I broke up with my girlfriend about a month ago. We where together for about 7 months. The last couple of months she went home. which is a different country, and during are Long distance relationship our connection dissolved. She ignored me and was a bad girlfriend to me during the last couple of weeks so i broke it off. I felt good about it but now she hates me completely!! she has been talking $%&§ about me to her friends and wrote me a nasty email...I know its childish and thats why i am ignoring her. The problem is that i still care about her and this is hurting me badly now for some reason. She makes it seem like i &%$ everything up, when actually i found out that she cheated on me before i broke it off. I already know what you guys are probably going to say... "get away and stay away", and you are right... but i cant stop thinking about her and the fact that she is choosing to hate me. I tried evrything to make things work and now i am worried about seeing her again.
2007-10-03 09:52:16 · 13 answers · asked by Sean k88 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
a woman scorned......well the little sweety has a very bruised ego, and is obviously immature. If you value her friendship, tell her plainly and honestly what you told us here, that you care about her as a friend and you don't want hard feelings.
BTW you are right and she is NOT
2007-10-03 09:56:50 · answer #1 · answered by Angelbaby7 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get away, and stay away may be too easily done.
If you care about her, then you need to write her back and reason with her your purpose for breaking it off. She needs to confront the issue in a mature manner if she figures that your relationship is anywhere near important. ALSO, If she had been unloyal to you, then that in and of itself shows that she is not ready for a real committment with you, and therefore she was wasting both her time and yours.
She is obviously being immature about the entire situation, but it is probably because she doesn't want to have her ego crash down around her, so to make herself feel better, she's going to complain about it to everyone under the sun until you step in and clean up her pathetic attempt to take a jab back at you.
If anyone asks you about the situation, explain it from your viewpoint-- don't dismiss her in any way, and tell them that you still think highly of her despite her unkind words she's spreading. Those words you say will always travel back to her--- just like you have heard of what she's been saying.
Regardless, sometimes it is better to let go of people. It would not have ended up like this unless it was truly meant to be. You'll find someone who deserves you as much as you deserve them. Good luck.
2007-10-03 17:00:25 · answer #2 · answered by Questionable 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow, you've got quite the dilema there bud. First off long distance relationships are very hard trust me I've been there. She doesn't seem like a girl that is worth your time. You seem like a honest guy who takes certain things like this seriously which I would too. I just can't believe that she cheated on you. She should not be the one hating you, you should be the one doing the hating. What I don't understand is why you would want to get back with her? You could easily get a girl and be happy why chose one that doesn't care?!?! Most girls want guys like you, why waste your time loving a girl that obviously doesn't love you back. Give your love to someone who deserves it. Give it time, she will come to you!
2007-10-03 16:59:21 · answer #3 · answered by Jodie B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Her hate is coming from the fact she knows she messed up but like the typical illogical female she wants to blame you. She expected you to let her do whatever she wanted and still kiss her @$$ for her. Shes mad cuz you arent letting her carry your balls in her purse. Sorry but dude you are wanting to hold on to a totally unreasonable ball buster who doesnt love you or care about you at all. Keep your manhood and move on. Ignore the witch.
2007-10-03 16:57:40 · answer #4 · answered by Dovahkiin 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i guess the only thing you can do is write her tellin what shes putting you through and let her know that you really care about
shell probably still act like a child but at least you wouldve tried
then its over if she still the same
2007-10-03 16:57:55 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
She is mad at you thayt why she is giving you a rough time Ignore her completely Its normal for you to thinkn about her you just end the relationship You will see joy will be back soon
2007-10-03 17:02:36 · answer #6 · answered by lala 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
listen dude i kno how u may feel i had a girl like dat she got mad at every lil thing that i do like hang up in her face but she hangs up in mines bout 50 11 times. i heard those kinds arent that good cause they could be takeing advantage of u like u said she waz cheating on u. but if u want her that bad go 4 it but if she keep bull messing let her go cuz maybe that aint the 1, 4, u kno wat i mean i still feel the same way bout mine but it seem like i waz mo in the relationship than she waz i hope u make da right choice good luck
ps i feel gud real gud bout wat i did
2007-10-03 17:05:47 · answer #7 · answered by Mr. Point Gurad-rifict 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
email her tell her that u still love her and well say all these gushy things if u r lucky she might get back with u it takes patients by the way i kow how u feel if u ever need someone to talk to my email is juliagulchuk@yahoo.com
2007-10-03 17:00:14 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
To Hell with her! If she is cheating, you should feel even more vidicated. Go to a nightclub tonight and grind dance with as many stranger girls as possible to celebrate!
2007-10-03 16:55:31 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because they feel that way. They want to put all the blame on you. Don't pay any attention to it all. Just find some one else.
2007-10-03 16:54:39 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