Family & Relationships - 3 October 2007

Imagine, When your mother and your Girlfriend or Boyfriend are in danger, who is the only one you will save? When they are sinking in the middle of the ocean and you are given a chance to save one life, who is the one you will save? Your Mother or your Partner? Do you take the risk?

2007-10-03 21:38:04 · 18 answers · asked by hotman 2 in Singles & Dating

are actually happy? Or....do you think the small percentage that do stay together....are for other reasons? Such as...comfort...family...security...financial reasons, etc.

2007-10-03 21:34:16 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Does penis envy even exist? I am a woman who has heard of this penis envy in the most literal way.. Why would a woman have penis envy?? I love what I have and I would not give it up for the world.. It takes up a whole lot less space and it pleasures me in the most amazing way and most of the time, I do the less work for the most pleasure...not to mention, ours are the sexiest... what are your thoughts???

2007-10-03 21:30:15 · 7 answers · asked by ░▒▓► Aqua Fires 6 in Singles & Dating

Will it succeed? Former Hollywood madam Heidi Fleiss is making plans for a legal brothel for women. The operation would be Nevada’s first legal bordello catering exclusively to female customers. It still needs approval from the Nye County Liquor and Licensing Board, and Fleiss said she plans to submit an application within the next three months.

Would you attend? Do you think the brothel will succeed? Why or why not?

What suggestions would you have for it to succeed?

2007-10-03 21:27:28 · 5 answers · asked by Marks 1 in Singles & Dating

Should a person be fearful and stay away from person they love when know they can have in an instant?

2007-10-03 21:25:27 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I'm 18 years old, brown hair, green eyes, 63kg (size 12-14), 168cm, c-cup.

My friends and family say I'm a beautiful girl with a beautiful personality, guys online love me but I've never been asked out or anything face to face.

I was teased a horrible amount as a child by boys and found it hard to talk to them face to face but I think I've improved so I dont understand why they dont like me :(

2007-10-03 21:22:55 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I know.."an ex is an ex, move on"..the thing is I can't move on right now..we're both in college now(same school and even have a class together) she's been partying a lot with her friends on the weekends and tries to act "cool" by doing so..I'm starting up with my own fun but I still can't ever get her out of my head..and when those silent and lonely moments come, I get depressed and miss her a lot all over again..I wonder if she still feels the same and why she doesn't try to talk to me as much as we used to(when we were broken up we still talked everyday but now it's like every other day and she doesn't text me nearly as much anymore)..what can I do to get her back?? and I know for a fact that I shouldn't be in this situation because I treated her like a princess and she should be wanting me back..but I dunno why I'm in the position I'm in.. sometimes I'll tell myself just move on but I just can't..for now at least..I need some help on how to get her back please..

2007-10-03 21:21:40 · 9 answers · asked by rf21 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

Other g/fs havent done this before and I wonder if my performance has declined recently.
What do you think?

2007-10-03 21:13:59 · 23 answers · asked by New Sage 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

Deciding on a wife can be difficult, would you not marry one because she doesn't pocess the genes required to compliment your own, inorder to provide your offspring every physical advantage or should love alone rule ?

2007-10-03 21:02:51 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

What do you think???

2007-10-03 21:00:07 · 19 answers · asked by Perfection Personified 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-10-03 20:59:25 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-10-03 20:57:19 · 8 answers · asked by gummy_bunny101 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

then again some say not untill your 21.

2007-10-03 20:56:45 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-10-03 20:49:57 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i'm inlove w/ this man, not knowing that he already had a daughter but not married and the mother of her daughter left them after two years and got married to other man! after 1 month of a serious relationship, he told me the truth... now im living with him together with his daughter! actually were comfortable, my biggest problem is his daughter, his 7 year old thick head daughter... she's a perfect example of a very thick head or maybe someday the blackship daughter... she don't know how to ff. or even listen for you at once, what she want she want... were always arguing regarding this matter, and his just telling me to understand her but i've already done my best to get close to her but nothing has change... could u pls. help me what to do with this thick head little girl???!

2007-10-03 20:28:35 · 7 answers · asked by she 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-10-03 20:28:08 · 10 answers · asked by praveen c 1 in Friends

last night i went to go and see my parents and the lad that im seeing came with me. the thing is on the way home he blurted out that i like to show a lot of cleavage when we go out drinking, and that i shouldnt do it as he felt unhappy at other men looking at me. i asked him if he thought i dressed like a tart and he didnt say anything. the thing is i rarely wear skirts and yes maybe sometimes i show a little cleavage but its not like their hanging out like some girls iv seen. i dont know what to say to him. i havent spoken to him since last night. what would you say to him?

i dont think he realised he hurt my feelings.

2007-10-03 20:11:37 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Keith has never treated me like anything but a queen. We have been together a year now, an it is unbelievable. But a month after was started dating, one year ago on the 8th, his ex gf birthed their daughter, Gabrielle. I love her to death, and wouldnt change a thing about her coming into this world (except maybe her phyco mother). The problem is.....sometimes I feel like I am competing with her for his love. We are teenagers, so its hard, but we have been through so much together in this last year. His life changed completely, and almost came to an end once, but I talked him out of it. He has explained to me time and time again that the love he feels for me and the love for his daughter are different kinds of love, but I get so...lost. He had to spend our 1 year anniversary with Gabrielle because the mother had to work, and even though I am happy for every minute he spends with her, since he isn't aloud to often, it is hard. I want to learn to accept and fit into this step-mother role.

