Family & Relationships - 3 October 2007

okay so my friend is having a birthday this weekend and i was wondering what to get her. So i decided to give her a survey and ask questions about all her favorite things or things she wishes she has. i wanna have variety though so that she doesnt automatically know what i'm getting her. So please help me come up with questions to ask her asap! thanks! =]

2007-10-03 10:14:29 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

i dont know what to give my sis for her B-day help

2007-10-03 10:14:26 · 15 answers · asked by Muslim Worker 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

I learned that my boyfriend had cheated on me. I want to forgive him. I have never truely forgiven anyone for anything (I end up bringing it up again which is not true forgiveness.) I want to put the pain behind so I can move forward. How do you move forward from this and not let it effect giving the best of you love?

2007-10-03 10:14:24 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I really like my Bff's cousin. she introduced us and im hooked, but he lives an hour away. Should i go for it, or should i forget him?? he is tall and tan, and he has this huge smile that lights up the room. He's a grade above me, but we're the same age. What do you think?

2007-10-03 10:11:47 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

If you are in a relationship, how do you know your in love?

And, if you believe your in love, but while in this relationship you learn more about what it means to BE in love were you ever in love in the first place, or is our knowledge of it expanding?

2007-10-03 10:09:50 · 1 answers · asked by Confessions 2 in Singles & Dating

err.
I week after school began,
I told her (my best friend) that I liked this cute guy in my band class.
She said he was 'okay' & that was it.
It's been a month, and they're going out!
She also said yesterday, "Go away! Julian won't talk to me if you're around!"
That wasn't nice!
She chose him over me,
she chooses a lot of pepople over me!
It's as if, she thinks I'm not worthy.


Why is she doing this to me? I really liked him.
..& What do I do?!

2007-10-03 10:08:40 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

if a guy had a gun 2 your head and ur parents just came in the house and the guy told u to be quiet or he'll kill u wud u?

2007-10-03 10:08:16 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I have never been married. Am 36 year old man.
Altogether, I have been with 6 women in attempted unions, none of which lasted very long. The longest lasted 2 years, was complicated, and ended about 15 years ago, and she was 15 years older than me. Most of the others lasted around one year or less.
Honesty has always been very important to me in my approach to personal relationships, as has sexual monogamy while of course still feeling and sharing Love in friendship and altruistic ways with friends and society. Though Ive been lovingly sexually attentive, most of my partners had affairs, often lying about it when I could feel it and asked.

So Im involved with a former partner, who had lied to me as well, and has a long history of many, many partners & leaving out of fear of truly being intimate, open & honestly revealing about truth of what she feels, thinks, is... 3 years later weve reconnected, she has made some major changes in some of her choices & addictions, though I am

2007-10-03 10:03:47 · 2 answers · asked by life 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-10-03 10:02:44 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I really want to be able to deal with him in a nice friendly way, but i'm finding really hard to even be polite to him.

2007-10-03 10:02:19 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-10-03 10:01:52 · 7 answers · asked by yo dawg 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-10-03 10:01:10 · 3 answers · asked by george c 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-10-03 09:54:41 · 8 answers · asked by non active 2 in Family

I broke up with my girlfriend about a month ago. We where together for about 7 months. The last couple of months she went home. which is a different country, and during are Long distance relationship our connection dissolved. She ignored me and was a bad girlfriend to me during the last couple of weeks so i broke it off. I felt good about it but now she hates me completely!! she has been talking $%&§ about me to her friends and wrote me a nasty email...I know its childish and thats why i am ignoring her. The problem is that i still care about her and this is hurting me badly now for some reason. She makes it seem like i &%$ everything up, when actually i found out that she cheated on me before i broke it off. I already know what you guys are probably going to say... "get away and stay away", and you are right... but i cant stop thinking about her and the fact that she is choosing to hate me. I tried evrything to make things work and now i am worried about seeing her again.

