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Family & Relationships - 3 October 2007

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Help I feel like an ungrateful daughter! How do i make my parents reaize i'm not a baby?
Long story short i'll give u facts ... I need your input!

-im 21 and live at home w/mom,dad and older sis

- my mom doesnt drive ,so she relies on my dad for transportation
- my mom is out of a job and i've been taking her everywhere to job agencies

- it's seems to like to my family my social life is not important and that i should be assiting them w/driving wheneer i can or when i dont have class

when i go out w/my b/f they'll call me at 11:30pm at night and tell me it's to late and come home!

i feel bad cuz i'm tired of being the chofer and i know i'm supposed to help my mom ,but she doesnt seem to care that i have a personal life even though i stil live at home.

i work partime, go to college and i have a wonderful b/f who has a career and is 3yrs older than me

when ever i try to have a seriouse converation to my mom telling her i'm gorwn up already "she doesnt want to listen to me! ,but my older sis who has a low life b/f and and child that i adore.

2007-10-03 17:51:08 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

Ok my boyfriend said he didnt want to marry me at 22 cause we'd be rushing &might end up divorce but then i said 25 & he said we'd still be rushing probably just to have kids and could end up divorced & since he wants to get married at 30 i was like we could get married at 30 than you might be sick of me since we dated so long &get divorced but he said im so easy to be with. Can you really date someone for like 11yrs than get married & be together the rest of your lives & not get bored or sick of each other? Like i love him & i figured out if i have to wait i will but i dont get his point cause anytime you can get divorced it doesnt matter what age.. What u think?

I'm 18 he's 19..i dont want to rush but i think you can get divorced anytime even if we both dont like divorces. but i think if we actually date 11yrs why would he want to get married he might be sick of me since thats a long time to be together.

has any1 dated a long time like 7+ yrs before marriage? did it work?

2007-10-03 17:47:21 · 13 answers · asked by Rayray 5 in Marriage & Divorce

me and my bf had 10 months relationship that we both considering really really love each other. he is 14 years older than me. i lied to him from beginnig about my real nationality and job (i am a last year uni student). and he found out one night by me left email open.and i have practically living with him. therefore dont have my own place two weeks before he find out my lies. and he is very angry and want a break to think things through, but i have got exams since and very stressed. his parents passing opinion on him that i am with him coz i want to use him for money and confort(since he is older and financially advanced than me). he is not rich, but not poor. i loved him and kept the lies going on coz i really dont want to lose him, i cried often as i fear the lies could destroy us (he makes me happy and know how to love me). we fight a lot, as i didnt find a suitable place to move out, he treats me very badly these days. but sometimes show guilt and treat me nice.

2007-10-03 17:46:44 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

It doesn't work does it?
Do you think if you are still sleeping with your ex, your both in denial about still being together.
Should sex stop if the relationship isn't working out.
Would like your thoughts on this subject.

2007-10-03 17:46:20 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I want a guy who can be like this

- draws really well
- loves anime
- shy, sweet, sensitive, EXTREMELY quiet
- asian
- dresses somewhat emo ;3
- tall, 5'5+ or so
- 13+

I know really really high standards and stuff, but hey i want a guy yakno?

2007-10-03 17:43:15 · 8 answers · asked by tenshihyuuga 2 in Singles & Dating

My friend, whom I have been in and out of contact with for the past 15 years, is getting married. She sent me several different e-mails to let me know the dates and locations of the bridal shower, bachelorette party and wedding. They weren't e-cards or e-vites either, just an e-mail. Is this the norm now?

2007-10-03 17:41:09 · 12 answers · asked by I do 26.2 4 in Weddings

2007-10-03 17:34:24 · 3 answers · asked by Nancy S 1 in Family

I have a great job, am financially and emotionally secure, have a girlfriend but find that when it comes to spare time, I am not motivated to want to spend time with anyone, rather, I just end up staying in my place alone (I do live alone).

2007-10-03 17:33:44 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

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I have been having a lot of emotional stress and I need some help. A lot has been going on as of late in my relationship of two years and things are changing quite a bit.

I still love my boyfriend very much, but where I was jumping to get married and have another child a month ago, I am now thinking I don't want to rush into it.

I know that it has to do with reuniting with an old friend who I am have some romantic interest in, but I don't think it's all on him.

See, a year ago, I cheated on my boyfriend. It wasn't anything major, just a kiss, but since then our relationship has changed drastically. We don't fight, like I was expecting, but my feelings for him have changed. I still love him, but it feels different than before.

To make matters more complicated, I think I am falling for my old friend and there is a stated and obvious attraction between us. We are trying to keep things as just friends, as he respects my relationship, but it is very difficult.

2007-10-03 17:33:13 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I have been married to my husband for two years. He is 25 and I am 29. He has a 8 yr old son and we have 2 yr old together. His ex-wife is very hard to deal with (she divorced him). The child is living with his grandfather during the week, going to school where his grandpa lives, about 55 miles away. He sees his dad (us) one weekend & his mom the other weekend. She (his mom)is still getting $550 a month for child support. Does his grandpa deserve this instead of his mother or what? The courts won't allow it. So basically this mom is getting this money and she only sees him 2 weekends a month. Courts won't help! What should we do? My husband has tried to get full custody.

