Family & Relationships - 3 October 2007

Why men are so selfish.....................
i have done tremendously good to my love... extreme support in hard phase of his life and now when the life become set he forget all his crises that were created to his family and now he soon to be marry with his cousin… he leaves me …………

i know his cousin and family is so selfish...........

this is hard time for me
plz support me

2007-10-03 01:59:14 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I like this boy who I found out he had a girlfriend but he told no one to tell me I dont know why and What do I do if he has a girlfriend plus his younger than me Im 14 his 13 I think...

2007-10-03 01:57:55 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

The reason i ask is because my ex girlfriend broke up with me about 2 years ago, and ever since then ive been getting on with my life and enjoying myself. I've joined the gym and have made soo many new friends. Life is great!

Last week i got a call from my ex. She told me she wants to be my friend because i dont speak to her (she cheated on me). I know she got with another man after she got with me, but i get the feeling they've broken up.

I think she regrets breaking up with me, have you guys ever wished you never broke up with someone you was with?

2007-10-03 01:57:30 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I selected my bridesmaids this past spring when I got engaged and now I want to switch some...is that too cruel? My wedding isn't until May so I still have plenty of time and no one has purchased their dresses yet. My problem is that my maid of honor hasn't helped plan anything, or even offered to help with anything. One of my other friends that I hadn't originally selected to be in the wedding party is helping with everything. Should I change the girls or just leave it as is? I don't want to lose a friend over this. The biggest problem is that my MOH lived 2 minutes away from me when I selected her, and now she lives almost 2.5 hours away. I'm stuck.....any suggestions?

2007-10-03 01:55:55 · 19 answers · asked by shorty951983 3 in Weddings

I've been with my GF for over two years and almost everything is fine except that she doesn't like it (what I've come to find out/ realize) when I don't spend it on her. She gets upset and I get even more upset to the point where I think we wont last when we live together and I don't even know if its worth staying in the relationship.

Some of the points she brings out when I ask her why it bothers her that I spend MY money are : she's worried that I won't be able to provide for her/ support her etc. She wants me to spend more money on her. Since we first started dating we've been going half and half for everything. Now she is saying that while is not right for me to pay for everything that she would like it if she only paid 25%. I'm sure I am missing a lot of her points but you women can probably help me see her side. I have my own goals; if I want to buy whatever I want and can afford it I don't want to think about whether she'd agree with it or not. This is the cause of bikes.

2007-10-03 01:55:35 · 9 answers · asked by status 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My folks are going through a rough time. (i am living with them for the next three weeks)
my dad suffers from depression however doesnt seem to be doing anything to help himself (and he isnt taking his meds)
he has just started up this company and is pouring all their savings into it. i dotn trust that he can make it work.

then there is my mum who is bending over backwards to bring in money (she has a good stable job but gets a lot of grief at work) and keep the house tidy and togetehr and support my dad.
she has been the soul breadwinner since we moved to the UK 2 years ago and my dad got depressed and kind of mucked aorund jobwise

i think he should pull it togetehr and just get a proper job like the rest of the world has to.

but that main thing is that he doesnt talk to her, he doesnt give her the space to air how bad and sad she is feeling (she cries most nights and i do what i can to comfort her - but you can imagine the emotinal and finacial worry) yet his aatitude

2007-10-03 01:43:49 · 8 answers · asked by LBB 5 in Family

2007-10-03 01:38:00 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have something to get off my chest that is really important and I will not be at peace until I do but I haven't spoken to him in two days, what other way can I let him know what I need to let him know? Should I show up at his house? If yes, how long should I give him to call me before I do that?

2007-10-03 01:36:52 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I know a couple who have been together since they were 17 (now 21) have lived together for two years and discussing marriage etc. While on one hand I'm kind of awed by the depth of commitment that they show for each other at such a young age, part of me thinks that its mental to get into that sort of relationship at that age and that theyed be better off seeing people, having hearts broken etc for a few years like normal people. At the moment the girl does all the cooking, cleaning etc while her b f goes to work and then sits in front of the tv for the rest of the night. The mind boggles!

Does anyone else think that this sort of thing is best saved for when you have $hagged arround a bit and had a bit of life experience??

P.S No I have no interest in breaking them up for nefarious personal means- just interested to hear others thoughts...

