Family & Relationships - 3 October 2007

I don't mean it in a mean way, but there have been a few guys who i don't find attractive at all (physically/mentally/emotionally) who just like me. Is it something i do? i dont lead them on or any thing. i mean im often nice to people and if they talk to me i won't tell them to go away. So what is it? I just don't want them following me around or acting as though we are friends. Because my friends are the ones who i have known for years not just a couple weeks. Also i've never had a boyfriend. I just dont get it. I mean none of the people i do like get to kno me. any advice?

2007-10-03 08:53:45 · 1 answers · asked by Pho 2 in Singles & Dating

I keep asking him, but all he says that it was something he tried to stop but couldn't until SHE text me and told me about it. Let me know your thoughts.

2007-10-03 08:52:30 · 32 answers · asked by fifi 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I need help, my husband is emotionally and physically abusive. I live in fear, fear of him hitting me, choking me, pulling my hair, blaming me, saying things to intentionally hurt me, calling me names, etc. My heart skips a beat and not for the right reasons when I see he is calling on my phone. Its like im thinking oh god what is he going to yell at me now about. I have tried talking to him about it with no luck. He has progressively gotten worse over the past 3 years. Right now I have a huge bruise on my arm, hand imprint on my throat and a bump on the back of my head. I am not a stupid person, I have a great job, make good money and I know im not stupid but its so hard to think that with the way he is constantly putting me down. I want to leave but am afraid he will try to kill me because he has said he would. He is a very jealous person and im not allowed to do anything or talk to anyone without him knowing what im talking about. Please I need some ideas on what to do to get away.

2007-10-03 08:49:36 · 48 answers · asked by helpmeescapehim 1 in Marriage & Divorce

my dad,mom and my family lives in india and i am here in united states for my education......i am 18 yrs old and guess what ? i am not normal......
every weekend i cry coz i miss my parents especially my dad..as he always supported me...i live in NY and my dad's brother lives in GA and everytime i call him to calm me down he goes..."stop studying ,get married and get a life."he is very orthodox especially when it comes to girls.i told this to my dad and he said that i should ignore my uncle and continue studying..
no one here supports my studies ....only my dad and mom do and they live in india...i really miss them...what do i do? even right now i am crying and my shirt is all wet in tears.......
what do i do to cheer me up? my SAT is on oct 6...this saturday..and i do not feel like studying coz i miss my dad..
PLZ HELP ME>.

2007-10-03 08:47:21 · 13 answers · asked by Just another gal 3 in Family

This guy----ex-boyfriend won't leave me alone and I am so tired of him. He says "Jimmie sucks" to me and makes me mad. I am so tired of it and I have no idea what to say to him.

2007-10-03 08:45:01 · 18 answers · asked by ♥ 2 in Singles & Dating

my gym teacher failed me because i didn't have my hair pulled back one time. i dont know what in the hell i ever did to her. but i'm not the only one who does tie their hair back. but yet i'm the one failing. secondly my hair isn't long enough to pull it back. this does make sense to me. tell me if you think this is fair.

2007-10-03 08:41:04 · 20 answers · asked by Rwar. 1 in Family

I just don't feel the connection with my Significant other,,,
We are always at each others throat......we argue for almost every little minor detail ( laundry, house cleaning, money, who's wrong, who's right, ) I had it..

The only reason i haven't left its because of my kids..
don't want them to grow up without a father......
what do you suggest,,what would you do?

If i leave, How soon should I start dating?

2007-10-03 08:40:22 · 39 answers · asked by MrRight 3 in Marriage & Divorce

My husband and me recently got married even though he lives far away. He does plan on moving out to where I live in a few months. I am nervous thinking what if he is unable to find a good job and wonder if things will work out. I love him so much and he loves me. He treats me great and is the most wonderful man I know. I want this to work. Has anyone ever been involved in moving and relocating? What pointers can you give us that worked for you? Any help will and advice will be appreciated.

2007-10-03 08:38:38 · 7 answers · asked by pictureshygirl 7 in Marriage & Divorce

In the Atlanta area how can black women meet and date white men but not on the job.