2007-10-03 17:30:21 · 7 answers · asked by Darcy 1 in Marriage & Divorce

they need to hear it even though it is not the kind of romantic love they are looking for. Would staying in a relationship based on trying to be kind and caring to the other person, because they need it be as unfulfilling for them as it is yourself and perhaps keep them from meeting someone who would have romantic feelings for them? Makes one wonder if they have been living a lie like forever huh. But then marriage because you don't want to hurt someones feelings...what is that? Mmm

2007-10-03 17:26:48 · 6 answers · asked by ? 6 in Marriage & Divorce

after we get split upart form the one we love?

2007-10-03 17:23:16 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

how would you act if the one you have been with for 8 years thinks you cheated on them with a friend that was staying with you for a couple days. The evidence makes you look like you are guilty and you cant explain some of it. you deny anything happend. How would you act if you were guilty and if you were not guilty. Remember this person is in knots and hurt but wants to beleive them but the evidence is unexplained.

2007-10-03 17:23:14 · 7 answers · asked by Richard L 1 in Marriage & Divorce

It's not a prosituite so don't say that..I like to know the good and the bad..your view point of the other women..why you seek mistress too..

2007-10-03 17:21:17 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i have a crush on this guy who I can tell really likes me atleast as a friend. we're not just friends, we're close friends because he calls me at night and has told me he really cares about being close to me and talking to me. the thing is, he has a girlfriend. and he still calls me. its like he doesn't like talking to his gf. they've only been going out for 2 1/2 weeks and the whole relationship was totally set up by his gf's friends. i dont know if i should feel guilty about liking him. when he calls me, I always forget he even has a gf and i flirt with him until i realize, oh sh*t, he has a gf.

2007-10-03 17:20:55 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

hes a nice guy n everythin but hes jus not mite dad.i also feel sad tht mum seems 2 b spendin so much more time wit him den she used 2 wit us and thts not fair on her part.i know i'm bein a lil selfish but i cant help feelin this way...wht am i suppose 2 do?

2007-10-03 17:19:17 · 10 answers · asked by lil miss 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

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ok i have a couple of questions, im 19 :) does it really hurt for the first time? since i have NO experience what so ever, im not sure if im going to be good. what should i do, i mean to not feel so shy. please no silly answers! thanks!

2007-10-03 17:12:27 · 8 answers · asked by brens 3 in Singles & Dating

Is it customary for the bride and groom to leave the reception first?? My fiance and I are paying for our whole wedding so we want to enjoy it and party on with our friends and family for as long as we want. a few people have told me that we are supposed to be the 1st to leave. we're not going on a honey moon straight away so it shouldnt matter should it?

2007-10-03 17:09:55 · 20 answers · asked by marlie07 2 in Weddings

You receive the following announcement (and a photo) in the mail:
Jack and Jane Smith have the pleasure of
announcing their marriage
August 30, 2007
Cancun, Mexico

What's your honest reaction?
A) Aww, I'm so happy for them! What a nice picture!
B) That ***** didn't invite me to her wedding!?
C) They eloped- how tacky! And now they're sending an announcement because they expect gifts!!!!!

2007-10-03 17:07:17 · 41 answers · asked by Tres Leches 4 in Weddings

ok there is a friend who needs help. her 12 year old has bad attitude,screams ,talks back . what are good ways to dicipline or try to put a stop . please give me ideas thanks

2007-10-03 17:06:07 · 19 answers · asked by TXLA girl 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

...that they are trying to get to know you in a romantic way. In America when I try to make chit chat it seems like a lot of women think that I'm coming on to them. But most of the time I'm not and usually just trying to talk about everyday things. Then I feel like they think I'm strange. Maybe I'm just imagining or doing something wrong.

I find women in America a little harder to approach in everyday settings than in Europe. Do you think this is true or is it just my experience? Maybe people in my area like to keep to themselves.

2007-10-03 16:58:50 · 20 answers · asked by DF25 1 in Singles & Dating

even among the roughest of girls?

2007-10-03 16:56:42 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I will get married soon but i don't know any thing about sex
i never had any friend who helped me with this and i never ask anyone.I am a girl i don't know ...how i should react at that time and what i have to do.And that too how i should tell my husband that i am not ready for kids now.Should i ask him about sex before marriage or it will look stupid to ask like that
thanks.

2007-10-03 16:51:53 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

my grandma has been married for 42 years and has been cheated on numerious times and he has had the nerve to say sexual comments to me and has tried to touch me. he is a drunk. what can i do to help her see that she is worth more than that?

2007-10-03 16:49:57 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

they just got divorced recently. Her name is on the home property. Now it said on the divorce all property settlement has to be settled in one month. But does that apply to her because her name is on it and is it hers no matter what and she can take half the house when she wants?

2007-10-03 16:47:38 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I'd LOVE some nice tips and what works for you.

2007-10-03 16:46:42 · 26 answers · asked by gwynth s 2 in Singles & Dating

Some people I know will not give up and accept the fact that I don't believe some of the things they do. I was at a dinner party the other night and basically the whole night was one big lecture, so I left early a little pissed off. How can I tell these people to stop for good and make them understand my views are not going to change and I don't care what their views are?

2007-10-03 16:46:37 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

When I ask him to do something for the kids he always says "why don't you? I've done more for them than you ever could"

it really hurts 'cause after working all day I think we should SHARE to kids chores.

He didn't chose to stay home, but our son has had some serious health problems and needs 1 of us. I happen to make 2x what he could make. so I do

How do I make him understand that my working all day cancels out his staying home and that when I'm off we need to share. Oh yeah, I also think he should be doing household chores while the kids nap. What so you think?

2007-10-03 16:44:46 · 10 answers · asked by in COGNITO * 4 in Marriage & Divorce

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