2007-10-03 20:11:23 · 11 answers · asked by Katie S 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

After she caught me she left the apartment than in 3 minutes she was back, making a lame excuse to come back in. I covered up (somewhat) and that wasn't enough. She said it was OK she was cool with it. Last night she returned to our house and when we were alone she asked if she could see me dressed again more relaxed and in more detail.I am inmy 30s she is almost 19. What is the response? help!

2007-10-03 20:05:36 · 25 answers · asked by Larry G 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I'm looking for a good quote to send my father about the inappropriateness of pressuring another into an unwanted relationship. He'll respect a quote.

My recently widowed father is pressuring me to make contact with an abusive older brother I haven't spoken to in 15 years. I broke off contact after he mocked my sexuality and made private threats about harm coming to loved ones. This broached my limits of tolerance and I've felt being out of sight and mind the best policy. He's pressuring my father to make me perform. My father and I have not spoken about this, but we both know how difficult my brother can be. I don't really want to raise the issue of his abusiveness. I know my father will tell him and that could potentially lead a volatile blame-game engagement. My brother loves fights.

In general, it seems to me that its simply inappropriate for a person to insist one relate to another to put themselves at peace. Anyone know of some relevant quotes for such a dysfunction?

2007-10-03 20:01:07 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I know this is stupid to ask, I guess i'm just venting really... I just found out my ex boyfriend passed away after having a lot of health problems for a long time and I am sad, but I feel i should feel worse, I'm not sure if it just hasnt sunk in or if I am at peace with it already because I know he is happier... I guess I just want people to tell me i'm not horrible for not being so upset. I'm really worried about going to the viewing tomorrow because i think ill break down, i know i'll probably regret it if i don't. Ahhh.

2007-10-03 20:00:44 · 22 answers · asked by ? 1 in Singles & Dating

so this guy that i've been talking to for quite sometime just informed me that his house is going to be empty for the weekend, and that i should come over and watch a movie with him, and he's gonna make dinner. i'm not going out with him, so is this a setup to get in my pants or to actually be a romantic evening.?

2007-10-03 19:59:11 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-10-03 19:59:11 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Well, so far, he's introduced me to his family and friends, and his family likes me and are nice to me. He has issues with his ex, though, because they have a kid together, but he assured me that I was the one he loved and not her, and that he just sees her because of his daughter and nothing else. Every time he sees her I don't get jealous, but then I can't help but be a little insecure. Who can blame me? So I went and talked to his brother about how I felt, and he said that I shouldn't get insecure because he's just seeing his ex for the reason that he loves his daughter so much. His brother also told me that my boyfriend loves me, because he told his mom so. His sister also said that she could see by the look in his eyes that he really loves me, and he said that every quality that he's looking for in a girl is with me.

2007-10-03 19:59:03 · 9 answers · asked by Yuki 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

My husband has no manners at all. Its like he was raised in a barn yard! He eats in the bed and wipes his hands on the sheets and his clothes even though there were napkins in his face, he smacks on his food very very loudly, he throws his dirty underwear on me every chance he gets, he digs in my nose and laughs about it, he digs in his underwear and smells his hand, he keeps hair in the sink constantly from shaving, he leaves dirty clothes beside the bed and waits for me to pick them up, and thats just to name a few. I dont even want to have sex with him lately. I love him, but am I shallow because i let this stuff irritate the HELL out of me?!?!

2007-10-03 19:57:33 · 8 answers · asked by Lovely 4 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-10-03 19:51:09 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

My fiance of 4 yrs got my name tattooed on his left arm, fro; his elbow down to his wrist. I kinda made him do it to prove that he loves me, and he did.
I also got his name tattooes behind my neck.

But the thing is, I still dont have complete trust in him, I'm still paranoid he'll cheat on ,e. But who will date a guy with another girls name toattooed on his arm right?

2007-10-03 19:50:17 · 9 answers · asked by Gwen 3 in Singles & Dating

This guy asked to meet up with me last Monday. We've been e-mailing each other while he's deployed. The ship that he was on just arrived last Sunday.

So he drove to my house and waited in front of the door. He took me to a nice Italian restaurant. While in the car, we talked a lot about cars, drums, and Bodies exhibit (as he loved cars and drums and I love the Bodies exhibit). He tried so many times to tickle me while I had my seatbelt on. We flirted a lot. HE SILENTLY REACHED FOR MY RIGHT HAND AND ATTEMPTED TO KISS IT. I was super paranoid about being tickled so, not knowing what he was about to do, I grabbed my hand away from him.

So we arrived at the mall and while looking for the restaurant at the directory list, he slightly touched my back. I did cling onto his right arm while we walked.

We headed back to the car. He opened the car door for me. His hand was on my thigh while driving and I held his hand. He held my hand in return.

BUT HE DID NOT SAY ANYTHING ABOUT 2ND DATE.

2007-10-03 19:49:51 · 5 answers · asked by ? 3 in Singles & Dating

on the front homepage.
it has a side of the world with a hurricane and a astroid coming down to Earth?

i don't understand, is that an astroid?

2007-10-03 19:44:48 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My sister asks me to be her bridesmaid. So she knows quite well that I have a boyfriend, whom I've been with for 6 years. Yet she wants me to go with another groomsman who is her fiance's friend. I'm confused. Is that normal? Will my boyfriend be upset by this? It just doesn't sound proper to me. Any thoughts?

2007-10-03 19:44:03 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings