2007-10-03 08:11:58 · 25 answers · asked by hocuspocus 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
You're alone--- good.
You're alone---Bad
2007-10-03 08:15:16 · answer #1 · answered by sasha D 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
a lot of these responses in here hit it right on some no so much. There is no really good thing about being a loner all of the time to be honest. People need that human socialisation in their lives. I am in a relationship and I still can do what I want, my life did not end when I got married. I still get my alone quiet times, and I have some one there to tell about my good and bad days even boring ones too. I am not saying you need a whole herd of friends i really have one good friend and then my husband, it is not healthy emotionally to be alone all of the time.
2007-10-03 09:13:24 · answer #2 · answered by redrose 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The good things about being a loner is that you don't have ot take or hear anybody's crap, you do what you want, when you want, and how you want. I LOVE being a loner, always was, always will be. Now the bad thing about it is that you can get used to it and become like me, very withdrawn and hardly ever wanting to socialize. Beware if that's not what you want. OR balance your loner time and social time
2007-10-03 08:47:44 · answer #3 · answered by sunfire1165 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The good thing is you never have to worry about having to wait to go somewhere. You just go, even on a whim.
The bad is that you never get to worry about having to go someplace with someone. In a nutshell, you don't have anyone to share your experiences with.
Another analogy is from a poem in the movie "Mask",
Things I Like
Riding a Harley
The 52 Dodgers
Walks on the beach
and the sun shining down on my face
Things I Don't Like
Dust in my hair
Cleaning my room
Mean people
and the sun shining down on my face.
The content in the movie was somewhat different but implies the same meaning here. Being a loner can be good or bad dpeneding on your mood at the time.
2007-10-03 08:21:55 · answer #4 · answered by Phurface 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends on your point of view...if you don't like being alone, then being a loner is one of the bad things. If you don't care for people, then being a loner is one if the good things.
2007-10-03 08:14:27 · answer #5 · answered by . 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Good thing:
Peace and quiet
Bad thing:
Lonliness
Being a loner takes a toll on a person after a few years, the human wasnt designed to be alone, we're social creatures.
2007-10-03 08:16:17 · answer #6 · answered by Lori E 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Good things about being a loner is not worrying about others around you, you dont have to make dates with all your friends, you can answer questions on yahoo all day without the phone ringing, you can do pretty much whatever you want without anyone bothering you, bad things would be not having no friends that you can talk to you, your emotionally withdrawn from the world around you, its not healthy. Not much else I can think of
2007-10-03 08:18:39 · answer #7 · answered by who_me 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
The best part is you aren't obsessed with friends and meeting their expectations, you can be your own person. If you enjoy some time alone, you don't worry about being a loner.
2007-10-03 08:15:09 · answer #8 · answered by Steve C 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Good--loners don't need other people. Bad--it can get mighty lonely.
2007-10-03 08:15:13 · answer #9 · answered by darkdiva 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Good thing is, you have time to do some recollection, have control upon yourself, and not being dictated by anyone and your secrets are safe with you.
Bad thing is, its always your on your own. As they say no man is an island.
2007-10-03 08:19:14 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Good - No one changes the channel.
Bad - If you fall down, you have to get up or have one of those emergency buttons hanging around.
2007-10-03 08:15:21 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