2007-10-03 08:16:30 · 16 answers · asked by Michel D Lewis 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
fALL IN LOVE WITH ME THEN
2007-10-03 08:19:39 · answer #1 · answered by Ms.K33p !t R3@l 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
A similar thing happened to me. I finally realized it wasn't everyone else, it was me. We each send out certain signals and vibes that attract others. I always attracted the wrong kind of man because I am very mothering and nurturing and then when I was taken advantage of over and over, I wondered why.
I also realized, that subconsciously, I kept getting involved with the same type of person over and over. Why I couldn't see it sooner, I don't know. But looking back objectively, all the warning signs were there and I chose to ignore them.
Since I made this revelation, I have really tried to not make the same mistakes again. I don't date as much and I don't get past the third date with lots of men because the warning bells go off. But I'd rather be alone than go through the pain of being with another user and loser.
Good Luck!
2007-10-03 15:39:14 · answer #2 · answered by wondermom 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not enough information to give you a real answer. But I will say you probably fall in love too easy. Once they see that the challenge is gone so they're looking for other, more exciting challenges while keeping the safe answer available. Bottom line is ******* generally have the best luck with women.
2007-10-03 15:29:30 · answer #3 · answered by Bull in a china shop 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would need more details to properly answer this question ... however, girls are extremely complicated. Some girls can be very self-serving, others are just very confused. Do you have a lot of male friends? Do you take these girls on dates often? Do you create sentimental memories with them? Maybe they feel ignored? Maybe you are spoiling them ... There is a reason if they are all looking elsewhere. I think I maybe be able to help you more, so if you want to give me more detail, let me know.
2007-10-03 16:21:25 · answer #4 · answered by Eagiusti 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Date them a long, long time, before you commit to them. Ask a lot of questions. Find out their values, their interests, their plans for the future, tell them yours. Observe how they treat other people in general. What are their politics and spiritual values. Do they drink or do drugs. Are they looking for a partner or are they controlling? What are their moral values. Ask their friends how they are. When you first meet some one you are meeting their Representative, takes quite sometime for the real person to show up.
2007-10-03 15:24:17 · answer #5 · answered by Sweet Suzy 777! 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you are falling for the wrong type of girl.. Or you might be to pushy.. I mean how many girls has this happened with more then one?? Are you moving to fast? You know saying you love them a week into the relationship?
If you don't think its the type of girl then maybe you should go slow (if your moving to fast) with the next girl..
2007-10-03 15:22:39 · answer #6 · answered by blueeyd_princess 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
cause you keep letting it happen to you. People will do what every they can get away with. stop letting them walk all over you and be the man that woman really want. Maybe stop falling in love so easily??
2007-10-03 15:20:25 · answer #7 · answered by louie 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The common denominator is you...so I say re evaluate the type of woman you involve yourself with. Sorry you are feeling so much hurt from your relationships!
2007-10-03 15:33:55 · answer #8 · answered by purplebee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If it has happened more than once then you need to seriously look at what you are finding so attractive that is leading you to women who cheat.
2007-10-03 15:25:33 · answer #9 · answered by Saphira 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your just meeting the wrong women. Change your place of meeting. Not all women are bad.
2007-10-03 15:21:30 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are falling in love with the wrong type of woman try somethihng completely opposite
2007-10-03 15:20:59 · answer #11 · answered by oh_jo123 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