Family & Relationships - 3 October 2007

have had a husband who passed away? I was just short of 24 when my first husband passed away as a result of a freak accident, we had no children together. We were married almost 5 years. Even though it's been 13 years later and I'm remarried and have 3 children, I still think of my first husband, look at his pictures on occasion and the odd time I even have dreamed about him. Please share with me your story. Thank you.

2007-10-03 07:19:21 · 6 answers · asked by Perkymo 3 in Marriage & Divorce

I am sixteen years old and i got my driver license In march of this year. My dad is sick and has cancer on his heart (lung cancer).His friend that lives with us moved here to supposedly help him and us out! She always asks my dad for money and she always gets what she wants. My mom died when i was 10. She always tries to take her place. She calls me a B*TCH! all the time and my dad never says a thing. Now that i have my license after all that time now she has me driving for her ALL THE TIME and getting her grandsons from school, and my sister. She says im her SHUFFER! It's all rediculous to me. I'm sixteen years old cooking everyday, cleaning, getting this and that, picking up people for HER. She says I play mother!

Just tell me what you think i got know idea what to do or say to her or my dad?
When i do say something to my dad he always say,"AW BULLSHIT" or "SHUT YOUR MOUTH I DON'T WANT TO HER IT!"

2007-10-03 07:19:19 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

okay so i have a problem with my hubby looking up naked girls online, he doesnt do it all the time and doesnt understand why it bothers me because i dont mind the porn but the dif to me is that the porn has a purpose when he is taking care of himself and the ladies he looks up dont because he doesnt take care of himself which means he is just looking at their bodies..i know all guys do this but it bothers me i cant help it so the other day he said he wouldnt do it..well today we got into a fight that had absolutley nothing to do with this situation..but of course he brought it up and told me that if he isnt with another women that i could just deal with it..i am so pissed off right now and dont know what to do..if something bothered your spouse that bad wouldnt you stop?? why would he say this to me and be such an ***??

2007-10-03 07:18:28 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Hey everyone ii need yur help
well i have a boy friend but ii dont knoww if i should get off with him 4 the 1st time. and everyone is forsing me 2
BUT iim only 13 !! x But ii wanna get off with him but im scared
HEELPP MEE !!

2007-10-03 07:13:37 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-10-03 07:13:12 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-10-03 07:09:11 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

My boyfriend and I have been together about 4 months now.. we love each other with all our heart. Well he has been trying to get me to move in for about 2 months now… I Do want to and I want to be with him forever, get married and have children. I just don’t want us to breakup cuz I know it’s a lot different when you live with someone.. I don’t know if it is too soon to move in or should I go ahead and test the water out…He wants to get married also just don’t know when yet

. Just give me some good advice.. No dumb **** please, this is serious business……

2007-10-03 06:37:46 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Hi i am 36 years old and have just split from my girlfriend who's 30. We were together fo four years and i thought we'd spend the rest of our lives together, i proposed and she accepted a year ago. 2 years ago she started a new job working in a furniture shop she made loads of new friends which i was really pleased with as before she was quite quiet and only had one friend from school. She was always goin out drinkin with these other girls(in there 20's) and i didnt mind as i told her i wanted her to do whatever made her happy, i asked her to spend more time with me and we set aside three nights a week to be together. When we first started going out after 4-5 months we said we wanted children together, ive always wanted kids and long to be a dad, we agreed to wait til we were financially secure as i was in loads of debt then, we were in a better situation for the last year but when i brought it up she'd flip out! Now she's gone, will i ever find a woman2 mother my kids? or to late now!

2007-10-03 06:03:59 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

whats on his mind? he wants me to be the way he want.
he is like do this or do that...else get out of th ehouse because u live in my house. what is he?

2007-10-03 06:02:56 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

My bf found out that I had cheated on him once five months earlier. He decided that he wanted to still be with me even though he was very hurt. I understand that with that comes all the questions of why and how and even the disbelief that what you are saying about your feelings toward him are true. I can't help but wonder how long this should be acceptable from him?

2007-10-03 06:02:33 · 1 answers · asked by BSweet 1 in Singles & Dating

I'm lucky enough to be married to a wonderful man who just happens to be from Mississippi. I moved here from Illinois, where I was raised. I've, for the most part, enjoyed my time here in the South (capital "s"), with a few exceptions...

My brother-in-law took every opportunity to make fun of ANYTHING north of the Mason-Dixon line since my husband and I started dating, making it pretty clear how he feels about anyone from the North (capital "n"). I've put up with this junk for over 6 years from him, and since my husband and I have gotten married, even my mother-in-law has joined in with the "Yankee" comments, most of them are pretty ugly and hard to laugh off.

I think they believe it's okay to make fun of my home, but it's gotten very old. I don't make fun of the "South" despite the fact that I would have plenty of material with which to work.

How can I remind them that the "North" is, in fact, my home, and the comments they make about the "North" really aren't funny?

2007-10-03 05:47:36 · 15 answers · asked by Love My Hubby - Hate His Mom 6 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-10-03 05:42:32 · 14 answers · asked by farmboy 2 in Marriage & Divorce

im asking again casue no one gave me the answer i needed
Can you get married twice?
serious question.. if you get married in las vegas is it possible to still get marreid somewhere else to someone different at a later date?


