HE WENT TO THE POLICE AND REPORTED ME CAUSE I WENT TO HANG OUT HE DOES IT ALL THE TIME I DONT UNDERSTAND WHY I CANT DO IT BUT YEA. CHECK THIS OUT HE MOVED OUT AND WENT TO GO GET A PLACE WITH HIS FRIEND AND LEFT ME TO RENT A ROOM FROM SOME GUY AINT THAT SOME S***. SO HE COMES OVER ALL THE TIME TELLING ME WHAT TO DO BREAKING STUFF AND CAUSE ME PROBLEMS. NOT TO MENTION HE BEAT ME UP PRETTY BAD WHEN MY BABY WAS JUST TWO WEEKS OLD AND I HAD C-SECTION HE JUST WENT CRAZY ON ME CAUSE I TOOK HER OUTSIDE AND I DIDNT PRESS CHARGES ON HIM BECAUSE I DIDNT WANT HIM IN ANY TROUBLE AND THEN HE GOT THE NERVE TO REPORT ME CAUSE I WANT FREE TIME JUST PLAN OUT AND ENGLISH THE MAN IS CRAZY WHAT SHOULD I DO?
2007-10-11 05:41:50 · 12 answers · asked by miniemicke29 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Your biggest problem was when you didn't press charges, because you opened the door for him to rob you of your self worth and treat you badly. If you're just renting a room, try and find a room else where and leave. If you are on your own, you should go to the Social Services Department and ask them for help as to finding a new place and if he is sending you money for support, give them his ss# and have them garnish his wages and the money will be sent to you directly; instead of him having to see you; visitation rights should be "scheduled" through the S.S.D., so this way he can't beat up on you or your baby! good luck.
2007-10-11 05:53:23 · answer #1 · answered by Faerie Girl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are grown up woman with a baby to take care of.
Forget about this guy, he will only bring you misery.
Next time when he tries to come around and bother you, call the cops immediately and report him for domestic violence.
The best thing would be to move out and start a new life in another city.
Some guys are simply fu**cking bastards and do not deserve to be loved by any woman or become a father...
You have to protect your baby and yourself against such a criminal.
You should learn to respect yourself and love yourself a little more… you don´t deserve this, nobody does!
Protect yourself! You are living in a country, where women’s rights are protected and persons like him are severely punished by the law.
2007-10-11 05:59:36 · answer #2 · answered by Anita P 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he comes over again screaming and acting a fool quietly dial 911 and let the operator listen to everything and they'll call the police and by the time they get there he will still be there and they can arrest him. Trust me it works like a charm. He left you but doesn't want you to be with anyone else, what an @sshole! Hitting you is such a punk way of trying to show he's the man, more like a kid! Move some where he doesn't know about and get your life in order w/o him harassing you when you want to have one night out! I guess he didn't babysit the night you went out but he sure cared you were out and not home stuck, that's what it's about! I had an abusive controlling BF at one time and i had to show him that although I loved him, I loved myself first......do what u know is right.
2007-10-11 05:53:28 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your babbies father sounds very controlling and crazy!! You should have pressed charges on him for beating you up no woman deserves that period. I would file a restrainging order against him because you dont know what he is capable of and you dont want your baby being a witness to that sort of behavior. Going out should be the last thing on your mind you need to come up with a plan to protect you and your baby thats should be your main priority at this point...
2007-10-11 05:48:51 · answer #4 · answered by londonwprincess 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok... he is abusive...controlling AND CRAZY...sorry caps...
Do you understand you are enabling him? If you don't call the police then you are allowing him to continue..and guess what? It is only beginning..it will get worse.
Trust me and understand this: you only get what you allow.
Another thing ....if you are not protecting YOU against a CRAZY man... then you are also exposing your BABY TO THIS...which may make you LOOSE your child in the end. YOU have the responsibility to protect your child and if that child is exposed to madness...breaking of furniture which is a terrorizing situation for your child...
Do you understand the consequences? If you are reported as a bad mom...and there are social workers involved and you do nothing to protect your child from him...you may loose your child..so wakey wakey... this is very important.
Not only does this dude have no right to abuse YOU....he has no right to TERRORIZE YOUR CHILD.
Now get to it and stop protecting him...or it may backfire on you!
Good luck!
2007-10-11 06:06:16 · answer #5 · answered by Say 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nothing. its obvious that by not calling the police when he ruffed you up that you like sort of stuff. If you didn't then by now you would have gotten a restraining order against him for the safety of you and you child. Don't boohoo about to do. Just do it. Have some respect for yourself. Or else you will never have it from others in your life.
You have every right to hang out with your friends just like he does unless you abandon you baby to do it or put it in harms way.
2007-10-11 06:56:50 · answer #6 · answered by nykate_winslow 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Who cares what all human beings else thinks? might they have you ever walk away and not see her? or you 2 struggling with around the baby twenty 4 seven and her having to observe her mom manage her father like a dogs? that's greater valuable this style and additionally you look trustworthy. attempt to artwork something out like the relatives bringing the baby to you or something in case you quite desire to be certain her. and Mrs. C you're a bite of crap. Hugging the bible does not make you a reliable dad or mum. in fact it would creep me out in case you have been my mom and that i might stab you interior the face. forget approximately her guy! all of us think of your a reliable father. ok? i grow to be a daddy's woman. I watched my dad beat my mom alot and after he died some years in the past it nonetheless is screwing with me. My dad no longer being waiting to be around as much as ma did no longer make me no longer love him or make him a bad dad, it made him the suited dad ever because of the fact he cared greater approximately what i might see interior the fights than him and ma getting back at the same time. reliable success Mr. Dad!
2016-12-14 14:30:08 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You better do a harrassment or some kind of charge on him before he ends up going A-WALL on the baby too. You shouldn't be treated like that and you need to stop letting him do it because everytime it will just get worse!!!
2007-10-11 07:14:09 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he is hitting you then the only thing to do is report him and go to a safe house! If you stay around someone like that and your child gets hurt during the fighting then it is as much your fault as the father.
2007-10-11 05:46:16 · answer #9 · answered by Alliance Kicks Horde Butt 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You are not taking care of yourself, dear....
CALL THE POLICE and report domestic violence...
And stop "hanging out" -- you are a mom... mom's need to take care of their children...... if you have a good babysitter, it's ok to go out with friends or whatever you want, but gather your dignity, act like a lady.
Stop seeing guys who are trouble... We cause our own problems.
2007-10-11 05:45:35 · answer #10 · answered by letterstoheather 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