treeofwisdom7 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