Family & Relationships - 3 October 2007

Okay. The thing is, I am awesome at giving advice. On any topic! I tried for years to find a place online where I can start something like an advise column online. Nothing. So here I am, on Yahoo! Answers! And if anyone needs advice about anthing at all, or even just a bit of chearing up, I am here for ya!
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2007-10-03 19:42:03 · 6 answers · asked by ♥L4tM♥ 5 in Other - Family & Relationships

Im planning to have a suprise birthday celebration for my bf. do u have any suggestion for candle light dinner??Thanks

2007-10-03 19:40:16 · 3 answers · asked by kitty 2 in Weddings

Ok so my mom got me a car about 7 years ago for work and said at the time it was a gift!! It was 3,000. Then i was making about $17,000 a year, now Im making about $55,000 a year and shes asking me to pay her back!! This is why i dont talk to her. I have bad feelings about it cause my Dads mom would give you the shirt off her back and not ask for anything and i have my Grams mentality!! My mother on the other hand would sue you if she fell on your property!! I love my mom but hate her attitude towards money!! I always felt like i had to earn her love, my whole life!! We havent been close in about 5 years now and shes using this against me!! I havent responded to her emails. I lived in N.J by myself and she made no advances on seeing me. Its only a 3 hour drive!! I came up every month to visit her. My point being, i made efforts to see her and she vainly(out of guilt i suppose) contacted me. When i talked to her it was negative stuff that i wouldnt bring up to my child!! What to do??

2007-10-03 19:38:14 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I have been dating this girl for quite some time now, but we haven't had sexual intercourse. Although, we do pretty much everything else but that. She says she is a virgin but she can spread her lips pretty wide. Is this proof to the contrary?

2007-10-03 19:36:10 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Want answer from married men & women only...

2007-10-03 19:35:12 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

don't say finish the drive
sort the back garden
do the decorating or all the other jobs shes got on her list

2007-10-03 19:27:02 · 27 answers · asked by oh no,,,it's the kevsta 4 in Marriage & Divorce

let me start over okay my mom has custody of my kids which i dont know how they took my rights i pay 100 dollars a week child support my baby momma hasn't seen my kids in 6 years. the only thing i get to do is get my kids every other weekend my kids want to live with me their 7 and 6. i am married and me and my wife have two more kids together but i want to raise all of them together but they only get to come every other weekend which sucks. Im employed full time and i have been working their a year my wife is full time employed and been on her job two years ive been in college for two years and i have two more to go to get my bachelors in engineering. my q is how can i get custody of my kids without paying a lawyer i want to do it myself through the courts or whatever. i dont understand how i can be raising my other two kids but to the court im just the daddy of my other two kids . by the way its alabama court system please any info would be great or a walkthrough on how to do it myse

2007-10-03 19:23:56 · 2 answers · asked by Derick F 1 in Family

I am a very pretty girl, not judging myself but people say it and I know it with a very good shape. I have a lot of guys running after me, so many and yet I'm single though my last relationship was about a year ago. I keep telling myself I haven't found the right person, yet the more I keep meeting guys, The more lonely I become. Is this alrite or normal?

2007-10-03 19:21:17 · 11 answers · asked by Val 1 in Singles & Dating

I recently watched a Kama Sutra Movie and learnt that there are 100s of positions which i have never tried/experienced and some seemed like extremely tempting and exciting.

Does any one know how many are there in total?

2007-10-03 19:18:05 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

CLOSE friends for years and he's secretly liked me but he never went for it b/c he thought the chances of being w. me were slim only to find out that after all this time, I felt the same way back - I was the first girl he fell in love with (both in our 20's and gave him his first kiss; no sex just kisses) BUT "life challenges" (death) and rumors/assumptions from friends made us drift apart (he pushed me away) and it created tension BUT rather than giving up or seeking revenge, we worked it out and everything is starting to be better than before, the relationship grew (this happened in a 9 month span)

in the beginning as friends we would always be on the phone talking almost every night - we enjoy each other 's company. we've been growing up and changing and now the phone isn't really the best way to "talk" and see what's up with him; esp. after that "thing" we had - i called him today wonderin where he was and if he could mt up for a min and he said he had to work BUT said he was goin to be studying all day tomorrow and said he would be down for "hanging out" then - good?

2007-10-03 19:18:04 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

What are the rules on the "DOUBLE DOG DARE" technique.

The person who dared me also has an ex, and I would like to play the "double dog dare you" card, but I fear the "triple dog dare" in response.

2007-10-03 19:16:40 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I am a bit confused with the sleeping style. Sometimes my b/f stays over at my place and will sleep in my bed with me. Since it is my bed, he lets me lead, but I don't know if he should follow. I have two questions;
1) If I sleep nude, is he expected to be naked too?
2) If I do not want to sleep nude, is he expected to stay clothed or be nude?

I want to know how other people opinions.

