in what ways can a girl get hurt by a guys posessiveness?

Answer 1

A guys possesiveness can become extremely controlling examples are isolating her, which in turn can turn into mental abuse so she doesnt leave him and he is in control. It can lead to violent behavior if he believes this person that he is "possessing" is seeing other people, or straying etc. Its almost like an obsession and being fixated but it can go so many ways but they do have the tendency to turn out one of these few ways.

Answer 2

Many girls think possessiveness starts is something cute, but what they fail to realize it that often ends in disaster.

A guy who becomes possessive wants to OWN the girl he's seeing. He wants to dictate what she can and can't do, who she can and can't talk to and where she can and cannot go.
He may want to tell her what she can and cannot wear from clothing to make-up.

The girl gets hurt when she accepts his control and the possessiveness escalates into physical violence...as is often the case. If the girl attempts to leave the guy, the violence can become even more life-threatening.

Girls can also be hurt by their lack of control of their own decisions. She can lose family and friends which damages her social skills and destroys her support system. She is likely to suffer emotional damage because of the horrible things many possessive men will say to her which can also damage her self-esteem. She may become depressed or even suicidal because she is not allowed much, if any, contact with the outside world. She may also very well suffer physically, as many possessive men will eventually assault the girl they are dating (or are married to).

Hope this answers your question.

Answer 3

The girl will be miserable. She will lose her friends, and might think that the bf is doing this out of love. She end up being trapped in this cycle of misery with a guy who has insecurity issues, and needs to control another person to feel better.

Answer 4

i dated a guy for almost 5 years and it was during the high school to college transition. we were best friends and intensely in love. his possessiveness set me back mentally far behind my peers. I wasn’t aloud to go out with friends, my social life was very restricted and there were things I wasn’t aloud to do because of his jealousness…that were completely normal life things. It’s been a year since we broke up and I’m still not over it because of how deeply he brainwashed and how intensely I had to think FOR and ABOUT him 24/7. not a day goes by I don’t think about him. After the break up I went nuts…did stupid things to try and ‘act out’ on all that I ‘missed out on’ during those prime years of partying- if you will and only made it worse. I don’t know if I’ll ever get over it…the days keep passing, I keep trying and nothing is working.

Answer 5

I just think that if a girl puts up with a guy being very possesive and/or controlling of her, it will eventually hurt her self confidence.

Answer 6

if a guy is overly possessive, i doubt you'd have much freedom to go around with your friends (especially guy friends). sometimes, these kinds of guys go over the top and hurt their girlfriends because of petty arguments about not telling him where she went, who she's with, etc.

Answer 7

Your self esteem can get affected. You start to feel like you need to answer to him all the time or ask to do soemthing. Get out of there while you can.....

Answer 8

Example,

The guy sees the girl has something that is his, he grabs it away from her and knocks her down screaming "ITS MINE!!"
When she falls she could bump her head and it would hurt.

Answer 9

he wont let her go out with her friends, he always doubts her calls her a liar....totally destroys her self worth......if you are in this situation please honey GET OUT

Answer 10

losing freedom, losing confidence, losing the real her.