2007-10-03 09:52:16 · 13 answers · asked by Sean k88 2 in Singles & Dating

he loves touching me in places I don't want him to touch me and when i move his hand away he puts his hand there later on

2007-10-03 09:52:03 · 12 answers · asked by me 3 in Singles & Dating

I don't know if this is normal, but since lately I've begun taking an interest in boys, and I'm afraid of what my older friends will think. I mean I have friends from ages 4-80, and I'm worried about the older ones. For all they know, I think boys are gross, and I'm afraid to reveal to them that I'm not in that mindset. I'm just afraid they will think of me as "just one of those teenagers". One that conforms to the typical stereotypes for teens. I mean I want them to still like me for who I am, and not think of me any different. Plus, it always seems that they don't understand when I talk about those things. I don't know if I'm really making sense to you though.. lol If I am, please help! I want to know if this is normal, and how can I fix it?

2007-10-03 09:51:30 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Okay this guy i like i mean i really really like he's my boyfriend and were like deeply in love but the thing is that i no he loves me to death but he never shows it how can i get him to show that he care's about me. and he's in none of my classes and when i do have the ime to talk to him he's always talking to all the other girls that are in his classes and it makes me really maD and i dont want to go over there because i hate the girl's he's always with. and today this girl got really mad at him and was cring and i made him go over to her and talk to her. and at the end of the day he gave her a hug and blew her a kiss but i told him to hug her but i wasnt so happy bout' the blowing the kiss thing and he told me today if i wasn't at the school he would have liked the girl taylor that he huged. but the thing is he never hugs me and blow's kisses to me and im his girlfriend. :[

what do i do??

i need kind of good answers please <33


HELP!!!

2007-10-03 09:45:26 · 10 answers · asked by Xox C Casole Xox 1 in Singles & Dating

My oldest daughter left home of her own accord at a very young age and according to her, her life was nothing but a miserable life all because of me. Yes, I have been married more than once and when I finally found the right one she hated him and never wanted to be around. Now he has died almost a year ago and she moved in the week he died. She yells at me to grow up and calls me a B* and when we are in public she doesn't care who is hearing it. How to I get her to move out!

2007-10-03 09:44:40 · 25 answers · asked by hope704 2 in Family

my parent separated when i was 2 and my dad lives in n.y. and i live in CT with my mom. my mom has a boyfriend and ny dad has a girlfriend. My parents still speak they dont like hate each other, but i wanna get them back together. how do i break them up with their girl/ boyfriend and get them back together?

2007-10-03 09:44:30 · 19 answers · asked by smiley 1 in Marriage & Divorce

my parent separated when i was 2 and my dad lives in n.y. and i live in CT with my mom. my mom has a boyfriend and ny dad has a girlfriend. My parents still speak they dont like hate each other, but i wanna get them back together. how do i break them up with their girl/ boyfriend and get them back together?

2007-10-03 09:43:46 · 9 answers · asked by smiley 1 in Marriage & Divorce

So I am getting married in two days. Yesterday we had our rehearsal dinner and for the first time our parents met each other.
Well it got really awkward when we discovered that my Dad had previously met my Fiance's mother - in fact they had and affair and she did not tell him that she was having a baby with him and they had not spoken for years.
Well come to find out, my Fiance is that baby. So really he is my half brother.
Now I just learned this and I am mortified, so is he and our parents.
The problem is that I just found out that I am pregnant!
Now I don't know what to do. . . .

2007-10-03 09:42:55 · 51 answers · asked by Grotty Bodkin is not dead!!! 5 in Weddings

I just started teaching. Im 23 and teach a bunch of 15-18 year olds. The majority of the girls seem to be crushing on me. One told me is was cute, another said I was in her dream. There's constant smiling and peering at me during class, and another girl tried to hug me. I never encourage this behavior and cautiously paranoid towards being alone with a female student. what do i do?

2007-10-03 09:41:55 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have to much stress on my hands and to much work to do at school I've tryed allmost every thing to come down and try to do my work can you help me ?

