what does it mean when your spouse admits he doesn't want to spend time with you or wants to go out with you?

Answer 1

First, have you been having any issues or has he been acting distant?

From experience, if a spouse is showing interest in spending alot of time away from you, you need to watch out. NOW- same instance, if he is doing activities like sports, work or something that you know he enjoys and is still paying attention to you, dont jump the gun so fast. however, walk cautiously. If you have been having issues, this can be a sign of things to come. be careful and talk with him. communication is huge in any relationship and can open alot of doors for you. if there are issues between the two of you, get them fixed quick. it is both of you who need to do this. marriage is a two way street. take care and keep your chin up. keep your eyes open.

Answer 2

First of all, I would require clarification. So you should be asking him that question. But if my spouse were to say the same thing to me, I would be concerned that our relationship was over. People get married to be together and spend more time together, not less.
It could also mean that there is something you are doing or saying or some problem that makes him not want to be around you. You can't work on that as a couple if he doesn't let you know what it is.

Answer 3

I would say that you are having major problems in your marriage. Try to find out why he feels the way he feels.
Are you nagging him all the time, do you demand things from him all the time, are you to clingy, are you not emotional involved in your relationship, are you cold & aloft, has your sex drive dropped & so then goes your intimacy, are you condesending. Or is this the way he acts towards you?
Is he seeing someone else, or have you 2 just gone your separate ways?
Once you find out some answers then you can make a decision on what you want to do, stay together or separate, possibly even get a divorce, but at least you will know what is really going on.

Answer 4

It depends on the situation. If your spouse states this while sleeping, then it's possible that they just want to go back to sleep and be left alone.

However, if your spouse admits the statement your asking about while coherent and looking right at you, it means exactly that. You can analyze it as much as you want but that is what it boils down to.

You have two choices. You can stay married to someone who has divorced you in their mind, or you can divorce them and find someone who values your time and WANTS to spend their time with you.

Best wishes with your decision.

Answer 5

It could just mean that he wants a little bit of a break. Are things going well between you two otherwise or has he been complaining about things? Not that I'm trying to blame you, but do you nag him to do things or just let him be? Sometimes men just like to get home and unwind. I mean, who doesn't, right? But I know sometimes when men do things to try to help, women will yell at them because the men "aren't doing it right". Is this the case? If it is, then I would suggest just letting him do his own thing for awhile. If after a few months of this he says he still doesn't want to go out with you, then find out exactly why.

Answer 6

it means that the "spark" you had before has died. It might return, it might not, but if you have kids I would urge you to stick it out because they are the ones that actually get hurt by a divorce. Kids are hurt the most by conflict, so if there is conflict in your house now, you need to fix that, but if not, divorce is not the answer... it ends up causing more conflict for children (about 3 times out of 4).
If you don't have kids and the paragraph above is just me babbling... I'd say go to marriage counseling before you give up. Too many couples end up scrapping a marriage that would otherwise be salvaged!

Answer 7

It means that there is you are hurting her/ him in one way or another and s/he is pissed off at you unless you take step or measure to correct what you doing wrong. S/he lack motivation and become un interested in a relationship making him/he contamplating either to give a second trial or move on is nothing changes. The best way to your solution is to have a better communication, address the problem and see what you can do to correct what is not right. Good luck and take care of yourself

Answer 8

It means he needs some time away from you. Too much of a good thing can become a bad thing. If he spent more time being busy and doing other things, perhaps he might cherish and enjoy the few short moments you do have together.

Answer 9

that your relationship is in serious trouble. that being with you doesn't meet his needs.
which means you are in a serious problem.
get busy figuring out what your spouse needs and taking actions to meet those needs. first step is often doing what the other person wants to do (ie going to a football game or something you wouldn't normally enjoy).

Answer 10

It means that you have a serious problem in the relationship. Chances are likely that he has something going on on the side. It is rare that a man would just lose interest for no reason.....