i am dating a girl that every one says is a cheater and a whore and i dont wanna belive them cause i really like her... idk if i can trust her
2007-10-03 07:38:51 · 13 answers · asked by jimmy 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You should just trust her untill she give you a reason not to. She might have been a whore and cheater because she never found someone she liked enough to settle down for. You should just tune everyone out and stick with her if you really like her.
2007-10-03 07:43:33 · answer #1 · answered by California Kush 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well a relationship is build on trust hun, and if u feel you cant trust each each other..theres no relationship..and other people are always trying to get relationships to fail..thats how people are. and you cant believe everything you hear..i mean wouldnt you like to give her a chance? i mean it takes time to really start a good relationship and if u think its not meant to be or worth it then dont date her..but you never know unless you take time to think about it or give her chance..if she does turn out to be a cheater and whore well then thats her problem..but atleast you really thought about it and took time to really have a relationship..and youll be the good guy..but just take time to think about it. dont let others pick for you.
2007-10-03 07:45:49 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
all people that are jealous and could not have their way...will tell you all sort of stories. however, if this is true...it all started before your relationship. forget what these people have to say. rather enjoy every moment that you spend with her and allow your relationship to grow into the real "trust" situation. this does not happen overnight....don't fight or argue what other people has to say or question her about her past...what really matter now in your relationship is the present and possible future!
2007-10-03 07:46:25 · answer #3 · answered by wife in South Africa 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont believe what others say or think all that matters is what you think and how you feel. If you let yourself care what others think and what not then you will never be your trueself in any situation you come into. Trust has to be earned allow her the chance to earn it despite the rumours.
2007-10-03 07:42:38 · answer #4 · answered by Vanessa 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How old is this girl? How old are you? How reliable are your sorces? Are those the people that she cheated on, and whored around with?
Ask her if she's a cheating whore! That will solve the whole problem instantly!! p.s. don't forget to duck!!!!
2007-10-03 07:51:05 · answer #5 · answered by david 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are responsible for you own actions!
Ask urself, if u really love her and can continue to do so, despite of all the rumours goin around!
Trust is the most imp thing here and you urself has to make up a decision here! no1 ever can help u in that!
trust me!
2007-10-03 07:44:32 · answer #6 · answered by Soo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no trust equals not a good relationship. if i were to date someone and i couldnt trust that person, i would not bother dating at all. problems such as suspecion will arise, jealousy, stress and lots of other problems. date her casually if u want to see where it goes.
2007-10-03 07:50:55 · answer #7 · answered by luvis4losers 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, you have to trust her before you even liked her.
If you really want to have a real and serious relationship with her, you have to have faith and trust on her. And tell her.
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2007-10-03 07:45:57 · answer #8 · answered by freako03 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Then tune them out completely. Wait until SHE gives you a reason not to trust her. Screw everybody else.
2007-10-03 07:41:17 · answer #9 · answered by lexiss91 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
lol........
umm i would think about what you 2 have and if you can trust her! no matter what people tell you..(even me).. can you look past something like that....
PS.. if you don't have trust in someone, you don't have a relationship!
2007-10-03 16:08:20 · answer #10 · answered by Im addicted to the memory of him 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