2007-10-03 09:41:11 · 18 answers · asked by starrider 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Me and her mom are not together. We use to email one another until I found some disturbing on her page. I spoke to her mom about the situation and her reply was "SO WHAT!" she said that she don't get into my daughters business. She also said that my daughter tried to cut her wrist and thats why she doesn't get into her business. I'm really concern,and truthfully I would like to get custody. Can someone tell me if it is possible.CAN SOMEONE HELP A CONCERN FATHER,A WORRIED FATHER?

2007-10-03 09:40:26 · 3 answers · asked by d.madkins 1 in Family

wat do i do wen i like this guy and were in like 2 completely diffrent popularity groups?? @ my skool popularity is evrything. and i like this 1 dude hes in 1 grade lower than me [jr hi], and this dude in my class is like his best friend and i was friends w/the dude i like, but then i liked him, then he told the dude in my class, jake. so im guessing jake has prolly told him alot of bad things bout me probly. the guy i like still talks 2 me and all, but then 1 time we wer having this conversation on myspace, and he said "yea we r diffrent types" out of nowhere, and i said "diffrent wats?" and he said "like im a football player and a sk8er and u arent a cheerleader." so we continued on w/this conversation, and i changed subject, but wat did that mean anyway?? i was good friends w/him and 1 time we stayed on myspace talkin ALL night. so he cant b mean or anything... or so it didnt appear then... but he asked me once if i liked him and i asked if my friend said something and he knew. : (

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ive told him on myspace that i liked him tho. im a yr older than him. is that wierd?? im 13

2007-10-03 09:38:58 · 1 answers · asked by sarah m 2 in Singles & Dating

I have asked a similar question before bout my sister and hr drug problem, Now my main foucus is her kids . Instead of helping them she just is bring them down with her. What do i need to do get custody of them? Either me or my parents .Shes not in the right state of mind of able to take care of them.I know my parents are scared to try anything cuz she gets violent and is always threating them. But im not scared of her what can i do. Does anyone know of any attorneys that could help? Or how i get started, I know i can call child services but im scared they might take them into foster care. and the worst part shes very manipulitive and a lier the biggest one you can be and i knw she will make it hard !! HELP

2007-10-03 09:38:14 · 8 answers · asked by bashfulmexicana 2 in Family

Well I have liked this guy for a while and today I told him that I liked him. Well come to find out the girl that sits beside me in science class likes him too and was going to ask him out today! She is also my friend! not BFF just friend. Well I told her that I liked him and she said she did too and she was planning on asking him out today during lunch and I told her that I was planning on telling him that I like him! I kinda figured that when I finally decided to tell Cordell how i really felt about him something like this would happen. Well she asked me would I be mad if she asked him out and i said umm yea ya think i mean jeeze he is my friend! Then she asked me how long had I liked him and I said since the beginning of the school yr. (6 1/2 wks.) I asked her the same thing and she said about 3 wks. I know it's not a contest but what should i do now that I told him how I really feel? should I ask him out after I see what he said to the other girl? please help!

2007-10-03 09:36:30 · 5 answers · asked by ♥nikki♥ 3 in Singles & Dating

He is disabled, he has M.S. and fell over in the bathroom. I was out at work at the time so his son went to help him up. When I came back from work son told me about fall [which is a regular occurence btw] he was still in bathroom. When he knew I was home he went mad becos I hadn't gone to see if he was ok. Help

2007-10-03 09:36:29 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Do you start counting from the date you separte are from the date that is file, to determine your divorce date?

2007-10-03 09:35:52 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

once i was going through this bag of my husband's pictures (mostly of me from when we were still dating) and right in the middle of the pics of me was a pic of some other girl...actually i remember seeing the same pic when we were dating but never said anything about it...but 7 years later i find it again, even though it's at his brother's house in canada while we live in the states. he's pakistani and this girl in the pic was african american or maybe even mixed, and i know he doesn't like "dark" girls which i find offensive but anyways...she's standing in a pose that's like she's trying to look sexy and she's wearing a real short skirt. should i confront him about it? 7 years later it still bothers me even though i know he wouldn't cheat on me but makes me wonder if he was dating her before me or something.

2007-10-03 09:30:20 · 36 answers · asked by zeenat 2 in Marriage & Divorce