2007-10-03 08:37:10 · 6 answers · asked by a1semisweet 1 in Singles & Dating

Like a person u liked, but u just litterally slept on the same bed, lol.

2007-10-03 08:36:36 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

me and my husband belong to different religions. and we are soon expecting a child.
my husband is a good person, and i love him for what he is. i have never attempted to make him convert to my religion and i dont wish to.
but the same cannot be said about him and he grabs every oppurtunity to preach me about it. he is very passionate about it to the point of shunning everyone who is against it including his parents and siblings. and he has made it very clear that when the baby comes he is gonna belong to his religion, not mine.
i dont really care what religion the baby is going to follow, but
my concern is, how can i carry on with this without letting our relationship be spoiled and what effect will this have on the baby ? is he going to be confused about things with me following one thing and his father another ?
thank you.

2007-10-03 08:35:56 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

Me and my boyfriend have been together for 4 years and have a son together. We have sex all the time, it's fun and always something different. A few different times (once was even a few days after asking me to marry him) I have seen on the history that he was looking at porn. Even paying for it. When I asked him about it he lied and I had to show him what I had found then he eventually confessed. He continued to do it knowing it hurt me. I told him it would be ok if he just told me the truth. I feel like there is something wrong with me. I have low self esteem from him cheating on me a long time ago. I wonder why he would want to look at other women like that if he loves me. I feel like I am not good enough for him. He also claims that he has never masturbated while looking at it, I'm sure that's a lie as well.

2007-10-03 08:33:19 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I know this sounds really sad!! But ive been single for 18 months (and counting)..after being in a relationship for 8 yrs.. Nd i never meet anyone..I go out with my friends most wkends, nd i neva see not even one guy..I go to the gym, no guys there.. please tell me were all the hot male species are hiding...x

2007-10-03 08:31:36 · 15 answers · asked by Amy x 1 in Singles & Dating

she sooooooooo cruel and no listing what to do? btw she teels my rents everything likes to get me in trouble and is cruel

2007-10-03 08:30:38 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

How can 2 people truely be able to understand one another.. My bf works 2 jobs and is tired a lot and that makes it hard for us to see each other I understand that he is tired and I'm not saying we have to see each other every day. But I want him to understand I'm trying to make our relationship work.

2007-10-03 08:27:52 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

so i met this guy at work who i was was friends with first. i had a bf at the time but i broke up with him last week. well i strated to fall for this guy but i had a bf so we couldnt be together at the time but i told him i would leave my bf for him. he said he wasnt ready for a relationship yet bc he had to help his dad take care of his lil brother. well he strated treating me like his gf and i liekd it. he would kiss me all the time say how beautiful i was give me cute little nicknames, cal me all the time and dicth work to be with me all day. well then he strated acting weird every ohter week. he would barel;y talk to me at wokr or act like he didnt want anything to do wiht me. well last week i broke up with my bf to be withim now he is totally ignoring me i think he is also seeing another girl at work but not tellin gme. well today i havent said one word to him bc i always intiate conversations so i wanted to see if he would talk to me but he hasnt. im so heartbroken whats up him

2007-10-03 08:26:11 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Hey everyone

My husband wants to stop smoking, but nothing works for him, so I've decided to put together a game of rewards/incentives to help him stop. Anyone have any cute ideas for rewards if he doesn't smoke? Also, I need some "bad" tasks he has to do if he cheats and smokes.

Thanks!

2007-10-03 08:22:29 · 24 answers · asked by must<3dogs 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

do you people always keep thinking about sex? even when you are in a shopping mole and all? be honest.... if yes then y???

2007-10-03 08:21:25 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My son started Adderall XR and I changed it to regular adderall. He has been on this medication for about 10 months. I just recently found out that a lot of ADHD is because children are lacking B12 in their brain. I am considering trying it. I need advise. He takes Clonidine to make him sleep. And I am almost positive that his dad takes his adderall. I get him back after his weekend and he can not sit still. He is calling me names and hitting me. I ask him if he got his meds this weekend he almost always says no. I can just tell that he hasn't had his meds. My ex-husband says that its all in Drakes head and that he don't need them. So, if you were me would you try the B12 instead of adderall? I really dont want him on meds anyway. The teachers always tell my that they know if he has had his meds or not.