2007-10-03 01:22:53 · 23 answers · asked by lilredhead 2 in Marriage & Divorce

ok so a week ago this i guy i know just completely stopped talking to me for no reason at all. I thought he was just going through something but he wasnt. so on monday i asked him to help me and he comletely ignored me and told me to go ask the proffessor for help even though he knows how to do it. I dont think I did anything to make him stop talking to me so and i know that hes voluntarly ignoring me. So how do i get him to talk to me again.

2007-10-03 01:21:32 · 5 answers · asked by ♥♥TinaThat...ME♥♥ 3 in Friends

My BF never get together with gal J as J already got a husband. She never told my BF about her status however they end up faling in love with each other. This happen about 3-4 years ago. Currently J is studying overseas however, she would keep in contact with my BF 2-3 times per week either via sms or calls. My BF is very secretive about it. Unable to further contain my curiosity, I take a look and found that he kept her smses even dated to year 2002. They address each other as "Dear" or using pet name between them only. I also found out they got a online diary which are only accessible for both of them only. When I confront my BF, he refuses to let me see claiming it is his PRIVACY. He became very defensive and always brush me aside. Does this mean they are both still into something? I love my BF very much thus I am not willing let him go. Are there any advises on what should I do? My heart is in severe pain...

2007-10-03 01:21:17 · 12 answers · asked by Ikea 1 in Singles & Dating

We have joint mortgage and 4 kids,he doesnt love me anymore so walked out,just wondered where does the law stand now on the housing situation,do i have to sell?do i have to pay him out?does he have to keep paying mortgage till kids 16? please help.

2007-10-03 01:20:17 · 9 answers · asked by jo 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-10-03 01:19:18 · 23 answers · asked by Qin! 1 in Singles & Dating

Husband gave me STD.Has anyone else ever experianced this?I think I should go.He says he is sorry but I was very sick.And I feel that God gave me another chance.He claims it will never happen again.But I don't trust him:(

2007-10-03 01:16:14 · 21 answers · asked by Pretty dark skin girl 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Recently on a beach trip, I was wearing a nice bikini. Suddenly during the fun and games, our friends started giving each other wedgies. We girls were laughing and generally enjoying (and also getting a eyeful at times!). Doesnt it hurt for guys?

Suddenly my closest guy friend had the brilliant idea of 'girl wedgies' and slipped behind me & pulled my bottom really hard from behind. <>

The bottom really cut into my privates in the front and back..and it really hurt. Plus all the guys/gals saw quite a lot of my pubes and area. After covering myself up, I tried giving him a wedgie back..but he ran away. Now all the guys are calling me "Jungle Girl" referring to my pubes.

How can I get back at him? It has to be as embarassing for him and he should really feel it too!!! Any ideas? I want to do it in front of all the boys and girls!

2007-10-03 01:15:10 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

trying, i have never met anyone that has truly loved me, sometimes feel like there's no point, i gave up some time ago? is that normal. like i just haven't the heart to try

2007-10-03 01:14:53 · 14 answers · asked by Sophie Jeter 1 in Singles & Dating

he's an acquaintance of my dad's and i've had an obssessive crush on him for about a year now. he's on my mind 24/7 && i don't know what to do. i can't just get over him, i'm in love! :( he has no idea and i really wanna tell him my feelings. i want to be with the guy, i don't care how old he is. love is love. the #1 thing i'm attracted to is his personality. *sigh* he's so...wow. <3 i know i'm in love cuz whenever i see him i get butterflies in my stomach and my heart beats really fast...you know the feeling. :) he IS single, by the way. if anything ever does happen, i'll happily lose my virginity to him && i don't CARE if i get pregnant. i want his baby!!! wow...i'm losing it...:( love HURTS, man. anyways...what should i do? ugh. now i'm crying. :'(

2007-10-03 01:14:45 · 8 answers · asked by ANONYMOUS 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-10-03 01:13:52 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

Are we going for a ride?

2007-10-03 01:04:42 · 2 answers · asked by Grotty Bodkin is not dead!!! 5 in Friends

She is an old retired lady who used to occupy a senior position in the government and now she works with me in the same place. I once was having a private conversation with my boss and I saw her eavesdroping. I can no longer respect her. I've once bought chocolate bars for all the ladies in the office, and I had to buy her one coz she is a lady. She opened the bar and she noticed that the cover didn't have the expiration date printed on it, so she ran to another colleague and told her. She made it look like if it was my friging fault! After two months we were in a conference and she happened to see the head of the consumer protection agency and she told him: "My colleague bought me a bar of chocolate and it didn't have the expiry date on it, and I still keep the cover in my desk." I was standing close and I heard the conversatin and I was shocked! The problem is that she is in position to review my work, but i dont like to deal with her anymore. Should I just try to get along with her?

2007-10-03 00:53:23 · 2 answers · asked by universal 4 in Other - Family & Relationships

I live in India my parents want to fix me up with this guy who i don't even know. They like this guy a lot, till today everything is good about him and his family, i have to lie to my parents to avoid a fix up. I am 32 and in love with some one else, he is 23 and cant arry till he settles, we r very committed, what should i do????
PLZ SUGGEST ME FAST.
ITS AN EMERGENCY.

2007-10-03 00:37:26 · 10 answers · asked by jack t 1 in Weddings

2007-10-03 00:28:49 · 14 answers · asked by kiwiman65 1 in Friends

My hubby cheated on me but refused said nothing happened just talked ever since then i have lost my trust in him. I dont want to have sex with him no longer attracted to him when making love I do not feel that passion anymore love him load want to keep my mariage but its tearing us apart please help me to put the passion back into our relationship and for me to enjoy lovemaking with him I love him dont want anyone else

2007-10-03 00:26:12 · 28 answers · asked by cheat_live 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Would like to know the exact Address of the shops

2007-10-03 00:22:49 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

There is NOTHING wrong with my life. I know that if I think logically.
But I have had insomnia for like a month, and I am so tired. I am always cleaning my house, studying, raising my family, I have max five hours sleep every night, I am going out of my mind. I'm supposed to be thinking about ballistic missiles, and all I can think about is the price of food, bills and how to parent better, plus where the sales are on this week. It's driving me nuts!
I am really angry and annoyed, although everything in my life is perfect, my family is perfect, my friends are there for me, I even have a guy interested in me at the moment. It started with him actually...I'm just so used to being single, I don't think I can date anyone anymore. It's putting too much stress on me. I don't know what to do.
Why do I feel like this when my life is so good and there's so many people who care about me?!

2007-10-03 00:21:59 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

2007-10-03 00:18:36 · 15 answers · asked by london ranger 1 in Family

i was at a bar last night looking for a future wife. i sat down next to a lady and started chatting. turns out she was looking for someone as well. only problem was that she was a stripper.. she wanted me to take her home. i asked my good buddy and he told me, dude, get out of there. so i did. and now i'm embarrassed that i even asked if t was a good idea.how do you avoid making a mistake like that?

2007-10-03 00:17:32 · 5 answers · asked by steveo 1 in Singles & Dating

We are supposed to be moving to the desert as a family in January because my husband got a high paying job there. I realise that by moving to the desert for his career I am throwing away years of my life with my friends and family. He is starting to sound a bit controlling and telling me what I need to do and what is going to happen and how he will not be compromising on certain things (having more kids etc) and I am freaking out that he is going to control my life if I stay with him. I don't like the idea of staying in our home town and being a single parent, how will I afford house payments? My daughter will have to go to day care so I can work. I am so scared of not being well-off financially and I don't know what to do. Maybe I'm just getting cold feet but I really am scared to go with him. Please give me some advice and am I right to be scared of being a single parent?

2007-10-03 00:10:26 · 20 answers · asked by SmEllY! 6 in Marriage & Divorce

I need some serious advice here.....Okay I've been married for 3 years now. (I got married at 19) We.ve been together all together for 8 yrs off and on. Well, I've always been a very faithful person, I NEVER cheated, even when I found out he did. (before we were married) For awhile we've had some serious problems and I'm not happy at all....im plum miserable. I love my husband, I'm just not in love with him....he's still utterly in love with me and he knows that I'm unhappy.....here lately I haven't been faithful, it was mostly just kisses until last weekend, I went home with someone after a night out at the club....one of his friends actually, I CAN'T tell my husband because he has a very serious angry problem and I know he would hurt me, the sad part is....I don't even feel guilty. I don't know what to do.....I have this guy that would do anything in the world for me and I can't even stand to be around him

2007-10-03 00:08:05 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

My dads an alcoholic, with a very addictive personality, a third of his time is spent drinking, a third smoking and the other third starting arguments and being verbally abusive.

HOw can i try to save this family? I mean, my brothers moved out and in another country, our native one, we have just moved to a foreign country. I don't know how to help my mom. She is very sad, and i have no idea what i can do. Any suggestions on how i can get them to get along better? Im 14...:/

2007-10-03 00:03:59 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family