2007-10-03 19:13:24 · 12 answers · asked by Erin Bran 1 in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend and I have decided to take the big step and make love. Still, I heard a lot of girls saying that it hurts a lot the first time. How much *does* it hurt, really? Do you have any hints or tips so that it wouldn't hurt so much? Thanks a bunch.

2007-10-03 19:12:07 · 12 answers · asked by Kino Yuki 2 in Singles & Dating

CLOSE friends for years and he's secretly liked me but he never went for it b/c he thought the chances of being w. me were slim only to find out that after all this time, I felt the same way back - I was the first girl he fell in love with (both in our 20's and gave him his first kiss; no sex just kisses) BUT "life challenges" (death) and rumors/assumptions from friends made us drift apart (he pushed me away) and it created tension BUT rather than giving up or seeking revenge, we worked it out and everything is starting to be better than before, the relationship grew (this happened in a 9 month span)

in the beginning as friends we would always be on the phone talking almost every night - we enjoy each other 's company. we've been growing up and changing and now the phone isn't really the best way to "talk" and see what's up with him; esp. after that "thing" we had - i called him today wonderin where he was and if he could mt up for a min and he said he had to work BUT said he was goin to be studying all day tomorrow and said he would be down for "hanging out" then - good?

2007-10-03 19:09:00 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

tell a girl that I like her

2007-10-03 19:08:05 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-10-03 19:04:27 · 13 answers · asked by Rose Anne M 1 in Marriage & Divorce

or licked? what is it about the ear? what kind of feeling do you get with it?

2007-10-03 18:56:14 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Does absolute trust plays safe?

2007-10-03 18:52:32 · 8 answers · asked by Nimit 2 in Singles & Dating

I am a Pagan and so is my husband to be. We are having a hand-fasting ritual as our marriage ceremony. All of the bridesmaids and groomsmen will also be pagan. The groom and all the groomsmen will be wearing kilts and the groom is buying them as the groomsmens presents. I would like for the gifts I give to my bridesmaids to be special and reflect the fact that they are pagan and bridesmaids too. I dont just want to get them a pentacle because they that would not be as special as I want it to be for them. So basicialy I am asking does any one know of a specific site that sells pagan bridesmaid's gifts. If not does any one have an idea as to what I could get them that will be just as special.

2007-10-03 18:47:55 · 8 answers · asked by Cat 1 in Weddings

I talk to alot of married couples.....so I'm wondering does anyone believe in this? If so, please tell me your experience from a friend you know or your own.

2007-10-03 18:44:52 · 18 answers · asked by Mrs. V 2 in Marriage & Divorce

i sometimes hang out wit some gilrs with my friends and like the girl always play this game of slaping butt or something ..
and they slap my butt..
how would u react???

2007-10-03 18:44:09 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

2007-10-03 18:41:55 · 5 answers · asked by JiM 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-10-03 18:38:31 · 4 answers · asked by Peter 4 in Singles & Dating

I am getting married and we are having major issues in our relationship even though we are both willing to work things out.
1. His family doesnt like me and are creating doubts,

2. we are married legally but still need to get properly married,

3.he is too critical of me after his family started nit picking with me
4. his affection for me has diminished since we had a court marriage (just doesnt love me like he use to)

5. our sex life sucks- before we were like bunny rabbits and now we are like senior citizens.

6. We are also having other stress factors- he is having immigration issues and cant work until late November. and much more stress factors............


Any tips?

2007-10-03 18:33:49 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-10-03 18:20:11 · 18 answers · asked by ames 3 in Singles & Dating

my son is 5 and we were told in may that he has autism. since then we have found any good help. he is now struggling in school with being very physical and this is caring over to home now. yes he has been formally tested. we're looking for some ot therapy. do you know of good place is...

2007-10-03 18:13:05 · 8 answers · asked by rachel r 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

This is for wives and husbands that BOTH WORK! Does husband come home and share 50% or more of the household chores? I am just curious to see what the average is.

2007-10-03 18:10:59 · 27 answers · asked by Liam Rules 1 in Marriage & Divorce

he have to get sombody else meaning to take all he have to give... can it be he just not happy in his relationship he just there for the kids

2007-10-03 18:05:59 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

me and Nate are boyfriend and girlfriend 4 a week. he likes to playfully flirt with guys and girls. (being Bi i can understand that ) and this guy thats gay hates me by saying " **** u u whore" "u *****" "**** you" and is all over Nate. Well during th period (high school ) he got a note from him saying i want to go out with you ( hes gay ) and i looked happy. but i really feel upset...i don't know if i should let him go or fight for the guy i love. ( me and him are like hugging and kissing eachother alot) but i'm nervous to ask him if he wants to date him... ( i'm emotionaly unstable so its kinda hard ).....i need some good help... i'm listening to Linkin Park "Valentines Day" and its making me feel like i should give him to Junior.....what should i do

2007-10-03 17:59:16 · 13 answers · asked by Marie 1 in Singles & Dating

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2007-10-03 17:52:42 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce