Family & Relationships - 3 October 2007

i want to marry him because i love him and dont ever wanna be without him, i only want to have one sexual partner, he is my best friend and we have a 9 year old out of our 11 year relationship. what i love about him is what is breaking us. BEST FRIENDS have a loyalty that we do share but it also allows you to dismiss someone assuming that its ok because you are friends and they understand.
the reason i am unsure....he treats me like his friend all the time, we dont go out unless its the whole crew, which is me and 4 other friends. i like to see things and do things, he likes watching t.v. and i dont watch t.v. he does friend things like getting things for me and going to the store for me but not boyfriend things like taking me out or buying me things. we are such friends he thinks its ok that i missed gifts on every holiday including my birthday and valentines day believe it or not for the last 2 years and i save for months for his expensive gifts. SEX is amazing and i need that.....

2007-10-03 08:04:27 · 8 answers · asked by badbitty101 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Every GIRL can answer, even if you don't have a boyfriend... think about what you would do. Bisexual and Lesbian girls, you can answer to, just replace the boy ajectives with a girl one!

2007-10-03 08:00:42 · 12 answers · asked by way2damnhot4u 1 in Singles & Dating

every month i get that feeling that im falling for my bestmate. and everytime i kinda tell him he tells me to stop being silly or somthing similur. everytime this happends i end up getting really sad cos i know he probly dont feel the same about me, hes told me that i mean more then a friend to him but theres no point doing anything about it because the major thing is we live in a diffrent country to eachother. in my last relationship i moved to greece to be with my ex, i met my bestfriend from the internet. he means so much to me that i get really worred about losing him, this is why i feel the need to tell him how much he means to me. but i go to far and i know its pushing him away. i need some control here. someone please tell me how i am spose to control myself when we talk to eachother. oh and btw i have a boyfriend (been togeterr for a year), but iv fallen for my best friend for almost 2 or three years now. wheni split with my ex i should have made the move with my mate then!

2007-10-03 07:59:22 · 2 answers · asked by honiez_of_uk 2 in Singles & Dating

I've been seeing this guy for a few months now. We began our "journey" as an agreed "friends with benefits". We see each other 1-2 times per week and IM or text on most days.

I really enjoy spending time with him and we really have alot in common. We make each other laugh, we have the same goals in life, and we are both dedicated to our careers. Most of the time we get together it is for the "benefits", however, there are times that we also go out to dinner, driving, that sort of thing.

I am starting to feel more than friends with him and I don't know how to tell him without scarring him off. I don't feel like I "love" him because he hasn't earned that emotion yet, but I do know that I like him alot and that I can see myself with him and don't want to see anyone else. Neither one of us is currently dating anyone else. He's never been married, but I am divorced with a 17 year old.

I hope this is enough information, but if you have questions, please ask!!

2007-10-03 07:58:36 · 8 answers · asked by Julie H 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-10-03 07:57:07 · 15 answers · asked by Di B 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Tell the truth.. after all no one on here is more perfect than the next.

2007-10-03 07:54:15 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

A guy who is tall dark and handsome as well in between thin and average of weight. Who has dark brown hair and blue eyes. A guy who has a great personailty and has plenty of respect and cares a lot about the women. A guy who is always there for her no matter what. A guy who likes to hug kiss and cuddle with the girl instead of having sex with. A guy who dresses nice but not to impress the girl but to look sharp on dates. A guy who will love you no matter what.

Ok what would you rate a guy like that? 1-10 10 being the greatest.

And also a man who spends quaility time with the girl over sports.

2007-10-03 07:53:57 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-10-03 07:52:19 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

We all know that guys love the cool toys.....sports cars, sport bikes, modified rice burners, etc. I would think that most of these guys think that their cool rides impress the ladies...

Ladies only...give me the low down......does a flashy car get your attention, detract your attention, or has no affect whatsoever? If not offended, please include age range to see if there is a difference in opinion based on age.

15 - 18
19 - 25
36 - 45
45 - above

2007-10-03 07:52:13 · 33 answers · asked by Jay E 3 in Singles & Dating

2007-10-03 07:51:43 · 22 answers · asked by Frank S 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-10-03 07:50:46 · 42 answers · asked by BossLady 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I dont have much of a relationship with my parents, especially my mother. This comes from their neglect as grandparents towards my son, whom I love more than anything. Recently my father has become ill and is now unable to walk great distances. I offered to buy him a scooter (mobility buggy) and he did not want one initially. Now he has agreed and it arrives tomorrow. I have a feeling that my mother wants to use it more than he does, which I suppose had to happen.

Anyway, I know from experience that my parents are liable to use this buggy then decide they do not want or need it. In the past they have sold or given away things like this that I have helped them out with once they tired of them.

In this instance (as the buggy is expensive) I do not want my parents to sell it or give it away. Hence, I am going to tell them that it is on loan to them from me until they decide they do not want it anymore. Is this wrong?

2007-10-03 07:44:29 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

I have lost the person I love, and this is my first time. I don't feel the same. Is this natural? What should I do? My heart hearts so badly...please help...I feel a part of me is missing...

2007-10-03 07:41:10 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

i am dating a girl that every one says is a cheater and a whore and i dont wanna belive them cause i really like her... idk if i can trust her

2007-10-03 07:38:51 · 13 answers · asked by jimmy 2 in Singles & Dating

theres a girl where i work, shes pretty cute. id quite like to get somewhere with her beyond the odd bit of chatting and getting her to do stuff for me (shes my unofficial assistant).

before i make a fool of myself, i want to know how open she is likely to be - shes quite smiley with me and will often do stuff for me when i ask. i dunno if shes just being generally nice or doing it for me as shes into me abit.

what would be a female perspective on this? shes 18 btw if that makes a difference.

any signs of her being into me would be cool, as this stuff goes over my head usually and i tend to get it wrong.

cheers!

2007-10-03 07:37:54 · 18 answers · asked by the dogone dog 2 in Singles & Dating

When a husband goes to lunch everyday with a female co-worker for over 5 months, all alone, and doesn't tell his wife .IS THAT CHEATING ? He says there is nothing wrong with what he is doing, but he will stop, DO YOU TRUST HIM TO NEVER DO IT AGAIN ? or do you believe he will and he will hide it better so he doesn't get caught. And if he failed to tell you about his private lunches with the female co-worker for 5 months do believe he is not telling you a lot of other things going on in his life.

2007-10-03 07:36:48 · 63 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I dumped a girl saturday before last. It was a hard decision to make, because I really care for her. She always told me she loved me, and I thought she meant it. But I don't think I was in love with her, which is why I ended it. I've never been so attached to a girl before, and we were together since January.

We're talking and (trying) to act like everythings cool between us. I have to see her every day, because we get the same train to school. She messaged me on bebo, and when I messaged her back I saw that she had been chatting to some new guy.... flirting. This was only a week after we broke up. Then on Monday morning she saw this guy (i dunno who he is) and walked away from me to him and kissed him. Then she got annoyed at me for being irritated... I mean c'mon... I thought our relationship would take more than a week to get over.

I don't think it would be a good idea for me to get back with her, cos we would probably have the same problems again. How can I make this easier?

2007-10-03 07:33:30 · 12 answers · asked by NONAME 3 in Singles & Dating

2007-10-03 07:33:04 · 16 answers · asked by Stressed 1 in Weddings

i went out with this guy for only 2 and a half weeks and like a week later i didnt have the same feelings for him. SO today i wrote him a note, that was me breaking up with him and i gave it to him in the pickline at school right when i was about to leave. we driving away and i saw him reading it and he looked soooo sad, and i feel terrible. i dont want to get back together with him, but i didnt want to hurt his feelings. we used to be good friends, and now im afraid he wont want to be anymore. anyway is there any advice. even though im not sad that i broke up with him, it makes me sad to see him sad. i feel really terrible, and i need some breakup advice. thanks soooooo much.

2007-10-03 07:32:41 · 17 answers · asked by ♪ladida♪ 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-10-03 07:32:06 · 4 answers · asked by mikey 3 in Singles & Dating

Nerds are smart people so they probably have great paying jobs which would make them great providers as husbands. However, what are the ups and downs of marrying a nerd?

Use details freely. I got the time to listen. Thank you.

2007-10-03 07:30:18 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I met this girl through my female cousin and they are best friends. We all had a party at my house and after my cousin passed out and the rest of the ppl left me and the girl was alone. We started making out and then it lead to other things but we stopped b4 sex. After that we all started hanging out alot, going out to eat, riding around, chillin, goin to the movies. We became good friends. She use to go out with my other guy cousin but they stopped dating recently. Over the last few months Ive realized i have fallin in love with her. Ive told her how i feel but she kinda blows it off. We tell each other we love each other but she does that with all of her friends. It seems like she trys to make me jealous with guys and she can tell i get mad. When I talk to a girl like about to date them she gets mad at me and tells me I shouldnt. What I want to know is how does she feel. Does she like me like me? Is she hiding it? What should I do??

2007-10-03 07:30:14 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i dont have any but it is just a opinion question i wanna know what yall think i think it is wrong

2007-10-03 07:28:14 · 16 answers · asked by jimmy 2 in Singles & Dating

In the movie "Revenge of the Nerds" we see that in the end the nerds get the cheerleaders, but is that only fiction?

2007-10-03 07:26:36 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

This is reserch for a Psy 600 class please respond with your age group.
17-under, 18-25, 26-35, 36-45, 46-up
Thanks for the help.

2007-10-03 07:25:34 · 10 answers · asked by John S 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-10-03 07:25:22 · 33 answers · asked by ~% L0v3D_bUt_N0t_3N0uGh %~ 1 in Singles & Dating

i have a question about my fiancee performing. when i give him or** when he is fully er*ct*d- he loves it and is enjoying it one moment-but all of the sudden he loses his e**cti*n and it just shrinks back down. why is this happening? how can we fix it? he is getting really discourage, and i feel bad for him..

2007-10-03 07:24:02 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-10-03 07:23:35 · 7 answers · asked by juma s 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-10-03 07:20:51 · 18 answers · asked by ♣Social Butterflygirl 4 in Singles & Dating

2007-10-03 07:20:42 · 7 answers · asked by Tonya M 1 in Family