11 minutes ago
ok im guessing you want more details..
im not married.. and have no intention of getting married.
from the uk and a friend of mine said shes getting married to her other half in vegas at christmas because if you get marreid in vegas you can still get married to someoen different in the uk without having a divorce..

im sure this isnt true and would just liek to know

2007-10-03 05:40:18 · 7 answers · asked by my.name.is.... 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-10-03 05:40:15 · 15 answers · asked by pretty 1 in Singles & Dating

my ex husband died 3years ago and had remarried we divorced in 2000

2007-10-03 05:34:04 · 12 answers · asked by kim g 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Well Ive been going out with this guy long distance for a long time now he lives in vegas and I live in cali but I love him a lot and hes showed me hes loved me in many ways Do you think It will workout??

2007-10-03 05:33:06 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

When my husband is stressed out from work or upset for anything he picks a fight with me over dumb stuff. Im really starting to hate him for it. Weve had many conversations where i tell him about what he is doing and he acknowledges it but nothing has changed. I try not to fight back but he knows what buttons to push so i kinda cant avoid getting fired up. What can i do, please help me.

2007-10-03 05:32:31 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Personality-wise and intellectually I coincidentally seem to get along best with women that are a few years older than me. While many of them state "where were you X number of years ago" none are willing to give a younger guy a chance even if they claim to really like conversing with him. Why is this?

2007-10-03 05:32:23 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

No vulgarity, please!

2007-10-03 05:32:11 · 3 answers · asked by tangerine 7 in Singles & Dating

Hi,
I have a boyfriend since 8 months. Neither of us was virign when we met but neither of us has had any sexual relations with anyone since we met.
He cares for me and buys me gifts like jewels, chocolate, wine, etc. But he has never attempted to kiss me or even remotely suggest sex.
I am very keen to make love with him. I wonder if he is really interested in me. If I tell him directly to hit the sack, he might percieve me as a lose woman.
I am sure he is not a gay. He had a live in relationship a few years ago.
How do I ask him if he is not interested in sex with me or with anyone? Without making him feel insecure or making me look like a hooker?

2007-10-03 05:31:58 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

my guy's 23 but he's having trouble getting hard/have an erection during foreplay why may this the case?
The first time i thought its okay, but we're tried to sleep together 2/3 times since then he still have trouble getting hard.
i dont think he has erectile dysfucntion cos hes so young
could it have anything to do w his inhibitions such as- not being secure abt our r/ship/feelings for me or still not completely over past gf etc etc
he said he loves me v much and is sexually very attracted to me but his body doesnt seem to be confirming what hes saying

2007-10-03 05:28:38 · 9 answers · asked by bluemoon_743 1 in Singles & Dating

such as fantasy or desire??????

2007-10-03 05:28:09 · 13 answers · asked by back2future 5 in Marriage & Divorce

Across the net on a MMMORPG i have a friend who lives in butan. she is married to 2 husbands and they both live in the house as her. She has 1 child to one of them(can't remmber whcih) and when i chatted to the child(he is learning english in school) he seems okay with it.in bhuatn polygamy/yandery is very rare but socially accepted and legal.i havent talked to the husbands but i have seen pictures of them(the game gives everyone a webpage with accopunt)

i dont mind polyandery/gomy but wat r ure opinions? n why? if u post any racial stuff agaisnt bhutan it will get reporyted.

2007-10-03 05:26:39 · 26 answers · asked by possessed by insanity 3 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-10-03 05:24:16 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Recently I decided to speak more positively about my choice of men, but the positive affect on my life hasn't happened yet. I have been with one jerk after another. I am bored- not just that, but wondering what it takes to find a nice guy. After all I have had an ****** detector on my forehead for too long- I want it off! It seems I meet a nice one- but then the truth comes out and "ANOTHER ONE" in my life- ugh! I just feel that i want a man in my life that partially has it together- at the very least. A man that knows the SECRET of a woman- that we love to be adored- not watch men adore themselves- hahaha. From a woman who is tired of seeing men look at themselves more.

2007-10-03 05:16:30 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

ive been so used to everyone being mad and me being the happy one (or at least seeming to be) that now that everyone is very happy again, i feel way low and sad. and i want to be cheerful but it's all rushing to me and i keep suspecting that everyone is secretly mad or upset. what the heeckk?

2007-10-03 05:12:22 · 3 answers · asked by mandy 2 in Singles & Dating

Theres this girl that keeps on flirtin with my bf and I cant do nothin about it I trust him and everythin but that whore has a bf and she FLIRTS WITH MY MAN and I dont know wat to do should I tell her off or wat ???Shes my bfs friend well theres two girls that keep on flirtin with him and rubbin on his arm and stuff and both of them are his girl frinds but it makes me mad and he knows it and he tries to aviod it but they keep doin it even if they know hes going out with me wat should I do to make these girls stop???

2007-10-03 05:10:59 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-10-03 05:09:53 · 15 answers · asked by awwwdree 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

how come the medias stopped talking about it, ive barely heard a word about it on the news?

2007-10-03 05:07:49 · 10 answers · asked by The World At War 1 in Singles & Dating

we are very in love and i know he wouldnt, why am i having these constantly???

2007-10-03 05:05:01 · 10 answers · asked by canthearu12 1 in Singles & Dating