2007-10-03 08:21:24 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

ir is our first year married and he took off I thought for us and now he has been gone half the day running his mom around.She always has interfered in our lives too much and now this.I just wish her could have the balls tell her that this is our week and we want to spend it together.I don't see him doing it though.His mom sometimes feels like the
"other woman" .It has gotten much better since I got with him but things like that bug me.would it you?

2007-10-03 08:19:00 · 18 answers · asked by swtluvingcntrygirl 3 in Marriage & Divorce

all the really lonely and needy people around but never find and latch on to someone equally lonely and needy?

They sure find me pretty quick, or I stumble across them, but not each other.

2007-10-03 08:17:51 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

im 18 and have never had a boyfriend. i've never been on a date, kissed a boy, held hands or anything. i really want a boyfriend but im scared and nervous. the thought of having someone that loves me and thinks of me when im not there makes me feel nervous and uncomfortable. like when i find out a boy that i like, likes me back i'll avoid him.

uhhhhhhhhhh...am i weird and immature and how do i get over this. also, boys seem to have no interest in me so what can i do to change this

2007-10-03 08:16:59 · 23 answers · asked by kristin 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-10-03 08:16:30 · 16 answers · asked by Michel D Lewis 1 in Marriage & Divorce

A cabbie picks up a Nun. She gets into the cab, and the cab driver won't
stop staring at her. She asks him why he is staring. He replies, "I have a question to ask you, but I don't want to offend you."

She answers, "My son, you cannot offend me. When you're as old as I am
and have been a Nun as long as I have, you get a chance to see and hear
just about everything. I'm sure that there's nothing you could say or
ask that I would find offensive." "Well, I've always had a fantasy to have a Nun kiss me."

She responds, "Well, let's see what we can do about that: #1, you have
to be single and #2, you must be Catholic."

The cab driver is very excited and says, "Yes, I am single and I'm
Catholic!" "OK" the Nun says. "Pull into the next alley."

The Nun fulfills his fantasy with a kiss that would make a hooker blush.
But when they get back on the road, the cab driver starts crying. "My
dear child, said the nun, why are you crying?"

"Forgive me but I've sinned. I lied. I must confess, I'm married and
I'm Jewish."
The nun says, "That's OK, my name is Kevin and I'm going to a Halloween
party."

Trick or Treat

2007-10-03 08:15:39 · 37 answers · asked by Cherish 2 in Singles & Dating

This kid is going to ask me to homecoming.
How do i say no without being bitter? I like him but just not as much as he likes me. And I dont want to hurt his feelings.

GUYS How would you like to be rejected?
Any lines?

2007-10-03 08:15:06 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I'm 13 and I have a boyfriend and my aunts and grandmother are trying to convince my mom that I'm too young for that. Do you agree or disagree?

2007-10-03 08:13:04 · 25 answers · asked by chiquita 5 in Family

2007-10-03 08:11:58 · 25 answers · asked by hocuspocus 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

he being the almighty authoritarian, is the quintessential do-as-I-say-not-as-I-do person, has been on the same job for 24 years and is a good provider . However, he is inflexible, sarcastic, nit-picker, makes very rude comments about complete strangers, says HE is the boss of the family, and demands respect, yet he'll down 6 beers at a ballgame, and then drive home, he smokes pot daily, and his two daughters are now well aware of this. If you were a 16 yr old girl, would you have respect for him?

2007-10-03 08:09:57 · 5 answers · asked by ? 2 in Family

2007-10-03 08:07:17 · 63 answers · asked by t c 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I let my hubby do most anything he wants. This includes watching adult films. At first it bothered me that he wanted to watch them...but soon I just got used to it. He seemed so happy when I let him. Well now its like everytime Im away from the house, He watches something. It upsets me. We have talked about it before, but he swares that he is just horny. Is this a normal thing among men?? I dont want to be a horrible wife, and be a B**** about it. I keep my 120 lb body in shape at the gym...wear hot clothes & be as sexy as I possibly can. Im just confused and need some advice. I want to make my man the happiest guy in the world!

2007-10-03 08:04:31 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce